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|At 28, not knowing the answers to these basic questions says to me....you are just very inexperienced. That can be changed....but your penis size.....|
4"s long and an inch girth is small,but not useless!And size does come into play if you don't know how to use what you have.Women tend to enjoy clitoral and G-spot stimulation and if your penis isn't working for her,then use your fingers or your tongue.Yes...women like that when they can't get enough penis inside of them to feel anything.Do you enjoy giving oral sex? Have you ever licked a woman's vagina?
I think you need to ask HER what she likes and what will get her off.
Have you ever helped give a woman an actual orgasm?
It sounds as though you are way too in the dark to have done so.
There are ALOT of books out there that will help answer your questions...BUY ONE!
Posted: 1/23/2010 5:20:11 AM
Looking for some advice.
She never comes nor makes any noise when I'm inside her, however if I use my fingers on the outside of her va gina she makes noise and groans.... but doesn't happen when my pe nis is inside her. Is this normal that she enjoys fingers on the outside of it rather than my pen is inside her? - is that the way most girls are??
Do girls really notice the size of the pe nis? Mine is 4" when hard. Is that small or normal? It isnt very wide either probably an inch wide at most.
Wow I thought you were young too by the way you asked this question and not 28 but it's okay...you are bigger than my ex--husband so I can relate...You have gotten great advice on here...this is what worked for me...
Since she is making noise when you are on the outside...CONTINUE rubbing her clit until she cums and the immediately put your HARD penis inside her, making sure you are in a position now that you are still rubbing her clit with your penis...truthfully she won't feel it inside but it still will feel good for her to get more stimulation to her clit and she may even cum a second time if you do it long enough...you should definitely cum though...
If that doesn't work just make sure you make her orgasm using your hands and tongue at least once (more would be better) before you even stick your****in her...trust me, if you bring her to an orgasm she won't be that disappoint in the size of your member...(and being small she might even enjoy oral on you...makes it easier to deep throat)
You don't even mention the use of your tongue...have you even explored her down there with it? (That is a must for someone with a small penis...sorry).....do you even both have oral sex?
Posted: 1/23/2010 6:12:24 AM
|You could just ask her????|
What's up with people being able to get naked and do the dirty but not talk about it???
Good open communication, honesty and trust are the foundations for a good relationship.
Grow a pair and talk to her!
Btw, yes - 4" is small and size does matter.
Posted: 1/23/2010 9:04:24 AM
|I call "Troll" too. I think just to flush out the "size matters" people after so much is said that it doesn't.|
Posted: 1/23/2010 9:06:59 AM
Animals don't do it, why should we ?
I know this is just a troll, but then again, there are some guys out there who don't stray too far from such philosophy, so with that, here's how I'd respond.
Going with that animal analogy, many animals eat their own poop, too. Some animals even eat their own young. I have a dog who, if she comes in contact with another dog's poop on the ground, will try to roll in it. So hey, with your philosophy, then why don't humans do it?
The answer is simple, really: Our brains and behaviors are at a different level,which is one of the things that sets us apart from the rest of the animal kingdom.
But if you want to eat your own poop, then you be my guest. Because after all, animals do it, so why shoudn't you?
Posted: 1/23/2010 9:10:29 AM
|If your having sex with someone, you should be able to have a conversation about sex with them.|
Discuss it with her
Ask her what she likes
Tell her what you like
Spend time finding her clit with your tounge and fingers and experiment
Posted: 1/23/2010 4:54:05 PM
| This is where you will haveto make up for something lacking. Get good with your mouth and tongue I've heard from the horses mouth, that it's a real turn on too a woman, when a man knows what he's doing there. With what I've heard and experienced, size definitley matters! However, is overated. If you watch porn, and see those so called monster****, it appears that a man with 9 inches only gets about maybe 5 inches in at most. If he goes any deeper, alot of the time the woman looks likes she's constipated and yells or yelps, in pain. I've had them do that, and if you are to rough they will often get upset. Good luck! at ever trying to get them in the sack again.|
Posted: 1/23/2010 5:05:45 PM
|scientific fact: women cum from stimulation of her clit or G-spot, or both. there are 3 types of orgasmz: clitorical, G-spot and both (the best!) Some women may cum from intercourse if G-spot gets stimulated, depends on the woman, but most of them need clit stimulation during the intercourse. do some research!|
Posted: 1/23/2010 5:12:43 PM
|Wikipedia may not be the best source, but they have a few interesting charts:|
For some strange reason, I suddenly feel like jumping on a soapbox and thumping my chest (I'm on the "north" side of the peak)...
Posted: 1/23/2010 5:27:26 PM
Come on people. This thread is an obvious prank. Nobody has a 4" extremity unless their name is Howard Stern.
