| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/13/2005 6:10:16 AM | | I cannot believe what i just read, maybe it should be rewritten because if that is how you really feel you will never find a woman on here, and yes some women can go without sex, while looking for the right man.Not ALL women Spread their legs like butter and act like nuns | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/13/2005 11:13:09 AM | There are people out there that still have morals and the will power to uphold them. Myself included. Sex isn't that important. If you truely love someone sex shouldn't matter. It's all about self control. Personally I would feel much better with a girl that doesn't put out compared to one that does. I don't like to judge people from thier past but, when one wants to get "dirty" the first time i mean the or go out on a first date with 'em I end it. Only because it leaves me with the thought of how many other guys has she hopped on before me. As for the original post. If she is seeing you less and less without reason she might be trying to get you to break up with her. Expecially if you have been having sex and now she is cutting you off. If she is being sincere and you love her make sure and plan on getting married I don't see what the problem is. It's just sex.
Sex is a survival tool. It feels good so we do it. We do it to have children. We have children so the human race may continue forward. i am cursed with a scientific mind I guess. Analizing, studing, observing, remembering, contemplating. It's given me a different aspect on the world and the people in it.
So don't stress the petty stuff man. if you love her wait. If you are suspicious that she isn't feelingh the same she was confront her. Honesty and haste can be the best remedy for situations involving a relationship. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/13/2005 3:52:53 PM | | Well - because of personal reason I decided for myself to go without sex. I wanted to prove to people that i could do it - no one beleived me - wanted to go a year - only lasted 5 months. Im still amazed i went that long - but don't think i could do it again. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/13/2005 4:42:47 PM | | Yes it is true and some have been without longer then that.some do it becaue thats there choice.its not because they dont love the guy.There are some women who are born again virgins and thats for alot of different reasons.some because its part of there relegion.some dont believe in sex before marriage and some just abstaining untill they get married. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/13/2005 4:48:58 PM | Yes I can definitely go without sex.
I have sex with myself on a daily basis, but I haven't had sex with anyone else in quite a while.
After a while I think we kind of forget what we're missing ... that makes it easier. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/14/2005 5:24:32 AM | I look at it this way:
I would rather go years without good sex than having the ability to go out and get laid every night, catch VD's, impregnate strangers and/or just feel plain 'ol dirty all the time
...i could care less about getting laid. i went through that when i was between the ages of 18 and 21 and in my prime....lol | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/14/2005 7:16:38 AM | Yes! Woman can go without Sex! i can go without Sex for Months! but then again to me i can't go without for years or anything like that...juss Months...then i would really need it!  | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/14/2005 7:39:32 AM | Obviously, masturbation should be ruled out, right? Women just don't need a MAN to have sex; in our defense, however, you'll play HELL getiing that dildo to mow the lawn | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/14/2005 7:43:50 AM | | I wonder if you could! Cut the end off of it, and rig it to spin blades. I bet it's possible! Might even be able to do a bit of hedge trimming! *snicker* | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/14/2005 7:56:04 AM | Has she been sexualy abused at some point in her life?
Women love sex just as much as men. it's a very emotional act.Maybe she is afraid of becoming emotionally attached? If you truly love someone you want to be bonded together,she may need some professional help. it could also be the way she was raised to think about sex. It took me until my 30's to realize it wasn't dirty.
My Mother always said girls were sluts if they had sex before marriage.I know some people say sex isn't that important but It makes you feel rejected when the one you love doesn't want to be close to you. Maybe you should both see someone about this.It sure would suck to get married and be frustrated all the time.
Good luck and I hope things work out for you. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/14/2005 8:10:54 AM | There is more going on here than the sex/relationship/love stuff but let's keep it simple for now; some people have lower testosterone levels whichs leads to less of a sexual appetite. The more testosterone the body produces the more one wants sex.
So, she may have lower levels of this hormone.
If she wants to change that she can--any doctor can help her.
If she doesn't that is also fine--it's all a matter of choice.
Yours and hers.
You have to decide if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone whose sexual appetite differs from yours.
And this is the real kicker, one of my friends is a marriage councilor--she says that sex may only consist of 5% of the relationship, but if that 5 % is wrong or flawed, the entire marriage is doomed to fail, even if the other 95% is great.
I don't have the time to list all the reasons for this but a few of them should give you an idea of why this is true: one, people have physical needs and wants(not the same thing). Sex is a very powerful need and an even more powerful want. Thing about the lengths some go through to fullfill these(need--how many people purchase aids or devices to get an orgasm?)....wants--think about the folk who have fetishes, for just one example, and you'll see the difference here). Both people need to have very similiar needs and wants for the relationship to work--if either of these is off too much for either party the relationship is doomed: the one not getting the need or want will be very unhappy. And we all know what happens to a relationship when someone is deeply unhappy about that relationship.
This is one of those grim realities. It's not pretty; it's not nice, but it is. Both people have to be bonded pretty closely on this level for the rest of the relationship to work.
If she doesn't like sex you, no matter how much she says she love you, you will be deeply unhappy, unsatisfied in the relationship and more likely to scuttle the relationship with behaviors that will hurt her.
That's just one side of this--here's another--what if she is just playing a game to see if you really love her or just want sex?
You two need to really talk, define terms, be honest with each other and discuss this and then make a rational decision. There is no point in ruining either of your lives because of a misunderstanding, or because you're sexually incompatible.
Good luck. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/14/2005 9:12:09 AM | Obviously, masturbation should be ruled out, right? Women just don't need a MAN to have sex; in our defense, however, you'll play HELL getiing that dildo to mow the lawn
There's always somebody who'll mow the grass without sex being involved.
For all of the people who are getting deep .... sometimes it's just a matter of not wanting to have sex until after we're in a relationship for a while. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/14/2005 1:36:42 PM | | This is how I see it.If you allow your mind to wonder on it alot and think about it,eventually you are going to want it.but for me.I remember being in middle school and they were girls having sex.I was like wow.but its something that is actually happening alot now even among middle schoolers.Its alot of things you have to consider as well.just because you use birth control and use a condom is no guarantee that you arent going to catch anything and there is no guarentee that you wont end up pregnant as well.Ive heard stories of women on birth control and still getting pregnant.also another thing its against the law in some states to have an abortion. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/14/2005 5:41:21 PM | I've went 2 years without it, until a month ago, after I had dated a guy for a few weeks, before we found out we weren't really for each other... I was celibate and enjoying it. I was trying to save myself, til I had a very long relation with someone (which I haven't yet, in 3 years now)...
Leana | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/14/2005 5:49:23 PM | | I know it is hard for me . AND , I don't go for these one nightsers either . My ex-girlfreind dumped me 5 years ago . | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/15/2005 12:17:44 AM | | you can do anything you want to just sometimes you don't want to.it just depends on the person and what they really want. | |
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