| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/26/2005 2:12:49 PM | | Hot people are generally mean (not just men), due to the fact that they have people standing in line for them. Thus, you don't matter, because you are easily replaced. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/26/2005 2:13:40 PM | Hmmm.... I guess I'm not hot then lol... I'm open to anyone and everyone... everyone has something great to offer, just might not be as apparent as it is with some other people. | |
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Garf
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Joined: 4/4/2005
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/26/2005 2:22:11 PM | The topic is kind of a mixed blessing as far as I'm concerned.
1) Ego.
2) I'm not one of the hot guys, so it's ok by me if they're all jerks...lol
3) Re:Women who only go for the hot guys, and constantly wonder why they're mean...serves 'em right for being shallow.
I think I may have cursed myself forever... | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/26/2005 2:54:39 PM | | Survival of the Fittest: Nice Guys finish last. Incorporate the chase because everyone wants the chase to different degrees... when the game's all played out you slowly open up to them. Women taught us to be like this, and we just go with the flow. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/26/2005 3:01:31 PM | | NisgaaAngel Idont really know what a hot guy or girl looks like? Watch out for the ones that show alot of theirselfs, they are headstrong and in love with themselfs, its a pitty they feel so overwhelmed by their own life, good luck on finding a decent down to eart person. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/26/2005 3:08:00 PM | | I think something is missing here...hot men and women both sometime have self-esteem issues...along with the issue comes the need to act hard and above the rest, when really they want to be wanted and loved. I've been called Hot, however, they doesn't give me a license to treat even people i'm not interested in with out respect. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/26/2005 3:14:09 PM | | I think good looking people have been told their whole life how gorgeous, sexy, cute, fine, handsome etc, they are, so they never develop any other skills besides being gorgeous. And I am not putting down attractive good-hearted intelligent people. I am sure that there are many more wonderful beautiful people than there are mean ones. But back to the mean ones. I would have to say they feel they can be mean because no one ever told them they would be much more attractive if they wiped that self-centered look off their face. I think it all has to do with upbringing. Parents and other family members and eventually society sometimes put so much emphasis on their child's amazing good looks they forget to teach them to be kind, thoughtful and caring. So their whole life they've been pampered because they're 'cute'. I have met so many good-looking and wonderful people, but it's because in life they were given the right set of values. Maybe their parents weren't so attractive, maybe they learned early on not to place so much value on something so temporary as a nice set of teeth and instead learned to amazing humans and developed a self worth not based on their six pack abs. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/27/2005 12:53:56 AM | Most people who are very attractive, are insecure. Alot of attractive people who are secure within themselves are not mean. So if a guy or girl is mean to you they are probably insecure.
Don't waste your time, they are not worth it, you will be better off without them. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/27/2005 1:42:39 AM |
what's hot? lol
what i find hot is an intelligent man...those muscle bound meat heads have nothing to share.
No offence to all the meat heads on steroids in here. I'm sure most of them are nice guys, lol...if you don't mind Forest Gump telling you that life is like a box of chocolates. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/27/2005 3:31:55 AM | bambi, you really find intelligence sexy?
well I know every prime minister, in order, backwards, the history of all political parties in my country, and yours, as well as politcs and history spanning the world, and thousands of years.
*imagines the girls dripping off him*
LOL!!!! 
oh man, that just made my day!!! | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/27/2005 3:51:08 AM | Hi,
well, my philosophy is, with some hot women and hot men, they're just mean, worn out from attention, and know, that no matter how bad they treat someone, there will be so MANY other chances every day so, and they get so much atttention, that the mean ones don't care. The nice ones, though, with class will care and be nice. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/28/2005 8:03:04 AM | | Yeah I have met some attractive guys who are extremely sweet and caring, and then I met recently and attractive guy "who's hot until he opens his mouth". Really when hes fat and bald and poor mabye he'll wisen up. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/28/2005 12:32:26 PM | I'm not hot but I'm still a mean jerk :p. I guess there's no hope for me lol.
