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| | How to give a good blow job?Page 5 of 6 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6) | Aww I feel for you.
okay number one, don't worry if you haven't gotten him off. I know it can be annoying and a little let down, but I unfortunately wasn't able to get my bf from before off either. but turns out no girl could get him off with head. it was a real ego bruise, and i used to think I wasn't good doing it, but after other guys, I realize, that's not an issue, and clearly not in your case.
I would tell you to practice on your thumb. try to lick, suck, nibble, blow, careess your thumb in as MANY different varieties as you can.
Always try to change things up when giving head. just the slightest diff in tongue pressure, suction, lips, can make a change in the feeling and arousal.
-lick from the balls up to the very tip of his penis, go slowly as you can, making him anticipate, and then with a quick move , take his entire penis down as far as you can. just the surprise will make it feel better for him
- take your tongue and flick side to side on his penis, with your mouth providing suction
- i usually put my lips tight around his head and suck in a clockwise way, while my tongue goes the opposite way and so do my hands, makes the guys toes curl
-if he isn't circumcised, put your tongue between his foreskin and head, and lick around that really softly
-cup his balls as you suck him
-make an OK sign with your hand, and put that over his head and go in different speeds, vary it up, helps if you are sucking and licking him at the same time
-put the penis in one side of your mouth, feels a little awkward but guys love how it looks and you can concentrate on one side of his penis more
-put sloppy kisses on his penis and then blow lightly, and then suck really hard on some parts, u can do this anywhere-balls, shaft, head
-i do a light lick with my tongue, so light that sometimes the guy lifts his head up to see if you are still near his penis ,
-if you change your position, it feels different for you and him. I usually start with him sitting, me on my knees, and my hands on his penis and balls. then i avoid my hands , then eventually i rest my elbows on his knees for support and am face down on his**** then i ask him to use my ponytail for more oomph, then i get him to stand as he face ****s me, then he lies down and i get between his legs and do it, then, go on either side of him while he is lying down to work the sides of his penis more.
-there are so many more ways, but it's hard to explain.
the main thing is, change it up. you can do the exct same thing for 5 minutes, but the speed you do it at, the position changes, whether you add in the hands or not, if you add in the tongue or suction, etc, canmake it soo different. the penis is so sensitive, and something as simple as adding in a flicking tongue as you suck him will make it better.
the more into it you are, will make it better. let him **** your boobs, touch yourself while blowing him, ask him to finger you while you are on all fours giving him head, 69, lie down and have him **** your face, all that can really help.
wow-i'm so turned on now. | |
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| How to give a good blow job?
Posted: 1/30/2010 7:11:50 PM | drink something good and cold right before you head on down.... then try to take the head/shaft in all at once...so he gets the full effect of the cold....
and yeah, laying down (sofa works well w/pillow behind your head) and having him face fvck is awesome for both of you! You can put one hand on his shaft to help control depth and one on his azz...and if he likes it, use that second hand to finger his azzhole (rub or finger it a little)...
And then as he's about to cum, he can easily pull out of your mouth and cum all over your face, I prefer to do this w/my tongue stuck out so it will catch a lot of the cum...and my eyes shut so I don't get it in my eyes...
And I second don't go by porn...def not! use it for ideas to try, but not to learn by. | |
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Posted: 1/30/2010 7:15:26 PM | | Also, I know how hot it is when you just want to jump him and do it. BUT, try to get eachother off with just foreplay, trust me it is so hot. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2010 8:37:14 AM | OP..
As a guy, i have to say each guy is different. And each guy has different moods. I sometimes like to F**K a woman's mouth if she is willing and feel me hitting the back of her throat. Other times I like a woman to just go for it and do a lot of licking and kissing and just having a good time like its fudge pop in 90 degree heat.
The key is this: HE HAS TO TELL YOU WHAT HE LIKES!
