| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/9/2008 8:10:20 AM | | Being mean is the only way us guys get any respect. Otherwise you women would walk the hell all over us. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/9/2008 7:27:37 PM | the question shouldnt be why are hot guys so mean, but rather why are mean guys so hot. the answer to that is that women need to feel validated about themselves and when guys dont validate their beauty or other atributes it flips an atraction switch within their subconsious because they want to know why is this guy not attracted to me, its not that he's being mean, he is just not satisfying your need to be validated and this intregues you which in turn moves you to be atracted to him because you see him to have higher value or to be of higher status than you because he is not paying atention to you so you think that he is not atracted to you. and that makes you more atracted to him. so the more he does this the more atractive he becomes to you. he may have started off on a scale of 1-10 as a 5 to you. but by the time you realize he is not validating your need to feel atractive you are viewing him as a 10.
I am an acomplished pickup artist and this is something I practice in my daily life. so this comes from experience as well as from the material I have studied to get where I am today.
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/9/2008 7:42:40 PM | I have only on thing to say.
There are good guys out there.
And that doesn't mean they're not hot.
Being a gentleman, taking care, listening, etc., are things that are learned, not inherent to the individual. It's an art. It is learned.
It is important that a "mean" guy to learns to be "nice". It is just as important for the lady to learn to discern the "mean guys" before investing her heart.
Oh, and there are mean girls out there. I have subjective experience. 
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/9/2008 9:38:50 PM | ahhaha RONIN, I KNEW you were a pickup artist. I have pickup artist radar, yo.
But you totally have a point..
and I don't remember the name, but the guy who decided what I have and haven't experienced, that's rude, man. You don't know me.
and yes. There ARE great, good looking guys.
But the jerks are far more memorable than that hunk who held the door open for you. Women are so sensitive, we're more likely to remember how horribly a guy treated us. We'll dwell on it until we throw up. It's sick. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/9/2008 10:29:38 PM | It's only natural to desire what does not come easy, but it's equally insincere for a fellow who's basically a good man to put on a jerk act as it is for a guy to be a suck up, though it doesn't appear as weak. But, speaking for myself, the kind of woman I want does not take kindness for weakness.
A little tip, RONIN: no good "pickup artist" would show his hand for all his "targets" (or whatever you call them) to see on a dating site. You know your messages do show up on your profile, don't you? | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/10/2008 7:30:19 AM | Having been on the recieving end of this type of behavior myself, I can only say that people treat you the way you allow them to treat you. Once you step up and raise the BS flag and let em know its not cool, one of two things will happen; The will respect you for respecting yourself, or they 'll be outta there. If its number 2 you don't need em anyway. Happy fishing!!
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/10/2008 11:14:47 AM |
and I don't remember the name, but the guy who decided what I have and haven't experienced, that's rude, man. You don't know me.
Hmmm that would I assume be me. Interesting you find it rude that I should "judge" you by your years and therefor assume what you have and have not experienced. But you do not find it rude to do so by how people look.
One would argue both are superficial but age is far more likely an accurate gauge of experience then appearence is fitness. So why is it okay for Barbie to feel she deserves Ken and vice versa, but not for an elder to explain to a youth they have not yet experienced enough?
People need to learn that life is not about what one deserves or feel they are entitled to, being nice is not the means to find a mate it merely is the right thing to do. Nor is being an ***hole the means to a mate it is merely the wrong thing and ultimately fails as well. People need to stop thinking I'm beautiful so I deserve beautiful, or I am ugly I only deserve ugly.
People need to start realizing that people are people and it matters far more who cares and will be beside you then what that looks like to other people. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/10/2008 12:17:17 PM | | Because it gets them laid. If they were nice guys, they would just end up as friends. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/11/2008 10:42:10 PM | Don't worry the mean hot guys get their day when their hair falls out and they have to run to the drug store and buy some minoxidal...........................
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/12/2008 12:57:03 AM | | I wouldn't know because I don't talk to them.......................I like sweet, down-to-earth guys who know how to fix your car..............mmmm baby you got my motor running | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/17/2008 3:08:42 PM | The thing about "Nice Guys" is they ain't quite drama free either....................and they ain't so nice when things don't go their way, so please stop killing us with the
Nice
Guy rant...................plueeze..................
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/18/2008 7:50:29 AM | | I don't know that I've had that much experience with "mean men" per say, but the more egotistical the man the more likely it is that I'll think he's attractive. It's a sad, sad state of mind to be in. Confidence is sexy, even when it's gone overboard, and it's even sexier if you can catch someone who thinks he's god's gift to women. Sucks. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/18/2008 8:09:56 AM | I hate to break it to anyone, but hot women can be just plain nasty as well.
