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 heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 9/21/2009 4:19:43 PM
Why are hot girls so mean?
 WomanInProgress

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 277
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 9/21/2009 5:11:19 PM
I've not encountered many really mean hot guys...a couple arrogant guys here and there? Tactless? Dumb as a bucket of hair? Sure...but never "mean", per se. And for the guys that were, not all of them were hot - in fact, most of them were unattractive to me (maybe that's why they were mean, they didn't like the fact that I wasn't interested?). Turns out there are guys like that regardless of their looks.
 whenwillthiswork26

Joined: 11/13/2008
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 9/22/2009 12:55:04 AM
Not sure it's that hot guys are mean as much as lots of guys are mean and some just happen to be hot.
 SomeoneSpecial1981

Joined: 9/8/2009
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 9/27/2009 9:54:10 PM
unfortunately there most guys that can be total assholes but ther is a fer that fall underthat "nice guy" steriotype. Well as for the "nice guy" usually looses a uphill battle in keeping a relationship, and then later turns into a real live d***head all because of being unapprieciated and treated like shit from the woman wom he's with. Thus explains the declining "nice guy" supply


edit: why are hot girls so mean?
 cybury

Joined: 9/22/2009
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 9/28/2009 10:06:43 AM

why are hot guys so mean


same reason women on dating sites are so mean... cuz they can get away with it with no reprecussions
 asia jade

Joined: 6/25/2009
Msg: 281
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 9/29/2009 5:22:05 PM
everyone has a beauty about them we all Gods gift,those who think they're better than others are the ugly ones...heart attitude is what i find attractive..you can be yummy az but everything else about you sucks...ewww who wants that...lozah mentality az...
 magikarp

Joined: 9/7/2009
Msg: 282
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 9/29/2009 7:22:38 PM
For the lulz.

I find intelligent people are mean too, but they tend to be more clever about it.
 Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009
Msg: 283
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Posted: 9/29/2009 9:46:49 PM
Hot guys are mean for the same reason hot girls are mean. They feel they can get away with it
 Kayden09

Joined: 7/10/2009
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 9/29/2009 11:39:06 PM
Because attractive people tend to be shallow, at least the ones who were always attractive. See once you go through life always being told your beautiful and people will like you no matter what, those people really never need a self esteem boost. Now, that takes everything out of the natural order, we need self esteem boost's, we are human, nobody is perfect and to push that into someones head makes the persons soul and ego turn to crap. They become so infatuated with themselves that they become morally corrupt and a complete and total douche.

Now for the people who have to work at they're looks is where you find that being shallow is not applicable, people who were not born and made out to believe that they are perfect, are the people that are truly happy on the inside in the end.

So what it all comes down to is, if you are treated all the time like your perfect, then thats what you will act like. You become, for lack of a better word, an "A**hole"

I blame the schools,lololol
 wheezerina

Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 285
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Posted: 10/7/2009 8:36:29 PM
I recived this email today in my inbox from this guy I sent a letter to.

Why .. uh.. would I talk to you soon? Do you SEE how beautiful the
women I date are? Do you have ANY idea what is relevant to me?
And.. more importantly, who's not? Stick to the braille institute.
You mind find someone who looks like me who'd tolerate you.
Otherwise, find yourself a short, fat, balding, poor, average
intellect guy who might let you come over to his place for 30
minutes.

courtesy of "kindagoofyLA"

I think this is the meanest letter I have ever recived in my whole life. It's okay though I prayed for him and told him that I would love a good man even if he was disabled. Some people just have different priorities. God bless him.
 hgy/gypsy

Joined: 9/28/2009
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 10/7/2009 10:14:47 PM
The same reason HOT girls are so COLD..... because they can be. For every person that tells them to "piss off" ther's 100 more there to kiss there ass....'cause they're "Hot."
 LMFAO925

Joined: 8/26/2009
Msg: 287
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 10/7/2009 10:31:20 PM
good looking people think they are better than others.

They are in fact in some way better(persuasion, popularity and confidence), but some of them are stuck up so they are mean.
 clockwork lime

Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 288
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Posted: 10/8/2009 8:21:21 AM
Wheezerina,

That is indeed the meanest thing I've seen written in a long time.
When you age and lose your good looks, you'll still be beautiful, whereas he will have nothing.
 wheezerina

Joined: 3/23/2009
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Posted: 10/8/2009 8:34:00 AM
I know.

physical beauty is only skin deep. but appearently Ugly goes straight to the core.
 only_a_man

Joined: 6/19/2009
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Posted: 10/8/2009 9:33:30 AM
You are asking the wrong question. You should be asking:

Why do I find mean guys hot?

