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 pazoozoo
Joined: 8/28/2006
Msg: 296
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If you don't really enjoy face to face interaction with people, there is no reason at all to rush anything.

After literally years of using the internet to meet people, I have learned there are those who prefer virtual dating, parties, friends, etc.. They don't honestly want a real, live person in their space.

On the other hand, if you enjoy being with and around people, arrange a meeting fairly soon. Too many frauds to waste lots of time with emails and phone conversation.
 artist_48
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 297
Why is there a rush to meet people from online chat and e-mails?
Posted: 6/24/2010 9:36:31 AM
People are different. As for myself, I'm am very visual and I value the written word.
After a number of emails where I have a good sense of who they are initially, I like to talk on the phone and go with the flow. If there's interest, we will meet when the time is right. I go with my gut on it.
I don't understand why you are placing such issues on safety. Meet in a public place- leave in the public eye. If you really have interest in someone, tell them what info you would feel comfortable knowing before you meet and check it out. If they are open they won't have an issue with it.
 peppermint petunias
Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 298
Why is there a rush to meet people from online chat and e-mails?
Posted: 6/24/2010 11:54:21 AM

Why is there a rush to meet people from online chat and e-mails?


Well a guy from out of state told me he is afraid of dying alone after 2 e mails he wants to meet.....
4 states away now..One half real conversation centered mostly about his fears and he thinks I am this and that.

The other was.."Did you sleep well"? WTF?????????????????????????????????

Maybe he is dying soon.
 prettypictures
Joined: 1/29/2010
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Why is there a rush to meet people from online chat and e-mails?
Posted: 6/24/2010 2:31:38 PM
Take a phone and a friend to the meeting, with a safety exit if he turns out to be a nutter

Got to go for it sometime girl, go on jump next time - just remember all the safety codes and you might meet Mr Right

EDIT: and the one who blocked you - his choice (talk about desperado):lol:
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