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| | HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??Page 30 of 30 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30) | "If a woman lied to me about her numbers(or anything) then I'd definately dump her...."
This coming from a 50 year old man. Isn't this high school shit. I can't believe anyone in their 40's or 50's would even ask another person "so, how many have you slept with?". It's none of your business, it's not only an assinine question but it's an immature question. I just can't believe that one ADULT would ask another ADULT that question.
I'd like to change the above quote to read "If a man ASKED me about my numers then I'd definately dump him". I have nothing to be ashamed of but it's still no one's business but mine.
We all have a past. If the person I am willing to spend the rest of my life with can't get over the fact that I have a past he is not worthy of my love. And the same goes for me. It's all about the now and not about what either of us were doing 5 years before we met. WhoTF cares. Some folks really need to grow up. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2012 4:29:34 PM |
We all have a past. If the person I am willing to spend the rest of my life with can't get over the fact that I have a past he is not worthy of my love.
Yeah, well, if you were reading properly I didn't say anything about dumping anyone because of their numbers.... I said I'd dump them for LYING
If a woman lied to me about her numbers(or anything) then I'd definately dump her..
See.... Try to pay attention.... | |
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Posted: 1/28/2012 4:34:23 PM | | Dude, thats really not that many for a chick thats from illinois unfortunately. I will say this however. Maybe she is telling you the truth but women tend to lower the number while guys raise the number. If you really like her move on from this being a problem. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2012 9:00:12 PM | "If a woman lied to me about her numbers(or anything) then I'd definately dump her.."
You try and pay attention - the only reason she would lie about her numbers is because you ASKED her her numbers. My point is WHY would you ask for her numbers.
And you said if she "lied to me about her numbers (or anything) then I'd definately dump her..". So exacty what part of that should I pay attention to? It seems pretty self explainatory. You would dump her if she lied about her numbers...
My opinion is that anyone who asks someone their numbers is an immature idiot. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2012 4:01:20 AM | I don't agree with that, it depends how and when you ask. If you know them quite well then you will already know roughly how many and perhaps ask them in a jovial way as a form of banter...nothing should come of it though at that stage.
Of course if you're asking planning to take action on it then yes that is immature. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2012 1:53:37 PM | You try and pay attention - the only reason she would lie about her numbers is because you ASKED her her numbers.
No, she would LIE because she's a LIAR....
Or are you saying that other people asking a question you don't like automatically makes you a liar...
She can tell me the answer.... (assuming I asked ) or she can tell me it's none of my business....
But if she lies then she's a LIAR period and not worth dating for that reason alone....
You would dump her if she lied about her numbers...
Yes. And I'd dump her if she lied about anything. Are numbers supposed to be exempt from telling the truth?
So exacty what part of that should I pay attention to?
What part of where I said, "(or anything)" did you have the most trouble with?
Look, I don't really care how many she slept with... If she tells me or I find out then fine, I can make an informed decision to date her or not...
The last woman who told me her numbers volunteered the information because she had been a swinger and felt I should know up front. She had lot's of partners. She had other reasons to tell me up front. I chose to continue to date her.
If a woman told me it was none of my business, I'd either date her or not depending on how I felt about her otherwise...
But if she LIED to me about ANYTHING, she gets dumped.
Maybe that's the part you should have been paying attention to?
My opinion is that anyone who asks someone their numbers is an immature idiot.
You're entitled to your opinion. But that doesn't mean the rest of the world has the same opinion.
My opinion is that if a person has to lie about their numbers then they have bigger issue with their own numbers than they are letting on....
I've been asked my numbers by a few women. I've never lied to them. I've had a few dump me because of it. Oh well. That's called being able to deal with the consequences of what you choose to do in life...
Personally, I think if a woman I am dating wants to know anything about me or my past, I will tell her. I might not be proud of my numbers but they are a part of my past. I don't think any relationship will survive if the people in it evade or lie about anything that the other person wants to know. If someone told me I didn't need to know, I'd probably wonder what else they didn't think I needed to know...
And finally.... I think calling anyone an "immature idiot" says a lot about their own maturity level... but then, that's just my opinion.... | |
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Posted: 1/29/2012 3:53:58 PM | Nobody found that the girl had slept with 5 guys in one night?
This is very weird. It sounds a sexual party, though.
However, everyone has special experience. You cannot judge another person just this number or so. If you do love her, her history is something to you but you should forget it.
In general I will ask his history when I am thinking to stay with him. The only reason that I want to ask is to find out whether there is any important person for him in the past. And I will know how to deal with her if she comes back to his life. All of other people are just a number. But he cannot increase that number after stay with me.
You should be more open to her history if you do care her. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2012 7:35:25 PM | My point in all this is why would someone ask such a question - how many have you slept with? IF the person said "that is none of your business" then you think they are being evasive, not up front, have something to hide - assumptions when in all actuality - it is none of your business. IF the person responds and says a number that they think is low enough to make you think they are wonderful and worthy - and they lie - you dump them. IF the person tells the truth and that number is higher than YOU think is reasonable - you think they are a slut and dump them.
The thing is, there is no right answer to a question that is none of your business and shouldn't be asked in the first place.
I was married for 31 years and I never asked my husband how many women he slept with, I knew he had a girlfriend for two years so I'm sure he slept with her but I don't know how many he slept with in casual dating or one night stands. And he never asked me that question either. All I knew was he wasn't a virgin and he knew that I wasn't a virgin. And he didn't ask me that on his death bed either so I'm guessing it was not something that he gave a rat's azz about. So that is why my opinion is that mature, grown adults don't ask that questions - only idiots ask it. But that's my opinion.
Why ask the question - it's none of your business.... | |
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Posted: 2/1/2012 8:01:24 AM | Welsh474 and many others here - WHERE IS THE LIKE BUTTON?????? Love, love, love some of the comments here. So tired of the immature, shallow, misogynist attitude like the OP's that I hear from some people in this forum - men and women alike.  | |
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Posted: 2/1/2012 8:41:28 AM | | Who the hell cares? As long as she doesnt have anything who cares tbh? God people are ridiculous. Just because she liked a variety doesnt make her undateable jesus people. I see why some are single now | |
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Posted: 2/1/2012 1:20:01 PM | | Since perception tends to end up your reality, you probably just needed to put your hand over your eyes and give her the benefit of the doubt. It's a disenchanting question to ask that leads only to no good. If you don't find out right away and you start developing feelings, that's your fault. | |
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Posted: 5/23/2012 10:51:49 AM | Men on here are belligerent if women won't sleep with them by the 3rd date but if a woman sleeps with other men then she's a whore.
Blame yourselves for the double standard. | |
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| HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 5/23/2012 9:01:08 PM | | What if it was reversed and the woman asked...most women say 3 - 7 which is the golden rule of a lie.. more than that is more than likely the truth.. if a females asks me i sadi 3.. for each of the girls i actually loved...but in reality..im hittin close to 100.. i thank the lord im not dead or have a disease or kids.. so if a girl has even 20 on the roster then im cool...now... | |
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