^^^^ 4 incher and 1 inch wide.....are you under age?????
this is obviously a thread to tease all of us answering...
Posted: 1/23/2010 7:03:24 PM
|i'm sorry guy but you are obviously not doing it right. maybe u should look up the number for extends|
Posted: 1/23/2010 7:33:12 PM
|Is this guy serious?|
Anyway try turning on her mind before moving to her body. Little love/erotic notes hidden in her purse. Random text messages etc.
4play will be your best friend. Try a massage, body kisses. Use your imagination.
As for the clitoris: be gentle. Soft and slow at the start. Allow her body to tell you when to speed up and apply more preasure.
Posted: 1/23/2010 7:37:36 PM
|mine is 5 inches and 1 inch in diamiter...yes i too like most men wish for a bigger dong! but that said i don't think that it keeps me or my wife from having a wonderful sex life, i enjoy using my mouth and she loves it to! after i send her off to an earth shattering climax then she wants my coc in her and then somrtimes she comes again and so do I.. you just have to learn to use what you have!|
Posted: 1/24/2010 12:43:53 AM
|If you can get her off with your hands and mouth does it really matter? That being said... your fingers are probably smaller than your penis, so concentrate on exactly what it is you do with your fingers. What motions do you make. Depth. Rythm. Everything. And then see if you can replicate that with your penis.|
Posted: 1/24/2010 5:49:01 AM
Mine is 4" when hard. Is that small or normal?
get a tongue ring ...one that viberates
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Posted: 1/24/2010 7:40:43 AM
This guy must be Asian
One of my best boyfriends was Japanese...
My ex-husband was Hispanic...what happened to that stereotype of the hot steamy Latin lover?!?
Posted: 1/24/2010 8:21:43 AM
|Women don't care how they cum, as long as they cum. Diick, finger, whatever. Smart men learn to communicate and work around their limitations. Develop some skills and practice, practice, practice. Trust me, you get her to cum, she'll be back for more.|
Posted: 1/24/2010 8:28:51 AM
|probably wrong what I'm going to say but o well, if that is seriously your case, I hate to say it but if you want her to enjoy you actually being inside her I think you better start looking at some pills ad some really good ones at that. Your other question is that normal, no it's not normal its small the normal average length of that part of a mans body now days is 6.25" long, hate to be the berer of bad news. If the pills don't work well maybe you can always use this method on her |
Posted: 1/24/2010 8:33:31 AM
Nah that won't work...she will NEVER feel him inside...he needs to perfect his oral and hand skills
Posted: 1/24/2010 8:38:25 AM
That was worth a million, well I forgot to add one thing, you can always try anal, you shouldn't have a problem there, if she's not into that.... sorry use hot sauce
Posted: 1/24/2010 8:44:54 AM
|well his initial post was to make her cum not him...doing anal will do nothing for her... (just MY opinion)|
(I know some women can cum with the A-spot...I read about it...I am just talking the majority)
Posted: 1/24/2010 9:11:34 AM
|I don't know if I'm buying this story. If I had a four incher I would think I would know I have a small pecker and not be telling the world on a dating site.|
Mine is only 12 inches long. Yes, I'm kidding.
Posted: 1/24/2010 9:23:21 AM
|^^^^^^^^^^^^^ouch!! Am i glad you are joking OP lol. It would have to come with a health warning!|
Posted: 1/30/2010 4:46:37 PM
| So are you saying you would prefer a man hung like a light switch, too a man hung like a horse?|
Posted: 1/30/2010 5:18:28 PM
|whoever said 6.25" was avg, dunno where you got your stats...i've always read/heard 5-5.5 long is avg, and 4 around (circumference) is avg.|
ok to all the people STATING he as a small penis, or whatever way you put it....i'm sure this guy KNOWS its small and doesn't need to be CONSTANTLY reminded lol
all I can say is ORAL+FINGERS is your best bet. OR get one of those SHEATHS i've heard of/seen at sex shops, where you put it on your c*ck and it basically adds on some girth and length of synthetic penis.
As to the comment about only being able to get 5" in b4 hitting cervix, personal experience, this isnt true for all, some need a lil more to hit the cervix, some even like it when you do.
Gonna be devil's advocate here, for a min, and come out with something that some people know, and some people completely refuse to acknowledge.
just like men are built different shapes and sizes, lengths and girths, so are women's vaginas.
some women have shallow ones, wide ones, deep ones, and not so wide ones, and every combo you can think of...so its not always the guys fault lol...talk to different women and BIG and HUGE will be different numbers.
Perfect example the woman in this thread who said she has trouble with anything more then 5... vs the size queen chick who made fun of OP for his size, she admits to liking the "big boys" 99% probably because of anatomical differences.