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Joined: 6/19/2005
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Rake
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Joined: 3/12/2005
Msg: 103 | |
| Guys i need your help.... let us girls in on your huy stuff
Posted: 7/13/2005 5:19:45 PM | I mean come on, what is this getting to know you stuff all about? What better way to get to know someone than some playful post-coital pillowtalk I know what you're trying to do and yes it would be wonderful if everyone could check their hang-ups at the door but not everyone can be as comfortable with their own studness like you can onthebus....lol......
cheerz bro 
fyi: one of the most deadly combinations on this forum: hotbush + pre-coital
easy where you point that thing hotbush, you might take someones eye out....lol | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 7:19:31 PM | | Ok I totally agree with you man. I mean why tell them about my extensive criminal history ahead of time and make them worry while were doin it - you know? I mean -You bring that stuff up in advance and it's coitus interruptus while they press for details - "so you really didn't know about the guy in the trunk?". Save it for some funny pillowtalk. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 7:25:35 PM | | Must be my problem. I'll be sure to cut out all that full disclosure and needless honesty in the future. Most of the guys here seem to have a much more effective system. Bars - eh? Who would have thought there were people trying to get some in bars? | |
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Rake
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Joined: 3/12/2005
Msg: 110 | |
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| Guys i need your help.... let us girls in on your huy stuff
Posted: 7/13/2005 10:02:30 PM | | Going to someone's house after clubbing pretty much indicates that your gonna have sex with them unless you are a designated driver dropping off someone too buzzed to drive. You arer better off exchanging phone numbers and wait the next day or week to reassure yourself that you and they had your heads on straight when you were at the club that night. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 10:20:53 PM | | C'mon Tally, it's almost not worth posting about this but since you asked: you go back to a dude's house you just met at a club and get him "all hot and horny" as you say, and wonder why he wanted more??? I'm not a dude but if I were I would expect a little "sometin'sometin" too. Let's face it, if it was that easy to get you back to his, how many other guy's homes do you frequent everytime you hit a club? That may not be the case but he sure as hell is thinking that. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 10:22:33 PM | I don't think the original poster had a problem so much with the sex as with the after the sex not getting a callback issue. This situation is absolutely the pits. The shocking part is that women nowadays are doing this just as frequently as men. Going to a club with the express intent of picking them up for sex only to dump them afterwards. Isn't this EXACTLY the problem women for ages have been complaining about now they are doing it with in an alarming rate?
Its bad enough one gender does the fvck and dump but if both are, how is this going to play out in say 40 years? Is everyone going to be picking up the opposite sex for just a one night deal and creating yet an even more divisive barrier between the sexes by such actions?
The future is pretty frightening if this is the course its heading toward. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 10:27:16 PM | oh you're right passionfly it was much better when just men were doing the using at least there was hope to form a home so that they could continue doing it after they had their devoted women safe at home...I never heard you boys complain when it was the other way around??? (scratching temple) hmmmm!
by the way I don't identify with either gender that does this and then complains "why can't I find love??? If you do it for fun and it feels good to you then go for it sex is great and was meant to be enjoyed but if you are going to sit at home the next day wondering why they never call you back then perhaps it's time tor revaluate yourself.
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Posted: 7/13/2005 10:37:16 PM | just seems like women want to have the same opportunities and be just like men. I mean c'mon its not like we got some great patterns of behavior to model after here. Teach us better ways that make it work don't copy bad behavior like men are some sort of pioneers in courtship or something. Speed-dating, hell I don't know. Having both genders doing more one-night stands then ever = serious problems in society later.
For the record tho, I abhor one-night stands. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 10:45:10 PM | The end of the night comes and he asks her if she wants to come over for a bit to watch a movie, she accepts.
And you thought that "movie" meant movie?
They get to his place and the paws start goin...... she sais no, they just met, ( not because she doesnt want to , but because she likes him and wants to get to know him) After a while she feels guilty because the guy has worked himself into a horny frienzy........
So she put out to a relative stranger she knows nothing about? Isn't this the plot from the movie "Looking for Mr. Goodbar" where she ended up getting stabbed to death just as she got her cookies?? This is all a big joke, right? "She" feels guilty because "he" lacks self control? "She" wants to get to know him because he's a nice guy even though he's sexually assaulting her?
Wow....just "wow"....
What should she do?
Dr. Festus would suggest a brain implant and some of those old black & white sex ed movies about venereal disease, for starters.
Sex on the first night? Does this ruin a possible relationship?
Not for the guy who gets it, at least nor for that one night.
"Relationship" that starts out like THIS?????
BBWWWWWAAAAHAHAHHAHAahahahahahahahhahaa (SNORT!)
If you were the guy in this situation, what should she do? What would turn u on the most?
