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 apurfectmeow
Joined: 11/19/2011
Msg: 276
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Wear or dont wear your pubic hair.
Just be comfortable enough in your own skin to respect personal choice.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 277
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 12/19/2011 12:30:13 PM
You’re overstepping the bounds of logic there jco. If someone looks at shaving as pedophilia and expresses a distaste for it - it’s probably because it does not appeal to them.


Not overstepping at all...If someone doesn't like something they say they don't like it.
Likewise if they go further by assigning INTENT to it then they are projecting!
 Consigliori
Joined: 1/7/2008
Msg: 278
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Posted: 12/19/2011 12:54:01 PM

Not overstepping at all...If someone doesn't like something they say they don't like it.
Likewise if they go further by assigning INTENT to it then they are projecting!


I think I get it. So..a guy who says he likes it but then goes one step further and assigns projected intent to people who say they don’t like it, that guy would really be projecting his own projections? Like that?

OT: If it’s hairless, can you still call it a “beaver”?
 apurfectmeow
Joined: 11/19/2011
Msg: 279
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 12/19/2011 5:50:39 PM
Either way the end results remain the same.
 gar91011
Joined: 9/27/2009
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Posted: 12/23/2011 1:34:53 PM
I, as a male, don't like the shaved look.It DOES remind me of a little girl, I have 2 Daughters and 6 Granddaughters, so I'm not a sicky OK? I have had it both ways and prefer that a woman looks like GOD made her, If he didn't want women to have hair there, He would'nt have given it to them, OK. Old fashion I know but as said, What ever floots your boat.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 281
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 12/23/2011 2:43:46 PM
^^^ So you prefer women to have hairy legs and armpits too right? And likewise, you never shave your face, trim finger or toenails either right? ...After all god put that stuff there too!
 BowHunter216
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 282
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Posted: 12/24/2011 7:08:00 AM
It's been my experience that most women are eager to please their bf and accommodating most reasonable requests. Since you stated your preference for her to shave her pubic hair and she refuses, let it go and forget it. Do not keep harping on it or use sex as a weapon against her. I kind of equate it to the woman who wrote in and was upset because her bf refuses and says it's disgusting after she gives him a bj. That sounds like a compatibility issue and could be a deal breaker whereas pubic shaving is insignificant in the overall scheme of things. BOW HUNTER
 hellodollie
Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 283
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Posted: 12/25/2011 1:05:03 AM
lmao xs 100! that was all I wanted to say, but I got a reply from admin that msgs that short would not be posted! OMG, red tape!!!
 seasickdave
Joined: 10/4/2011
Msg: 284
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 12/25/2011 9:57:32 AM
i love a hairy minge whats up with you lot
 cashleys
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 285
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 12:43:40 AM
Actually it is creepy and I have the same thoughts about it. I think all men and women should be well groomed, but bald and hairless in their vaginal area just creeps me out, I don't want to look like a little girl.. It started with women and their bikinis lines and now has become way too much in my opinion.

Also the hair is there for many health reasons.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 286
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 8:22:24 AM
Also the hair is there for many health reasons.

Those being what, exactly?

Actually it is creepy and I have the same thoughts about it. I think all men and women should be well groomed, but bald and hairless in their vaginal area just creeps me out, I don't want to look like a little girl..

If the hair on your vajayjay is the only thing that keeps you from looking like a little girl, you must get carded a lot unless you go out to places naked.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 287
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 9:52:52 AM

She says that the shaved look only turns on Pedophiles.

Helluva stretch.
Issues some?
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 288
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 9:54:22 AM

Also the hair is there for many health reasons.


Ya. It used to be useful when we were all a bunch of naked monkeys huddling in caves for winter.
Clothes have kind of made the thing redundant, but on an evolutionnary scale, it'll probably take a couple hundreds or thousands of years before we loose all of it. That and the little toe. Well toes in general.
 AspenJack
Joined: 4/17/2012
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Posted: 5/8/2012 9:57:38 AM
To each, his/her own. I like 'em smooth. I like 'em trimmed. I'll take 'em hairy. I'll take her, however my sweetie be.
 Wrandy
Joined: 9/20/2010
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Posted: 5/8/2012 10:44:07 AM
I've seen the pedophilia comment before and it makes me angry. That's just stupid, a 60 year old with a shaved crotch certainly wouldn't trigger a pedo.