Of course if you look like a 80 yr old grandma giving a BJ and he looks at you.. then it will be soft/limp city.
If he cannot open up about how he wants his GF to give him oral pleasure, then he is possibly hiding his true feelings for you. He may not be as into you as you are into him and therefore he cannot get off.
ALSO, it is on how you give him the BJ and how you act before hand. If he suggest the blowjob and you act like a 8 year old being told to do math home work and treat the blowjob like math homework, then he will notice that you are not into it and he will be irratated knowing you treat sucking him like a math assignment to accomplish before you go play outside.
So, always review how you act before the BJ and how you give it. In a relationship, if a man is really into a woman, he wants that woman to give him head like it is the best thing ever. Otherwise he would rather go to a stripper or hooker and pay for it. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2010 8:52:25 AM | I missed that comment!
[and he will never answer me when I ask him what he likes and how I can improve. All he has ever told me is "watch the teeth please!"]
That comment says volumes to me. as a man. it is the biggest sign that you need to talk with your mouth and not suck with you mouth. i.e. at this point, its not what goes in your mouth it is what is coming out of yours and his.
He is not communicating with you!
Stop the blowjobs and talk to him.
Every woman in the world that meets a man she wants to date is ALWAYS going to saying how good she is at giving a blowjob. I have met only a few women who are honest about their lack of oral skills.
So, don't worry about what other men have done and communicate with this guy. make sure you are on the same page emotionally and make sure your communication is where it needs to be. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2010 10:25:36 AM |
So, always review how you act before the BJ and how you give it. In a relationship, if a man is really into a woman, he wants that woman to give him head like it is the best thing ever. Otherwise he would rather go to a stripper or hooker and pay for it.
THIS is sooooo true, as a guy I love it when my gf (when I have one lol) just DOES IT...the worst part, is if I always have to ask for it, last relationship I don't think she was into giving oral because she only gave it without asking ONCE...on my birthday...BUT it was an hour long bj hehe. You're snuggling on the couch watching a movie...don't ASK if he'd like some head...just start rubbing his crotch till ya see that bulge....and whip the sucker out and go to town...BUT as you're about to put it in your mouth for the FIRST time of the bj...LOOK UP at him....into his eyes....THAT is soooo sexy.
and the whole Math homework analogy is AWESOME!
And clearly you need to ask him but in a different way...maybe while your sucking his****...pop it out and be like mmmmm do you like that baby...or something....you know does that feel good, etc | |
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Posted: 2/2/2010 10:35:06 AM | | Here's a bit of food for thought.....some women just get it up and go down on him....make it temptingly teasing.....instead of just jumping on it with your mouth, touch, stroke, rub, lick around the area...between the legs, top of the thighs, etc....then slowly lick up on the shaft, etc.... | |
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Posted: 2/2/2010 11:44:45 AM | Luckyhot777....
Besides the communication..
I think in the OP situation it is NOT about her technique.. unless she is scrapping his penis against teeth like a brilo pad trying to get rust off steal. If a man is laid back getting a blowjob and the woman going at it with the teeth are scrapping, then all there is in a painful sensation and he wants it to stop out of fear of skin missing afterwards.
So, like i said, she needs to find more info about whats going on.... i have been with a few women that i wondered if it was too small of a mouth or just not careing because all i felt was teeth scraping my**** I had to make them stop. and i found out, they were misjudging and more concentrated on making me come then making it a slower more enjoyable thing for me. a couple of women slowed down and make it good. and a few told me that i had to take what i could get from them. and with that i left them alone.
Lastly, everyone woman has had a lollilipop, everyone has a popsicle ice pop. Any woman who has sucked a popsicle, knows how to suck a****.. or a lollilipop then she knows what to do. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2010 1:51:25 PM | I agree December....some think any head is good head.....not me...and some just dive on it....well, they don't like that, why should we?
