| | Would you care if you saw your boyfriend's porn?Page 4 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4) | OP, I know you're hurting here. I both feel bad for you AND think you are overreacting. You are young, but from my viewpoint as a 48 year old, it's not a big deal. Watching porn doesn't mean he doesn't desire you, wants to cheat, wants a threesome; it just means he likes watching porn. He saw a woman he thought was hot at a party. So what?
Attraction to others doesn't magically go away when you have a partner. I've been very in love with a partner and satisfied with them and STILL found someone else hot. The thing is, a relationship isn't just sex. Why would I possibly jeopardize a LTR for a quick thrill? I have loved my partners sexually, emotionally, intellectually but that doesn't mean I can't appreciate how another man (or woman in my case) looks.
Think of this analogy. I like watching the food channel. I will watch it even on vacation when I'm eating sumptuous food at expensive restaurants. I will watch it after a meal. This doesn't mean I want to go out and get a burrito, it just means I like food a lot. Men like sex (women like sex too but that's not the point here), so watching sex is entertaining. Nothing more, nothing less. | |
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| Would you care if you saw your boyfriend's porn?
Posted: 4/25/2012 4:17:15 PM | LOL take a chill pill MY GOD.
if i found some, i would ask to watch it with him and than have sex right away.
we would watch porn together all the time
and id join in/
now if it was home made porn thats another story altogether.... | |
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| Would you care if you saw your boyfriend's porn?
Posted: 4/25/2012 4:47:59 PM | No I don't think you're overreacting at all. Check out this website if you like amazingly enough a man posted it
www.fussypucker.net/porn.htm. Not at all. Sorry it is definitely a sore spot for me. | |
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| Would you care if you saw your boyfriend's porn?
Posted: 4/25/2012 6:30:38 PM |
No I don't think you're overreacting at all. Check out this website if you like amazingly enough a man posted it
I think you've got an over-reactive point of view. People who are faithful like porn, people who aren't like porn. People who are in good shape like porn, people who are out of shape like porn. People who are good parents like porn, people who are bad parents like porn.
You can pretty much say the same thing about using credit cards and loans. A lot of people go into debt due to it, a lot of people move forward in life due to it. | |
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| Would you care if you saw your boyfriend's porn?
Posted: 4/26/2012 4:45:03 AM | It shouldn't be that big a deal. Even if, as in this case, the porn contains things you would never want to do with him, that doesn't mean he'll cheat on you to get it. I would compare it to a fantasy that may play out in his mind but wouldn't necessarily want to act upon.
Now, in my case, she's seen my porn. And since I occasionally make it myself, she's also the star of some of it. | |
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| Would you care if you saw your boyfriend's porn?
Posted: 4/26/2012 9:35:20 AM | Porn is fantasy...not reality. Let me ask the this, do you expect your life to be like the romance novels you read? Or the Soap Operas you watch? Heck even a sitcom? NO (at least I hope not). Porn is a fantasy. Some fantasies are more "popular" than others. A 3 some with two women and one man is about normal, at least it wasn't gay porn lmao.
Porn is a fantasy there are a lot of people that can distinguish fantasy vs reality and others cannot.
I thing you are over reacting.
Edit: Didn't realize this post was 3 years old | |
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