Keeping you around for booty calls. After reading this though I just wouldn't be able to take you seriously
(we need a little "sheep" icon for right here)
And if she does give in ....... why does he not call??????
(((See last comment)))
I have always wondered about these things, the F^%K N Chuck syndrome
"For every foot, a shoe"
As long as there are gullible and accomodating women there will be F-n-C guys. BOTH are having their needs met.
Thanx
Sure, since you're so accomodating with perfect strangers, what's your phone number?
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Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 118 | |
| Guys i need your help.... let us girls in on your huy stuff
Posted: 7/13/2005 10:52:32 PM | Ok...so the way i see it, nobody here has responded to the real surprise of this thread....
that being: there was a guy out there who had the opportunity to hook up with you on a regular basis and passed it up???
sigh...some guys have all the luck.
Y.
www.mcgillunderground.com/subjectx | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 10:54:42 PM | Having sex on the first date is no big deal, consider it a "first night stand".
Expecting to start a relationship with a guy you take home from the bar is just stupid. Sure it can happen but people pick up in bars to get laid, not to find a good woman. Sorry but it's true.
Lastly, try picking a guy based on something more than his "high 8" looks...shallow is as shallow does.
In case this is news to you, don't go home with a guy after drinking at the bar unless you want to have sex. There is only one reason for him to invite you over at that point and it ain't no damn movie...get real.
You're 29 and "prefer not to say" about kids...I think you know all of this stuff already.
If you do actually believe that he wants to watch a movie with you ask him to call you the next day to come and watch it in the afternoon...that way you can "not get called" without having to put out and feel badly...oh but then you wouldn't get the sex, so I guess you'll never try that idea will you?
What I don't get is, you are smoking hot, I'm sure your friends are smoking hot, between you and your friends, you haven't figured out that picking up "hot" guys in bars and going home with them leads to drunken, meaningless sex? | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 10:57:48 PM | Ummm why is she going to some strange guys place alone after the bar? Kind of risky if you ask me. They guy was obviously expecting something if he was all over her. Don't get me wrong there are kewl guys out there, but she is taking a pretty big chance. If he can't wait then he isn't into her and was just looking for a booty call.
As for....
Sex on the first night? Does this ruin a possible relationship? I don't think it does, it all depends on how mature the two people are and they both have somewhat given the idea of what they are looking for. If you just meet in a bar, hardly talk, flirt a bit and then knock knees, I would imagine the guy will think hmmm this prob isn't the first time she has done this. Sometime tho the attraction is there and people just mix why not have some fun if you are both into it.
If you were the guy in this situation, what should she do? What would turn u on the most?
Not sure what you mean.... first thing that comes to mind is not say no? that would be a turn on lol. If you mean what would turn a guy on by saying no at the time...umm maybe a message or let him message you. Say something like it's too soon and how hot it will be when you do go at it. Giving a guy hope and something to look forward to sounds like a good out to me.
And if she does give in ....... why does he not call?????? He's an ass plain and simple, he just wanted a booty call. Plus some guys like a challenge as well, enjoy a bit of a chase. It's not just girls. It's like collecting candy on Halloween, you can't WAIT to get home and get the goodies! The anticipation makes it way more fun.
Just my thoughts and opinion, always open to debate.
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Posted: 7/13/2005 10:59:19 PM | don't get me wrong passion I agree with you these are some very confusing times for the genders. Women have gained a lot of power in the workplace and this spilled over into the dating world. Financial independence is what makes women more "picky" these days it's not necessarily that we are shallow it's just that we literally "don't need" men to survive anymore of course we want you in our lives because life is better loving you  but it's not a necessity to form a home anymore. Now back to the topic...within the one night stand women there are two kinds of women: "I'm doing it and I am cool with it." they enjoy their sexuality and they are happy living like this. Then there are the types of women that "think" they can handle it and can't and that's where the famous question "why don't men call after one night stands" arises. If you are truly honestly just out for good time, you shouldn't care if "they call". But I know even guy friends have told me THEY don't even feel good about one night stands after they happen...so what we should all do is stop to think that maybe sex should be something we share with someone that means something to us...and not as a tool of "getting" something.
And this is for both genders: if you don't respect yourself enough to know what you want, why sould somebody else? | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 11:01:24 PM | | @spaceghost (great show btw) You mean you actually waited until you got home to eat your candies on Halloween.? I did that my first year and when I got home my older brothers raided my impressive collection. **** that....eat the damn candies while you can! lol | |
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| Guys i need your help.... let us girls in on your huy stuff
Posted: 11/25/2005 1:03:01 AM | | Sex is just good or its not, you gotta find that out but given time to build, its definetly more telling, unfortunately if you wait to long it can get u in trouble if you gotta go. So find out sooner than later and everybodies happy, everybody likes sex or atleast they should. I like the coochie, i'll do the coochie every chance i get. | |
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