| | People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?Page 29 of 33 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33) |  As we now live in the age of convenience, with all this technology, media, internet ect, it seems people are constantly looking for more. Were spoiled! It seems with whatever people find these days, they always want too add on to it, rather than just appreciate what good there is already. It seems people these days think it's ok to have unrealistically high expectations of everything and everyone. In expecting so much, when find it we can't except it, we get dissapointed and look elsewhere. And the process repeats. | |
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| People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/7/2012 12:17:21 PM | | I think at our age we all have our issues. What are our issues and what issues of the other person's can we handle plus ours. It is how does your life fit it with mine and can we make it work? Plus I don't think our generation looks at marriage the way our grandparents did. It is interesting the way some good things have changed with time and thinking and the way some things haven't. | |
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| People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/8/2012 2:24:29 PM | I know I have some issues. I can't taste or smell since I was really stupid 4 years ago and rear ended a semi. I can't taste or smell anymore. So my parnter would have to be willing to let me use his taste buds, be willing to describe how something taste to be me when I make something new or if I am trying something I have never eaten at a restuarant before. I also figure if I don't want to hurt him if he is helping me or talking to me in my kitchen, thats a couple of pluses in his favor. | |
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| People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/9/2012 10:33:45 AM | | Yeah I am 34 now and honestly looking for something special (seriously tired of dating). I dont think there is anything wrong with me. I dont think you can really generalize the entire population of guys over 30 like that sure for some it might be issues holding them back, but for others there is no reason why it just hasnt happened yet. I honestly do not fit the normal demographic in my area/state so I find it hard to relate to many ppl here and vice versa that and the older you get it seems as if the oppertunities are less to meet someone. | |
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| People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/9/2012 12:00:14 PM | We change throughout life. We are not the same in our 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s and don't necessarily want the same things we did when we were in our 20s. Relationships formed then have broken up for many of us, and who wants to be with someone we no longer share much with? So, not a case of character flaws; just a case of seeking sharing with others who interest us in non-traditional ways.
In my case, I'm not looking to "settle down" with someone. I'm looking for interesting relationships that nurture my soul - and offer good sex, and people who can share with me some of the activities I enjoy doing (and hopefully they'll like too).
The agenda changes in relationships throughout life. The agenda of settling down and having a family is not necessarily the same for everybody. For those of us past childbearing age, relationships take on a very different color. Most women work these days and don't want the trappings of a traditional marriage. I certainly don't want anything of the kind.
There are many levels of relationships and many ways of expressing being in a close relationship that are outside the confines of the institution of marriage. Thank goodness for that. | |
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| People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/11/2012 4:10:31 PM | No way! I've had several opportunities to get married. And those people weren't the right ones. I'd rather be single than be in a bad relationship or marriage. This is serious stuff. Why mess it up and be stuck with the consequences?
"Attractive, successful, funny, sweet, caring, 31 year old guy" | |
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| People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/11/2012 9:17:02 PM | | Sometimes u are enjoying life and being single and in relationshipe that u cant see being forever. Then one day you wake up and you realize that time has gotten away from you. I dont think everyone plans their futures. Some just live for the moment a little longer than others. And there is nothing wrong with that. Kinda like some people shop for Christmas all throughout the year (they are good planners) while some of us are last minute the week of shoppers. Nothing wrong with that. We just live day to day. | |
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| People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/19/2012 8:42:07 PM | | I'm over 30, never married, and no children. What's the reason for this? I suffer from a disease called UGLY. This is a crippling affliction that leaves over 150000 dateless in the United States alone. We must take action to stop this debilitating disease and give a new lease on life to those unfortunate individuals struggling under the yoke of it's tyranny. Please won't you help? | |
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| People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/20/2012 11:30:48 AM |
I'm over 30, never married, and no children. What's the reason for this? I suffer from a disease called UGLY. This is a crippling affliction that leaves over 150000 dateless in the United States alone. We must take action to stop this debilitating disease and give a new lease on life to those unfortunate individuals struggling under the yoke of it's tyranny. Please won't you help?
LOL my new facebook status ;-)
Seriously though, dude, your not ugly. I've SEEN ugly man, sure, your no George Clooney, but your no Rush Limbaugh either. Good people can still see good people, and unless your still a virgin, there is still hope ;-) | |
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| People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/20/2012 3:54:54 PM | | This one's easy. Don't one in two marriages fail? or 2 out of 3 or something to that affect? I'm only supposing many men marry after 30...and what they're saying then is all the good looking people in marriages somehow escape that stat too? Ha..Now if the good looking guy decides to take his time to make sure he doesn't make the same mistake twice he is somehow flawed? Sorry..As Spock would say..."That's just not logical". | |
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| People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/21/2012 12:20:46 PM | | I'm 34, no kids, never been married. The only thing wrong with me is I refuse to settle. I have had many opportunities to get married and start a family. Didn't feel ready and definitely didn't feel those guys were the right ones. Nothing wrong with someone who knows who they are and what they want. | |
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| People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/21/2012 4:36:38 PM | | I agree 100%. Never pushed for marriage because I was in long term committed relationships. I can't say they weren't with the right people because they seemed right until the relationship got old and they weren't willing to fight for it. Of course, it's similar to those who got married and divorced after 8 or 14 years in my case. | |
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