| | HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??Page 5 of 30 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30) | Dude...I hate to break this to you...but studies indicate (and theres been a bunch of them) that woman "underbag" their sex number. So if she said 14...most likely the real number is 20-24 men before you.
Studies also indicate that woman typically have twice the number of partners as men for the same age... And, why men get labeled with the "sleeping around" sign I have no idea. Also, these numbers would tend to indicate that a few lucky guys must be making up for the rest of the men for the statistics to hold.
Always wear a condom unless you ready to get married.... | |
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Posted: 1/21/2010 8:47:25 PM | Hugo, I do not blame you for being concerned;
You see shes always made out that she is very shy and wouldnt be
with anyone before me,
That is slick, the good little girl routine. This is what is troublesome, the pretense for two years.
now told me shes gone out with 2 guys and had sex with these.
Also she's told me she's had sex with 5 other men on one night stands, and 2 of those were unprotected
That makes 7 guys, not 8, as you have stated. The clincher here is unprotected sex due to:
She always insists on a condom even though she has been on the pill for 2 years with me
Casual sex, no condom; committed boyfriend, only with a condom.
That does not make sense. She may have something she’s not told you about or not on the pill.
I asked how I compare in bed to these and she said she didn't want to say. I can't really get over this.
If a man asks his love how good a lover he is, anyone with a modicum of sensitivity, is going to tell him he is great. So I see this as her slighting you.
Some men feel the need to ask this of women that have had a lot of lovers.
The last guy to ask me this was not insecure but so much younger than I that he was merely curious as to how he measured up.
Despite what another here said that if the number of lovers is great you cannot possibly be the best, it is not true. When the element of love is present prior lovers fade into the background and the current love becomes the best experience ever.
I think you have found someone who knows how to tell another what she believes they want to hear. She is not comfortable in her own skin. I just do not see a devoted woman but rather a game player. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2010 8:52:03 PM | | It's okay for guys to have sex with lots of women. It's not okay for women to have sex with lots of men (lesbians are okay). That's the truth. OP, you must dump her and sleep with more women. You must be rational. Stop thinking with your heart and start thinking with your wiener. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2010 9:05:32 PM | Tsk tsk tsk! Here we are 2010 and people still cling to old fashioned ideals from the dark ages. Men all out embrace equality when they want a woman to pay her own way on a date,or when they want a three some or for her to have sex with him,but balk at a woman enjoying sex and being in control of their own sexuality. 
As I said before this entire thread is proof of why you tell a guy to buzz off when he ask you about your previous sexual partners. Testing yes of course ask if they have been tested and of course ask them and yourself to be tested again, but who and how many previous sexual partners is no ones business but yourself.
Pick your knuckles off the ground men. It's an extremely unappealing look. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2010 9:22:45 PM | its always ok for men to have sex with 100 men in this life...and not for the woman to have sex with that many men...
that's why women are called sluts...a slut can have sex with 100 men in a year but a real stud wouldn't even come close to that many women in a year...
because a woman only has to open her legs to find men to have sex with her...a man has to either have money, be a really good looking guy and or have some real game to have that much sex...
women need to stop trying to buck the natural order of things...this whole BS of "this is 2010" is just that...
women that are sluts are still sluts and of questionable moral turpitude...and are not 'relationship' materal...
they are ruined, damanged women that have something seriously wrong with them.... | |
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Posted: 1/21/2010 9:25:11 PM | haha this one kinda makes me laugh... 28 years old and shes been with 9 guys... sweetheart you should feel lucky.. most women now a days have been with 10 plus.... expecially the younger crowd 16-20. its hard to find someone who has not had a lot of sexual partners.
but the real question is, how many women have you slept with... dont judge a person on their past, she might of had a rough time, instead judge her on the person she has become and is striving to be. sounds like she dosenot have a problem with how many people youve been with, why have a problem with her
erika. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2010 9:30:23 PM |
its always ok for men to have sex with 100 men in this life...and not for the woman to have sex with that many men...
that's why women are called sluts...a slut can have sex with 100 men in a year but a real stud wouldn't even come close to that many women in a year...
because a woman only has to open her legs to find men to have sex with her...a man has to either have money, be a really good looking guy and or have some real game to have that much sex...
women need to stop trying to buck the natural order of things...this whole BS of "this is 2010" is just that...
women that are sluts are still sluts and of questionable moral turpitude...and are not 'relationship' materal...
they are ruined, damanged women that have something seriously wrong with them....
Lol! | |
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Posted: 1/21/2010 9:35:43 PM | I'm not even going to argue with the rest of BS you posted but your typo is funny.
its always ok for men to have sex with 100 men in this life...and not for the woman to have sex with that many men... | |
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Posted: 1/21/2010 10:23:31 PM |
a man has to either have money, be a really good looking guy and or have some real game to have that much sex…
Duh? Yeah, we’re not going to go around fvcking losers till we get the one we want.
Hot guys never complain about sluts, only guys that can’t get laid do that
its always ok for men to have sex with 100 men in this life…
Freudian slip or on the down low? | |
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majyk1
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| HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 1/22/2010 12:24:11 AM | If you didnt want the honest answer then you shouldnt have asked!!
She's still the same person! And who are you to judge? How many women have you slept with? (please dont answer that, I dont really want to know!! )
Quit crying about the past and look to the future! | |
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majyk1
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majyk1
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Posted: 1/22/2010 1:45:44 AM | I don't have a lock... I have a vending machine of LURRRRRVE.... your stankin' key don't work here. Only CASH MONEY!
But seriously, I hope the gf of the OP dumps his sorry insecure A$$. | |
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Posted: 1/22/2010 3:06:34 AM | I actually think her past is none of your business Hugo. But if she felt compelled to answer you when you asked her how many men........I think she probably had some misguided faith that you were mature enough to handle the answer. Obviously not!
Also a little infantile of you to say "girls are different"....Inferring it's ok for men?
As for the reply to the post from "better than yours" ............... I'd have wonder how you can make the statement "all women are whores", when you've obviously never had a woman because the only thing you play with at 27 is your nintendo and yourself. I can't believe morons like you exist. | |
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Posted: 1/22/2010 4:00:13 AM |
I don't have a lock... I have a vending machine of LURRRRRVE.... your stankin' key don't work here. Only CASH MONEY!
Ok, here's my five bucks. Don't forget my change, and I want the full hour. | |
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