If someone wants to be a jerk its your choice what to do. Don't let how someone behaves affect how you interact with others. Then they have control over you. Who cares what they think of you. What matters is what you think of you. Sounds cliche but its true. | |
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LANGA
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Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 115 | |
| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/28/2005 7:39:20 PM | First of who is to say who is hot? He or she may be cold and not even know it lol
As to why they are mean? ....good question, but I guesse the obvious solutions is to find a true nice genuine nice guy who is also a great guy, and not look only for eye candy . | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/29/2005 10:04:18 AM | | Girl,you just have to strutt your stuff better,most guys that I meet that are hot are kinda stuck up but they can sense if you have alot of confidence or not and it doesn't matter what you look like to have confidence,I'm really overweight but guys can tell I'm comfortable in my own skin and I just act like I'm better than them and they come running.I always keep the upper hand with my men.You just got to establish the upper hand. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/29/2005 11:14:10 AM | I have to say that was one of, if not the best post to this original that I have read! Good Job!!! | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/29/2005 11:18:39 AM | I say this as a friend of men who are hotties, I've watched my guy friends who women call hot be absolute complete pricks and the women eat it up. I've seen women just fawn over'em without bothering to learn what they got going on upstairs or on the inside. What has happened is that just by the experience of having women fawn over'em, then keep going to them after they treat them like dirt, they see no reason why they have to act nice.
At the end of the day I just sit back and laugh at the comedy of it all, even the plainest of women will go straight to the hot guy, get ****ed and emotionally abused, take it and go back for more. If a woman's going for a decent kind-hearted guy then try looking a step or two below the hottie level, you'll be suprised at the decent men there who'll be good to you, but I doubt any women are going to take what I've said serious, they'll go to the hottiest guy at the bar, fall in love with a facade that'll fade with time and will just waste their time, their health(emotional and physical), and then probably write the next great piece of summer reading where the main protaginist is a woman pissed off cause no man will give her a chance, be good to her, blah, blah, blah, blah-and just add to the ranks of man-hating militant feminists. That's how it goes though, I'll sit, I'll laugh, at the end of it all it'll just be another day and another joke.
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I have to say that was one of, if not the best post to this original that I have read! Good Job!!! | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/29/2005 11:29:47 AM | | well i disagree with you cause all women dont fall for hot guys ----------there are alot of hot guys that are nice, decent, know how to treat a woman..so dont fool yourself............ | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/29/2005 5:54:59 PM | Hot guys are mean just like "HOT WOMEN" because they have options . As children they were pampered and reminded every step of the way how beautiful they are. They never had to wait at home on a Saturday night for a date. They always got hit on ... so my point is this.
If you got hit on or even paid attention to everytime you went out the door ... you would get very picky and choosy because you would have the luxury of choosing. It's a totally different world up there in the clouds.  | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/29/2005 6:47:10 PM | Why are hot guys so mean? not to sound like a prick, but does that questions really need an answer? it's totally obvious. They are mean becuase not only do some (a lot) of women like it, but they know that if a particular woman doesn't like it too damn bad, another one is just around the corner, pure and simple. I have a couple of very cute female friends that have b/f's that treat them like total s*** and are so mean to them but they stay because, as they put it, he's not 'always' like that. So f/n what, if he's like that once it's a sure sign just what you're in for for the duration of your relationship. Hot guys, and girls for that matter, have it, others want it and they can be as selective as they want to be and being mean is just who they are. | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/29/2005 7:11:21 PM | | well said terran991 , in my opinion its a selection mechanizm, what I mean is if they are mean to you and you run away than they don't have to waist their time getting to know and they know you are not on their level. Imagine how many people try to get with them, if they gave everyone a fair chance they would never catch up on their beauty sleep | |
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| why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 8/30/2005 6:49:38 AM | | Hey I have always felt that I was "ok" my ex wife, used to always call me handsome, but never walked around town thinking that every girl in the world thought I was the hot guy. Guess if you are confident and look at a girl and smile genuinely, you will get more reslets than saying " Hey Im good looking, your good looking" Lets screw | |
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