My last G/F didn't shave because she'd get the irritation so she just trimmed it really short and that was perfect for me. I don't like a thick bush because I like the look of the goodies and don't like hair in my teeth.

My ex-wife was hairy and sometimes a hair would get pulled inside when we had sex. It would get trapped against the side of her V and my C would rub against it until I would get a sore (that I wouldn't notice until later). Sometimes it took a week for the sore to heal enough that we could have regular sex again.

One G/F wouldn't lick my nipples because she didn't like the hair in her mouth, so it is not just we men.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Posted: 5/8/2012 11:17:44 AM
I like au naturelle. No shaving,

Picking the hair out of my teeth. How wonderful
 WinstonDoubtfire
Joined: 7/29/2009
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Posted: 5/8/2012 12:23:06 PM
The hair is there for health reasons? What reasons might that be? A crab trap?
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 293
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Posted: 5/8/2012 1:06:29 PM

What reasons might that be? A crab trap?
....ewe Rusty! Seafood at it's finest!!@
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 5/8/2012 1:20:31 PM
And what a sea it is......YUK!!

cd
 DumchikBrewsky
Joined: 10/24/2010
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Posted: 5/8/2012 1:21:52 PM
God Almighty. Will this ridiculous issue never die?

Porn stars shave for the effect. Are we obligated to emulate them for that reason? If my man insisted on it, I'd show him the door. I've NEVER heard there are any health benefits to shaving pubic hair.

I saw a post elsewhere from a man in his early 60's, who stated outright that he only wants tiny, young Asian women who are shaved because they remind him of prepubescent girls. I feel very sorry for the women. I doubt most men feel this way, certainly not the ones who are emotionally healthy.
 FixedVariable
Joined: 10/17/2010
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Posted: 5/8/2012 3:45:52 PM

I don't want to look like a little girl..


I'd wager that you'd look a bit more like a porn star, than a little girl.

As long as I live I shall never ever understand how one grown up person can mistake another grown up person for a child just because her crotch is bare. Or be "reminded of a child". If you're seeing her (or his) crotch at all, then you obviously KNOW that you're not seeing a child.

This arguement strains reality, Sorry.


Porn stars shave for the effect.


Not entirely sure what the "effect" is, but I'm willing to accept this theory.

I shave, though not completely. I will never shave completely because regrowth is itchy and annoying. I am 41 yrs old. I do not see how it is possible for me to be mistaken for a child either.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
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Posted: 5/8/2012 4:30:32 PM
Some have mentioned already mother nature knows best.
Personally i prefer neat and trimmed and will gladly go bald for a change.
Have you offered to do it for her? Can be fun to trim each other.
 Fatman_Blimp
Joined: 2/28/2012
Msg: 298
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 11:41:51 PM
I don't get the pedo implications--they say the same thing about porn leading to pedophilia and rape...Just seems like some strange leaps to me...If a shaved bush makes you think of a child then something is SERIOUSLY wrong with you! I just can't stand it basically bcuz of the look..As a previous poster stated, I also feel a lot of this started with porn...When porn really started getting bigger in the '90s is when you started seeing baldness take off..Nowadays I wonder how many women under 26 have any hair down there! Personally, I want it hairy--the hairier the better, like the girls of ATK or Seattle Hairy Girls!
 livingwithadog
Joined: 7/11/2011
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Posted: 5/9/2012 10:39:36 PM

She says that the shaved look only turns on Pedophiles.

Uhhhh... possible. Can she substantiate that statement, I wonder.
Me? I trim. My skin is extremely sensitive in that area...
 phil2847
Joined: 8/10/2006
Msg: 300
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Posted: 5/9/2012 10:49:48 PM
If I was with a girl that had a full bush........I would spray it with "Raid" before I got close to it!!! No damn telling what would be living in that nasty jungle!!!
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