| why do men say they will call and then don't? Posted: 8/30/2009 12:57:59 PM | I'd say that if someone makes promises they don't keep - that's an indicator you should avoid that person and find someone higher quality. I'm just about to start a string on my talking with women who show interest in meeting - then they get flakey and fail to respond. Then there's when you meet someone and all seems OK, but they can't give you a straight answer. The way I see it, if they lack consideration of others and/or they fail to keep their word - we can do better. Believe me, the ladies do the same kind of stuff too... | |
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| why do men say they will call and then don't? Posted: 8/30/2009 2:20:58 PM | CityKitty, I think alot of us are in the same boat as you are. I message someone, he has my number, he never answers. Give it a week and he asks me my I don't message him. Sorry I am not doing ALL of the talking. I guess someone like that is just wanting to stroke his ego.
Someone will come around who is not like talking to the wall. Guys like that I think are really checking someone else out. | |
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| why do men say they will call and then don't? Posted: 8/30/2009 2:50:02 PM | | don't call: Scared, Married, Trolling, Immature, Playing Games, etc, etc, works both ways, men and women. I guess you have to be perfect to get that magic phone call :) | |
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| why do men say they will call and then don't? Posted: 8/30/2009 2:57:25 PM | | I would say there is a certain segment of the dating population that keeps a number of people on the go at the same time. Depending on who else in their stable that may or may not be available, you may or may not be the priority for that person at any given time. If you are OK with that, or doing something similar yourself, no problem. But if you feel undervalued or are unhappy with the lack of consideration, dont waste your time with this kind of person, they will likely always be looking to improve their hand. | |
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| why do men say they will call and then don't? Posted: 8/30/2009 8:16:26 PM | It's not only men who do this crap;women do it too.
I got a ladies number after asking if we could see each other and she said yes with a big smile. I call, no return call.
Now, maybe she wasn't interested, or maybe she likes to play games and expects the guy to keep calling. Either way I'm gone.
There are plenty of idiots out there of both genders. | |
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