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| | How Should I Approach This??Page 2 of 2 (1, 2) | | For one, if you are still "getting hot" before bed, then perhaps you should get properly exhausted in that area if you catch my drift. Then it won't be such an issue. As for the sleeping problem, that's very common. I read in a recent study in the UK that couples that slept in separate beds get much better sleep and feel well rested the next day. I sleep horribly at my girl's house, but to me it doesn't matter. I can do with as little as five hours of sleep a night. On the occasions I can't sleep, I can sneak out into the guest bedroom. I used to do that with my wife and so did she when I was snoring loudly. As long as everyone is OK with the other person sneaking out into the other bed, that's a pretty good solution I have found. | |
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| How Should I Approach This??
Posted: 12/31/2009 4:27:29 PM | I would be very nice about it...of course.....and I would approach it in a loving way...
but bottom line is that i would not be losing a lot of sleep over a dude. NO WAY!! I also do NOT tolerate snoring. good god ....that crap is enough to drive me to Homicide! same thing about temperature, weight pressing on me or pinning me into positions i cant get out of, stealing the covers etc. naaaaaaaa no can do!!
Guys Ive been with understand that there is a time for intimacy and there is a time for SLEEP they have been understanding of sacred SLEEP time and they do what needs to be done so they dont bug the bejibbies outta me all night.
I would never consider a long term relastionship with a guy who has a problem with this. Its called CONSIDERATION. If hes not considerate of me, then he can take a hike.
If this guy is not Long Term material, then I suppose I would jsut spend the night with him when I dont have to go to work the next day. and I would NEVER lay there staring into space and getting mad about it all night. Id jsut get up and go watch tv or turn on the tv in the bedroom and watch it there. then i would double dog dare him to get pissy about the tv keeping him awake!
A guy who really cares about you will understand and want to take care of this problem. Of course, it is a habit and he is asleep...so it will take time and work to get it figured out. if he is really trying....then be nice about it.
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