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 ChocolateBecki

Joined: 11/1/2008
Msg: 176
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 11/27/2008 8:00:40 PM
People kiss their butts to get with them, they are used to people sweatin' them. There are flaws in everyone! You can usually tell by a guys profile if he is going to be a douche' or not.
 Ron9

Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 177
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 11/27/2008 8:23:57 PM
"why are hot guys so mean ????"

Let me be the 50th guy (on this tread) that says “we’re not mean”.

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as he says [to the other 49 delusional guys) .... are we?
 sillygoose

Joined: 3/4/2006
Msg: 178
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 11/28/2008 8:53:47 AM
Ha the normal looking guys get red hot if they come into alot of money and the normal looking girls get red hot if they get big boobs. Sad but true.
 VF102

Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 179
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 11/28/2008 9:26:28 AM
Because pretty boys are what you want wether they are nice or not.

Jason
 **~renegadeoutlaw~**

Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 180
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 11/28/2008 3:40:38 PM
because they KNOW they are "hot" and think they can just act like a$$holes.
 WanderingRonin

Joined: 3/9/2008
Msg: 181
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 11/29/2008 12:05:41 AM
he can have any woman he wants.
Then he dumps his leftovers on to the rest of the suckers who has to deal with the results of his passing.
 Anacaona

Joined: 9/9/2008
Msg: 182
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 11/29/2008 1:13:52 AM
It's because women let them get away with it.
 Schneizel

Joined: 8/26/2008
Msg: 183
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 11/29/2008 12:28:44 PM
*most* "hotties" guys love themselves too much. :)
 bbuenger

Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 184
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 11/29/2008 3:30:07 PM
becasue most woman want the "bad" guy.... so there, thats it, nothing more or less.....its womans fault...... Dont even play by saying you want a nice guy bec you dont....... "nice guys finish last" and they are the ones that usually turn gay bec woman want nothing to do with them.......then they are the hot guy that is gay and than you dont understand why........ being a nice a guy has gotten me no where and sense i cant be a ass its hard to ever meet a woman. a better question why are woman only attracted to the a**holes?????
 scott1414

Joined: 8/19/2008
Msg: 185
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why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 11/29/2008 7:11:12 PM
know one should be mean to any one now matter if there hot or not treat others as u would want to be treated
 ThatsNOTmybaby

Joined: 10/27/2008
Msg: 186
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Posted: 12/1/2008 5:21:33 PM
I guess the "Hot" guys and gyrls are "mean" because they KNOW there are always LOW ESTEEMED and SLUTTY people lined up to sleep with them even if they admit it or not!

 ThatVibe

Joined: 5/4/2008
Msg: 187
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/2/2008 3:32:19 AM
Why do so many people make such sweeping generalizations? Perhaps because the generalizations fit what they notice.
 laur2u

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 188
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Posted: 12/2/2008 6:37:57 PM
Seems to me like all the Hottest men on here are only looking for all the Hottest women or men, on here anyways...
 Sassy Girl 82

Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 189
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/2/2008 7:12:26 PM
I mean I can't say for sure because i'm SO extremely gorgeous and all but i'm pretty positive that ugly fvckers can be mean too.
Labels are for canned goods not people, get a clue!
 lil dee

Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 190
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/2/2008 8:12:57 PM
just because they can i think they really like to put people down just so they feel better about them selfs and do you now what there are people out there that really do like heavy girls and belive me you will meet them and you will now it i have been there my self there will be other guys lined up to talk so just be patinet
 FX McGovern

Joined: 11/20/2008
Msg: 191
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/3/2008 3:40:05 PM
hey hey hey watch the vocabulary there. What did ugly fvckers ever do to you? I for one never said a word to you.
 FX McGovern

Joined: 11/20/2008
Msg: 192
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/3/2008 3:42:11 PM
*EPIPHANY*

HOT GUYS ARE THE CAUSE OF ALL THE WARS IN THE WORLD!
 FX McGovern

Joined: 11/20/2008
Msg: 193
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/3/2008 3:47:42 PM
yea the women want a hot guy who rejects them and then they send the ugly guys out to war and the ugly guys of one nation fight the ugly guys of another nation and who ever wins gets the hot guy who was all the while sitting upon his thrown tenderizing his arse. This is the thing the government doesn't want you to know.
 Sassy Girl 82

Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 194
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/3/2008 7:20:37 PM
Awwww, FX, you know I love you!!!
Sassy
 Talkineyes

Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 195
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/3/2008 9:20:17 PM
Its because they really don't exist.....

and wont risk getting caught or because they think they are too good for a woman that can make all their wildest dreams come true.... U know the One in a LIFETIME type real woman.

Come on guys get a CLUE!! After all you are only good looking now.... what happens in 30+ years to those looks???

 cdgg

Joined: 11/28/2008
Msg: 196
why are hot guys so mean ????
Posted: 12/4/2008 6:04:04 AM
I find it hard to believe anyone is mean by nature.
This could be a learned behaviour, either from being treated poorly, or just plain lack of interest.
On the other hand I have been accused of being mean in such cases of:
Sandwich burglary - if you leave it for more than five minutes, chances are I was hungrier.
Blunt honesty - If I think your being unreasonable, I will let you know. I suppose the "nice" thing to do would be I know you had a hard day, but......could not take it out on me.
Also some peoples personalities just dont click. whatever they want to happen, just goes bad and turns into an disagreement.
They say there's no bad dogs. well I think ppl are the same way. Just avoid those you dont get along with. Life is far too short to worry about who to hate.
 FireKnight

Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 197
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Posted: 12/4/2008 7:57:29 AM
It's not hot guys that are mean, its not hot girls that are mean, its not even required they be attractive. Its shallow people who are mean. Those who have been given means to take advantage of those around them. From those who learned they don;t have to be nice or polite or etc because they look good and get what they want. To those who have learned they can elevate themselves at least for a time by putting someone elsedown.

Ultimately the answer lies with you and how much power/authority you give them to act that way around you.
 Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 198
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Posted: 12/4/2008 8:31:04 AM
^^Exactly!! Some are, some aren't. I've met not so hot people in my time who are mean and delusional about their hotness and very hot people who weren't.
 LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 199
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Posted: 12/4/2008 12:21:57 PM
Because they are****, and if you girls keep letting them know how attractive are, they think their looks can win over their personality when they are WRONG. dont let them be****, and ***holes, and they wont have the chance. they only do it if they think they can, and not all good looking guys are ***holes.
 FireKnight

Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 200
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Posted: 12/4/2008 1:36:42 PM
I was going to leave it go with my post before but I am going to add a bit.. a previous poster said.


I find it hard to believe anyone is mean by nature.


I think said poster is more then likely right. I prefer to believe people are not by nature bad or mean or evil, although hollywood movies make it more fun to believe so. However people ARE lazy by nature and by lazy I am not neccesarily discussing physical definitions.

People go for what is easiest for them more often then not. If it's easier to play a sport then to think about physics then they will play the sport. If it's easier to think about physics then play the sport they will think about physics. There are of course exceptions to all rules and so there are people who will do the opposite because they want the challenge. However for the discussion of nature and meaness the exceptions aren't what we are talking about.

It is easier to be mean and dismissive and hurtful then it is to not be. For example it is harder to say hello to a stranger, then it is to ignore a stranger. So it is easier for the stranger to hurt you or be mean by ignoring you when you say hello then it was for them to be nice and acknowlege you and change from whatever they were doing. This example expands to all levels of interaction. It's easier to be part of the crowd then to go against it ETC. So though people are not by nature mean they are often lazy and by concequence shallow and mean however as I said before this isn't limited to those who are attractive.
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