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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/21/2005 1:18:21 PM | | I assume by "hot" you mean very attractive. It is a fact of life that the very attractive, both male and female, have a far wider selection of potential mates. These ultra attractive people are used to being treated favorably and showered with gifts. They are used to being treated as if they are "all that", so it goes to their heads. If you are being treated unkindly, the best thing to do is disassociate yourself from that person as much as possible. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/21/2005 5:40:48 PM | | hey im an ugly guy and im still mean. besides hot guy is an oxymoron. only girls are hotties | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/21/2005 5:58:01 PM | I agree very much with distinctive and daman
I myself am not getting much response because I am not 'hot' either and it shows so ladies if you want a man that will treat you right lose your own ego and just maybe you will find somebody that will make you happy | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/21/2005 6:07:21 PM | | try dating " average normal guys" unless you're so shallow that average to you means sub-normal. OR are you sooo hot, yourself, that you are way too shallow to even glance at normal guys | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/21/2005 6:15:15 PM | | I have only met one guy that was rude and he wasn't hot.Most ppl here are very nice and respectful. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/21/2005 10:07:08 PM | | Hun, watching the "hot guys" treat people like crap make me laugh. Just think about karma, eventually they're not going to have looks to rely on, and once that happens it's gonna be a real lonely time. :) | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/21/2005 10:31:53 PM | mrslucci....
People also tend to alter their behaviour toward others depending on that other persons looks. So...a hot guy may be rude to a plain girl, but be a total sweetheart to a hot girl. Your pic is rather attractive so that in of itself is likely to garner a great deal more respect from guys. These are all generalizations. There are always exceptions. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/21/2005 10:55:07 PM | | Then that makes them idiots don't it.I want respect because i earn it not because someone thinks im kinda cute. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/21/2005 11:06:28 PM | | You're right angeleyezjz; hot men/women have everything to lose. We all get old and we all die. For hot men/women, it's like falling off a cliff. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/22/2005 8:13:10 AM | Well I'm not outright mean, but I've been accused of being a jerk for playful teasing. I dont like putting people down and thats why I dont do it here, as text doesnt have a tone of voice, so youre playful teasing on net can be intepreted as jerkiness.
And I can attest that not all hot girls are mean. I've talked to some pretty nice ones on here, and even if they werent beutiful they'd still be worth talking to as there sheer charicter and values (as well as not being mean) make them worth talking to. I dont say "oooh, shes so pretty, I'll email her!" I read a profile first and if I dont like there attidude (IE: Must live within 75 miles, must be over a certain age or height, etc, etc) I simply wont waste a time writing them.
Why are all hot guys mean? Remember that youre statement contains a false assumption.
Remember that ALL poodles are dogs, but not all dogs are poodles | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/22/2005 8:20:15 AM | NisgaaAngel why are you looking for heat. Where there's heat there's fire, and you get
boined.... | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/22/2005 8:35:36 AM | common now..The girls I met in here are VERY arrogant..I mean they have told me that Im ugly at times and I know Im not..yet I am humble or try to be unless I get pissed off. I change my profile around sometimes just because it reflects the mood I'm in when I just don't care...Think about it..What the heck did we do befor these websites came along ? lol    | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/22/2005 8:49:05 AM | | Why are hot guy's so mean??? The very same reason almost ALL women or so called grown adult>well they thing they are> adult woman are:They are taught thru society that the outside shell is the upmost important, which it is NOT!!!! Self center reason's, not a whole lot of charcter. They all get married, and usually ,they men and women get a divorce> down the road and can not understand why. It's because everything is about them, and none of them are giver's, there all taker's! Why else would the divorce rate be so high. It's probably been that way forever, but now it's all getting worse! Men want the Playboy Bunny, and the women want the ,Brad Pitt's with money. Everyone of us is going to get older, have thing's happen to them, most likely get sick, or a auto wreck, or whatever , and pass on to the next life where we all will see the bigger picture, and that is a fact! Everyone miss's what's really important in life, and look's and money is not it_PERIOD! That includes me also, it's time we ALL wake-up and FAST. But, most likely we will not. No matter how sad this mite be,and true it is, we as society will probably not change,it's getting worse! | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/23/2005 2:53:49 PM | "Hot" people (going to stay away from gender here) are created by the admirers...
If everyone would just stop saying they were hot over and over again and actually tried to get to know the person beneath the package, maybe they wouldn't be stuck in this personality issue.
I think some who are considered "hot" or "extremely attractive" must have a hard time knowing if someone really likes them for them or because they look so good. Try to see it from their perspective.
Then the same people who worship them and assign them the "hot" lable downcast them if they don't have an attraction to them. It's strange. It's amazing how rejection will bring out the worst in people. Suddenly the hottie is a demon in their eyes.
I've met plenty of mean ugly people and ego distortions abound on all levels of physical attractiveness. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/23/2005 2:56:16 PM | | honey trust me, "ugly" men and women can be just as mean. Try not to stereotype, people in general can be mean, seems to be human nature for alot of people. Can't really explain it, just the way it is. Lord knows I can be mean when i wanna be and I am far from a hottie (*giggles profusely at that thought) | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/24/2005 10:20:42 PM | Quote :"I've met plenty of mean ugly people and ego distortions abound on all levels of physical attractiveness. "
blastkiss..pretty much nailed it | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/24/2005 11:32:06 PM | | I am sort of mean.....but what sucks is....I'm not hot!!I wonder what went wrong....... | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/24/2005 11:33:58 PM | not all hot guys are mean.
er, on second thought, yes, all hot guys are mean, go for ugly guys like me LOL!!!  (JOKE)
I think the same can be said for girls, why are all hot girls mean?
the answer is simple:
hot people attract other people. so they CAN be more chosey, more mean, more of an ***hole, and get away with it. unlike the uglies, who cant be an ***hole and get away with it. not all hot people are mean, but I'd say most are. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/25/2005 9:21:19 AM | | Wow! Theres alot of self bashing on this web-page! If you people think youre ugly, then others will percieve you as much so. Start thinking positively and positive things will happen. Like you thinking youre attractive, thus raising youre self-esteem, and thus girls will find you more attractive for it. Now not all beutiful people are mean, thats erronious and generalises. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/25/2005 11:09:55 AM | Hey gal , well maybe coz they know that they are hot and they are soo freakin****!! If i was you i would kick their fine damn ass.. and walk away proud.. I hate those kinda idiots! | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/25/2005 9:36:03 PM | | I think the reason why what you call "hot guys" are so mean is because they are superficial. They only care about what's on the outside, and 9 out of 10 they usually always had the well built bodies and sculpted muscles and all of that. I find that I have the same problem with the hot girls. Always concerened on what's on the outside. It's like that movie Hitch. Some of the best people will never be givin a chance just because of the way that they look. So is the nature of things. It's called that Alpha syndrom. Everyone always want's the best looking person on thier side. The "Alpha male/female," when infact some of the worlds worst looking people could be so kind at heart because they know what it feels like to be judged on the outside. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/25/2005 10:03:18 PM | | Look up Defense mechanisms in males and also........look up Domineering (hehe) or rather the song Domination by Pantera.........and also.......there percetion could be that , um, your interested in the superficial self when , in reality, what there looking for is.........on a much deeper and intellectual conciousness......................um ya hope that helps take care | |
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