I found slower better too....and a woman who loves what she's doing....cumming is one thing....getting there is the trip. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2010 7:32:44 PM | "Here's a bit of food for thought.....some women just get it up and go down on him....make it temptingly teasing.....instead of just jumping on it with your mouth, touch, stroke, rub, lick around the area...between the legs, top of the thighs, etc....then slowly lick up on the shaft, etc...."
That was dummy of me. I forgot the lead up to the head. Yes this is an absolute must. I always change it up, do that for a while, then some penis action, and then back and forth. I like the anticipation it builds for me and him, because it's a wonder if something soft or stronger will come up next | |
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Posted: 2/2/2010 10:32:10 PM | GOSH, I bet I could give a GREAT blow job. But then again if I could bend myself like some kinda 5 year old Korean girl on American Idol I'd never leave the house.
Here's the truth... no, honestly... are you listening. Nobody gives a good blow job. It's an allusion to an illusion. Seriously, is it the first thing anyone would think about if they saw one of those for the first time? "OOOOO I have to suck on that!" Since the Dawn of time (or Rae Dawn Chong; Quest for Fire) the genders have been looking for the golden fleece of fellatio. Here's the skinny (hopefully not for you full figured grrrrls). Learn to talk to your partner. Yea, nothing cosmic about that. Talk about the grip, stroke, teeth (I like teeth), speed etc. Get him wet and wild and just enjoy the moment. We (of course I'm speaking for my gender) appreciate your honesty and hey talking dirty is an excellent prologue to us slipping you the tongues where you like it the most also. And, unless you didn't notice it's the Internet. Try http://sex.healthguru.com/ or http://www.cherrytv.com/ and I'm sure you will find some interesting answers and techniques there. And hey, if you can't learn to love the shtick with a talented "lick" we also love when you masturbate us and talk REALLY dirty n our ear.
K, I'm answering the obvious here and you should just go out and test your talents on someone you can genuinely communicate well with. If they seem shy then you start and lead the way...
"I Love it when you curl your fingers deep inside my****and press against my G spot and suck on my clit" . You think that's tough wait until he wants to turn you over. Get him before he gets you! | |
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Posted: 2/2/2010 10:59:30 PM | ^^^^^^^^
GOSH Im not going to disagree with you on that one. Im not saying I want you to prove it to me. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2010 11:12:44 PM |
Talk about the grip, stroke, teeth (I like teeth)...
And here I thought my big chompers was a liability in that department ... 
Now I know. Thank goodness I checked this post out. | |
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Posted: 2/3/2010 6:27:35 PM | | there was a nice non porn site called sex and dating that gave excellent instructions | |
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Posted: 2/4/2010 9:40:23 AM | | http://fellatrix.blogspot.com/2008/07/cocksucking-isnt-one-way-street.html?zx=19d3dc0c0db715ea | |
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Posted: 2/4/2010 9:26:28 PM | Sounds like the guy has a problem on this one.....if she likes it, she does it just like she likes to do it..........and if she loves it she will be a star.
The issue is communication and that varries from one couple to another..it does not matter if it is sweet noises and grunts or explicit conversation its all about cuming to terms with what works best for you two........ONE of you can not do that!
What works best for me is a call at work to let me know she is wanting to give.......and hurry home etc.........hard to beat the build up..........while it is usually said to be giving it is a " shared " experience and such is the nature of the sexual experience.....lollll. some of us do make it " hard "!
enjoy! | |
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Posted: 2/5/2010 3:36:52 AM | | one thing that i will say is that if you have a tounge stud its a good idea to either be careful or take the damn thing out!! | |
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Posted: 2/5/2010 8:34:39 PM | | wow. i could kiss you. IF this stuff works, i think me and my future partner will owe you a big thank you. i'm going to try and get these. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2010 10:51:02 AM | Tip #1: Enjoy it!
Tip #2: Enjoy it! And if you don't, pretend you do!