This most likely has to do with your desire to find a dominant male who you percieve as superior to you, and make him your partner. This can come from a lack of self esteem. You percieve someone being "mean" to you as a sign of superiority, and thus you are attracted to this behavior, and this man. Someone who is kind and loving to you is not very dominant and so they look less "hot" to you.

It should be very clear to everyone that physical attraction should not be at the very top of your list if you want a truly happy and lasting relationship. By nature you will be attracted to the most aggresive and least moral men. Behavior is and will always be the most important trait to look at, not your own lust.
 FarmExe

Joined: 10/1/2009
Msg: 291
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 10/8/2009 9:47:38 AM
Good for you to encounter hot goys. I would like to know what hot guys look like. Physically handsome? However, brainless handsomeness won't be better than flowers in my yard.
 BLUEMISS

Joined: 7/15/2007
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Posted: 10/8/2009 12:59:34 PM
message285 ...If it matters, he's not only mean, but obviously has a very high opinion of himself.Probably the only one that does! Was that mean? lol
 valenciacityx

Joined: 3/10/2009
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Posted: 10/9/2009 11:33:52 PM
Dont mistake mean from uninterested.
Ever get a phone call from a solicitor in the middle of dinner? They dont get the time of day. Now if I ignore something that is coming at me, it aint cuz Im mean, its because I am totally uninterested in it. Am I a hotty? NOPE, but I have been called mean more than a few times. I dont necessarily play well with others; and if that offends you, you find it rude, you find it mean; then really its not my problem, not my fault and I dont care.
Dont confuse mean with indifferent either.
 wheezerina

Joined: 3/23/2009
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Posted: 10/11/2009 10:31:37 PM
Am I a hotty? NOPE, but I have been called mean more than a few times. I dont necessarily play well with others; and if that offends you, you find it rude, you find it mean; then really its not my problem, not my fault and I dont care.


offensive, unaccommodating and bad-tempered attitude towards others IS mean. You don't nessesarily have to go out of your way to be an A-hole. Simply being inconsiderate of other's feelings, acting tactless and unkind is enough.
Civilized people pick the high road because they can be direct without being a jerk.

According to dictionary.com (so nobody gets "confused')

mean2 /min/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [meen] Show IPA
–adjective, -er, -est. 1. offensive, selfish, or unaccommodating; nasty; malicious: a mean remark; He gets mean when he doesn't get his way.
2. small-minded or ignoble: mean motives.
3. penurious, stingy, or miserly: a person who is mean about money.
4. troublesome or vicious; bad-tempered: a mean old horse.
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Synonyms:
2. contemptible, despicable. Mean, low, base, sordid, and vile all refer to ignoble characteristics worthy of dislike, contempt, or disgust. Mean suggests pettiness and small-mindedness: to take a mean advantage. Low suggests coarseness and vulgarity: low company. Base suggests selfish cowardice or moral depravity: base motives. 3. niggardly, close, tight, parsimonious, illiberal, ungenerous, selfish. See stingy. 5. common, humble; undignified, plebeian. 6. inconsequential, insignificant, petty, paltry, little, poor, wretched.
 Rod479

Joined: 5/11/2009
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 10/13/2009 12:45:46 AM
I'm not so sure about the 'hot' part, but I can be a D I C K in a few ways...

-don't want ya' getting to comfortable/ take me for granted.
-had a reallly bad day and for some reason can't zen out
-you crossed a line
 ~Pedro Sanchez~

Joined: 10/5/2009
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Posted: 10/13/2009 3:01:14 AM
Dunno...never thought of myself like that. I mean me being mean and stuff.
 Rickroll239

Joined: 7/6/2009
Msg: 297
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 10/13/2009 9:42:35 AM
The same reason "hot" women are shallow, demanding, and quite often unfaithful, and that would be because they can, and people will fall for it, because they had a good roll on the genetic dice.
 gentlebear22

Joined: 8/30/2006
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Posted: 10/15/2009 12:26:47 AM
An jerk is an jerk no mather what they look like. I have met people who are very attractive who are some of the nicest people you would ever meet. And I have met some not so attractive people who are some of the most ornery people who you would ever meet.
 jarbarian2

Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 10/15/2009 12:44:18 PM
Sorry, OP. I'll try to be nicer next time.

 BLUEMISS

Joined: 7/15/2007
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Posted: 10/15/2009 7:57:18 PM
jarbarian2...there you go again...being oh so humble.
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