There is a bumper sticker that sums it up very well....
"Mean People $uck" | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/18/2008 2:52:37 PM | | I think it has to do with confidence, but it can go overboard. I dont ever make anyone feel bad. Its swagger, i know if i go to a party, i make more money, probably better looking then 85% of the people there, have more personality and can conversate with 100 percent of the people there and make them laugh. I think its just knowing that you've got your shit together. Making someone feel bad or being a "dick" is just another reason i get into fights, i dont let stuff like that happen around me. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 1/5/2009 4:01:21 PM | Some girls are attracted to mean guys.
Also guys tend to become very mean when a woman tries to trap them (if you leave me this relationship is over!!). Guys always need their freedom, if they love you, they will never use this freedom against you, but they need to know first that you trust them with it, and that they can isolate themselves when they need to be lonely (and they need it from time to time)....
Women have to understand this. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 1/5/2009 4:41:41 PM | | Darma, you got that one right. Have you ever noticed though that the "hotties", "beefcakes", and "arm candies" are usually still single at an older age. Many of these people end up alone because they believe they are too good for "normal" people and pass up many opportunities to get to know "real" people. Yes, they may date many people, but in the end, they are still alone, never building anything solid. Yes, there are very attractive people who are "normal" and are not so full of themselves. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 1/5/2009 5:08:03 PM | | were not mean, we can be nice sweet and sensative. i swear to god, every girl i have been with tell me they hate guys and shit, tell me that they break their heart cause were all lying cheating pigs. well ive changed everysingle girl that ive been with'soppinion. there are guys out there that arent like the average joe u know.. and not trying to be**** jjust cofident. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 1/5/2009 6:05:46 PM | | I think everyone has their own opinion about what is "hot or not". What you have perceived to be hot I may not. That said I don't necessarily believe "hot guys are mean" A good looking guy might have an over inflated ego based solely on his opinion of himself, that doesn't mean the world views him as such. A "hot" guy really has it all together in my opinion, looks, intelligence, class and confidence. A man bearing these qualities would definately not be mean he would be a "good man"! Anyone lacking in all those qualities who think they are all that would be mistaken! | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 1/5/2009 7:15:55 PM | | Perhaps it isnt all attractive people, just the concieted ,shallow ones. I know lots of people who are good looking and are not mean or concieted, but they sure get treated badly by a lot of unattractive mean people who are jealous of them. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 1/5/2009 7:42:59 PM | | its about how the mind works that makes everyone different. I can tell you that some people have values that they pick up from society. Well if you ever heard a quote "you can never judge a book by its cover" it is true even thought you think that they look very nice the possibility of being mean is based on what they have been taught around people. I suggest trying to look for a person for your own standards instead of looking for their looks. For some people us men find mean as a tease for the women to find us more interesting. take pity on me as i'm 21 years old. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 1/7/2009 5:56:29 PM | | How funny is this. I wrote a post before of how a lot of women will sacrafice a nice guy who looks average for a hot guy whos an azz...his post this kind of validated my point....so sad | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 1/7/2009 6:38:36 PM | | Probably that "hot" guy learned at a very young age that all he had to do was bat his eyelashes at a girl and the drawers will come down. So perhaps it all went to his head, also theory has it the more of a jerk he is the more chicks he can get to follow him like a bunch of air headed groupies. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 1/9/2009 1:01:18 PM | Its true. I've experimented with this. I date women and act like a total ***hole, and, while I'm fairly decent looking, I'm by no mean's a 'hot' guy. They love it and eat it up and take huge amounts of emotional abuse and come back for more. I'm guessing it has to do with social value. You make them feel as not only a downgrade of yourself, but at the bottom of the barrel so to speak. Being that sex is the womans part of balance in the early days of the relationship, you're gonna get it, and fast, for them to level out the social value. It's idiotic. I have tried to be a nice guy (which I am) and it NEVER works. It's always lets be friends while I date this ***hole who treats me like crap.
It also seems, the hotter the woman is, the better it works. In fact, if you can come of as**** without being too much of a jerk, they will find you fascinating... go figure
So in conclusion, all I can say is 'we teach people how we want to be treated' so you will continue to be treated like crap!!! do what works right. As lame as that is, c'est la vie
P.S. I LOVE you women who feel the need to insult me because I am comfortable in my own skin. Just because I'm a big guy does not mean I have low self esteem, or a lower social value. The mere fact that you need to insult me because of that indicates some of your own self worth issues. See a doctor, it will help YOU :) | |
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