| What is it with women and/or me?
Posted: 8/8/2005 9:05:18 PM | I feel as if you don't know enough about me to say what you have said, but I did not find it necessary to say more than I did in my previous posts. In fact I feel some resentment towards you for some of these accusations you've levelled towards me, and it upsets me that somehow you've read that into my previous posts here. I would address each of your assumptions about me, but correcting you would not be a constructive use of my time; suffice it to say that you are incorrect in your summation of my problems. Until you get to know me better, please don't try to diagnose my issue.
Kage come on man stop your whinning and get in the game. I think your problem is all in confidence. Women can sense when a guy has confidence or not, it's all about the body language. Pick your damn head up and walk like you have a back bone ( I was a Marine Drill Insturctor, can you tell?). Look her in the eyes, not at her breast when you talk to her. This is a big one so pay attention, DON'T, and I repeat DON'T talk about your ex or any other woman that you have had a relationship with or stood you up (and from the way you talk, this could be a long list). Listen and pay attention (again take your attention off of her breast) to what she is talking about and think about what you are gonna say before you say it. Also, forget all those stupid come on lines that one of your buddies told you, hell they probally never worked for him either. Finally, take a bath (Hold on, don't get upset, I'm only advising you, not telling you that you smell bad) with something that smells good, and go buy yourself some GOOD (not cheap) cologne or body spray. Remember, science has shown that men and women are attracted by body scents, so it could not hurt. Finally, forget what you see on TV because that is less than 1% of all the women you will meet in your life time. Be realistic, find you someone that you can talk to, not just look at. | |
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| What is it with women and/or me?
Posted: 8/9/2005 12:19:25 AM | Hey Kage,
I have the same problem, I actually got laughed at the other day when I asked a woman what she was doing on a Thursday night. I felt so ridiculous. We are supposed to stick our necks out and not take it hard when it gets hacked. Here's a question for the women. Why is it that a "no thanks" or "thanks for asking, but..." is so hard? Some of you want us to make the move and then seem to glow when you say no or have an "as if!!" attitude toward us as though we had to KNOW you'd never consider a date with us so why are we bothering to ask. If we treated you like that we would be a jerk or an ass and the story would end up on Lifetime Channel, Oxygen, or Oprah. I won't give up, but I try to find out as much as I can about someone before I even approach them now and it is usually a month or two before I will even consider asking. | |
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| What is it with women and/or me?
Posted: 8/9/2005 3:53:15 AM | Hey, Medicop...that works BOTH ways.
If we're gonna whine about members of the opposite sex, what is it with MEN? Why are we good enough to talk to, tell your problems to, discuss sex with (at an ANNOYING length, sometimes), flirt with, HAVE sex with, etc...but oh HELL no, why should we actually DATE, become FRIENDS, or (god forbid) have a relationship?
Kage, you're not alone here...nor is it gender-specific. | |
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Fequje
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Joined: 7/26/2005
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| What is it with women?
Posted: 8/9/2005 3:57:58 AM | Yeah what they all said..... hey wait a minute..... girls we are talking to him now.
Hey guys I think he out foxed us all....
Look at all the girls talking to him for just whining. :)
D"m he is good   | |
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| What is it with women and/or me?
Posted: 8/9/2005 2:33:15 PM | Listen Kage, If you feel that I insulted you or is making fun of you in any way, then you are totally wrong. If you took the time and read what I wrote instead of focusing on what you perceive as negative you would know this. By looking at your photo I don't see any reason why you should get turned down as much as you do. I work with alot of young guys just like yourself and they can't understand why they can't get more dates, the answer is plan and simple, they lack confidence and women (just like men) can sense this like a shark can sense it's prey. You are right, I don't know anything about you, but I do know what you wrote and it sounds alot like what they tell me. I don't claim to be the worlds greatest woman's man, in fact I'm sure you are alot better looking than I am, but I also don't have problems of asking women out. Some say yes and some say no, that's the chance I take when I ask. If you never take that chance, or every time you are turned down you think that no woman wants you, it doesn't help your confidence. The reference about looking at a woman's breast instead of her eyes, we all do it. I have to stop myself sometimes because it's as natural as breathing. If what I wrote gives you resentment toward me I'm sorry, but the answer to a problem is not always what we want to hear and it is never easy. | |
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| What is it with women and/or me?
Posted: 8/9/2005 2:43:34 PM |
The reference about looking at a woman's breast instead of her eyes, we all do it.[/quote} I'll vouch for him, Kage...HE DOES IT. *BIG, leering wink at Woodu* | |
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| What is it with women and/or me?
Posted: 8/9/2005 3:04:00 PM | | When I'm talking to you, what else am I suppose to look at. Since you are not 6 ft tall I can't look up your skirt. LOL | |
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| What is it with women and/or me?
Posted: 8/9/2005 3:22:12 PM |
When I'm talking to you, what else am I suppose to look at. Since you are not 6 ft tall I can't look up your skirt. LOL
Oh yeah...forgot that part.
But wipe your chin, for gosh sakes! | |
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wayne
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Joined: 5/9/2003
Msg: 34 | |
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| What is it with women and/or me?
Posted: 8/16/2005 10:37:47 PM | Mediccop....
Sent you a PM!
Any woman who would laugh at someone asking them out is just a snooty b*tch and you are lucky she laughed. Better finding out how nasty she is BEFORE you take her to dinner or a movie............ She probably chuckled all the way home to her empty apartment.
And you're right....if a guy treated me like she did you, I would definitely label him as a jerk not worth any more time. (and my feelings would be a little hurt too, as I'm sure yours were.)
Just keep the faith that we aren't all like her........ | |
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