If you're not enjoying yourself and loving the feeling of his c*ck on your tongue, he won't be as into it. It's just like if a guy is going down on you and you can tell he's not enjoying it....you're probably not gonna be able to relax enough to really get into it.
Anyways, besides enjoying yourself...
- make it wet...lots of saliva or even a good flavoured lube (ID sucks! Get O!My instead.....the strawberry cheesecake is sooo damn good)
- use your hands. Goes hand-in-hand (pardon the pun) with keepin it wet. Lick your palms to make them wet or, again, use flavoured lube. A good technique I've learnered is this: Start at the base and twist your hand a little as you move up. As you get closer to the head, increase the pressure. Loosen your grip a little again as you go back toward the base. Even better.....use both hands and do kind of a wringing motion...without pulling his flesh off.
- use lots of tongue on the head. That's the most sensitive part so try different things and look up at him to see how he reacts to them (plus, he'll think it's hot to see your eyes while you've got him in your mouth). Try flicking movements at different speeds and full-tongue licking.
- touch other parts of his body. Run your hands up his thighs or down his chest. Maybe use your nails just a little.. If he's into it, give his nipples a lil pinch.
:) Have fun, lady! | |
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Posted: 2/6/2010 12:57:46 PM | Piccasodali's tip #1 and #2 are awesome, but the technique suggested, again every guy likes something different.
Start at the base and twist your hand a little as you move up.
This would result in me telling you RIGHT OFF THE BAT to stop! or i'd cut it short and just put you on all 4's and go to town, but some guys like it...I don't like having my d!ck twisted...it doesn't feel good.
As you get closer to the head, increase the pressure.Loosen your grip a little again as you go back toward the base. Even better.....use both hands and do kind of a wringing motion...without pulling his flesh off.
This I would love you for it lol..but again some guys might hate it.
- use lots of tongue on the head. That's the most sensitive part so try different Careful with this one...depends on the guy...I hate this...and actually if you do it to much...my d!ck goes numb and then its gonna take a miracle to get me to pop (you know what I mean)
things and look up at him to see how he reacts to them (plus, he'll think it's hot to see your eyes while you've got him in your mouth). Try flicking movements at different speeds and full-tongue licking. I can say most guys I know like this from what we've told each other haha...
- touch other parts of his body. Run your hands up his thighs or down his chest. Maybe use your nails just a little.. If he's into it, give his nipples a lil pinch.
This is one you think you'd hear more as women tell men we're fixated to much on boobs or coochie...yet they are the same lol...all about the shaft.
Like i've said all along BEST thing you can do...is ASK the guy you're sucking.
My neighbour probably doesn't like a bj same way I do, and same goes all the way down the road. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2010 3:19:29 PM | Delete every single post on here (and there are like five pages now) and just keep the one from Granz (from Msg. 96).
Everything you need to know to give great head is contained in his reply. I guarantee that if you follow his advice, your man will never leave you.
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Posted: 2/6/2010 7:45:13 PM | | It's all about the experience, get on your knees while he's standing, look up at him and just lick from his balls all the way up his shaft , slide just the head of his****between your lips and lick down, suck on his balls (if he's into that) look up at him while your doing it, and be gentle but a tiny bit agressive if you know what I mean, treat it like you really want it and can't wait to have it. Open your mouth wide slide your lips over it and slide down as far as you can, keep your mouth wide open though, the back of your mouth is smaller an dtherefore more sensitive to your molars dragging, if you can't deepthroat because of a gag reflex, wrap your hand around his**** tight against your mouth and use the same motions, lots of saliva or lube and play with his balls, or his ass (if he's into that) make sounds too, ive' been told it vibrates through his shaft when you moan .... just relax, stop over thinking it and enjoy. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2010 7:14:11 AM | By the way....I worked at a sex shop and discovered something fascinating.... Go Deep Oral Sex Mints.
They numb your throat a little so you can deepthroat if you have a gag reflex. Do it. | |
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