SBM4U2
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| | Womans OrgasmPage 3 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4) | You have what God gave you to work with and you have to use it to the best of your advantage. I believe man and his penis was made for the purpose of reproduction. Pleasure is just a good side effect 
Put it this way, if a woman can please a woman, you should be alright because you have a couple of inches on her. Read, learn, get better, stay away from sex toys bigger than you are and be all you can be  | |
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Posted: 2/5/2010 3:09:28 AM | | hahah....sorry...im only 19 and my shi*t is twice as big as yours...god you never know what to expect on this site.... | |
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Posted: 2/5/2010 8:23:56 AM | | I think that is a little on the small side. Size does matter but only to an extent. If a man is too big a woman might not like it either. She probably makes noise when you are playing with it outside because you are rubbing her clit. Alot of women can't come from just penetration, they need some kind of clitoral stimulation. Why don't you try talking to her about it. See if there is a certain way she likes it, or a certain position. | |
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Posted: 2/5/2010 8:47:22 AM | Prince Charming's cousin is correct. The whole compatibility of size is something that the Kama Sutra talks about -- now I mean the real one, centuries old one, from India, in Sanskrit and NOT the one made up by westerners). The Kama Sutra classifies both men and women according to the size of their genitals. To help you remember, the text names each size category after an animal. So you have rabbits, horses, and (I think) elephants. Now, clearly, rabbits might do ok with horses, so to speak, and horses might manage ok with elephants, but any rabbit trying to be with an elephant will either be hopelessly lost or lost in pain.
Whatever type you are, talk to your partner OP. What does she like? Are there things you can do to make intercourse more pleasurable for her? Or, maybe, she's happy, just not as vocal about it during intercourse. Only in porn are women constantly moaning and cooing. Actual sex, is different. | |
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Posted: 2/5/2010 9:32:20 AM | Ok here goes...I've been with men who are built large (mostly the long large type) and one who was probably your size OP. Yes I have to admit large is definitely easier to get off with if they even have minimal skill and care in what they're doing. For a man who's not endowed it's much more work. Luckily the lover that I was with who was so very small was quite attentive to my needs. He was smart enough to pay attention to my body's reactions and fortunately skilled at oral. There is one position in particular that really helps for a man in your position. Backwards cowgirl...great because my g-spot is hit AND I have control! But boy that's not the only one that can be helpful for you! Try opening the topic and listening to her..express your desire to learn and improve on things and most women will react most favorably. Oh the joys of sex! My advice..experiment and play as much as possible..after all isn't that the best part?  | |
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rossal
| | Joined: 12/5/2005
Msg: 56 | |
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Posted: 2/5/2010 10:11:48 AM | edburke001: I hope your post was a joke. Did you know that the only organ made SPECIFICALLY for pleasure....is the clitoris? Your thinking is the dark ages, and totally ignorant and wrong. God wanted women to enjoy sex...that is why we have a clitoris. Women's role in sex is to be passive? Women don't even orgasm most of the time?
You must be living in a cave. Your ignorance is appalling...... | |
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Posted: 2/5/2010 11:06:21 AM | The best sex BY FAR that I've EVER had was with a guy who is on the small side and not very big around, either.
It's a big, wide, wonderful webby world out there. Do your research. Learn about women, sex, techniques. There are numerous online sites and books that will give you the info. that you need. Put the effort into it and you will be rewarded. | |
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kiev95
| | Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 58 | |
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Posted: 2/8/2010 6:26:08 PM | | men with big c*cks are usually the worst lovers. they think they don't have to do anything else, because they have a size and a woman should have an orgazm just by looking at it. wrong!!! | |
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Posted: 2/8/2010 10:29:19 PM | ^^^
That's like the mentality a lot of DROP dead gorgeous women have...they just think they are SOOO F'in good looking that they don't need to try, the guy should just bust a nut cuz she's so hot (honest observation) | |
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Posted: 2/8/2010 11:33:28 PM | I don't see why you're so worried...everyone know the female orgasm is just a myth anyway     | |
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Posted: 2/9/2010 12:59:31 AM |
men with big c*cks are usually the worst lovers. they think they don't have to do anything else, because they have a size and a woman should have an orgazm just by looking at it. wrong!!!
I had to look over and make sure I hadn't written this post. This is sooo correct. The post right below it, I have no personal experience as the women I've been with were average looking, but I can completely believe it's true.
I think some people are forgetting the fact that an emotional connection makes a huge difference in whether or not a woman enjoys sex. That is why foreplay is important. Not because you're trying to get her to orgasm prior to penetration (though that can happen too), but because it builds up sexual tension and makes for a more passionate experience. If I have strong feelings for a guy and he really turns me on with how he talks to me and how he kisses me and touches me, then it doesn't matter at all what size his junk is. | |
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Posted: 2/9/2010 7:13:12 AM | Been my experience that most woman dont climax with us inside...have had a few do but generally...no....My success has been with oral....most of the time shes had toe curling climaxes like that....and this oversees anything else... | |
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kiev95
| | Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 63 | |
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Posted: 2/10/2010 7:06:03 PM | I don't see why you're so worried...everyone know the female orgasm is just a myth anyway
I bet you have never seen a woman cumming!!!! | |
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Posted: 2/11/2010 12:59:43 AM |
1.) Its called the CLITORIS, stupid.
EXACTLY!
Also, based on my somewhat limited experience, at this point in my life, anything too large is just painful. I don't know or care for averages, my man fits perfectly! | |
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Posted: 2/11/2010 11:12:10 AM |
Do you ever orgasm then with the mans pen inside you, or do you need to be rubbed with the fingers on the clit?? and what way should I have sex with her? should I rub clit, then stick pen in, then rub clit again? how can we orgasm at the same time then??
Marcus, an orgasm happens during intercourse, simultaneously, when two people can reach that orgasm under normal conditions, then tune into each other's body and mind, vocals... all develops into a cycling of building arousal and stronger reactions.. which all builds to a final orgasm, and if you're good at all, you can time your ejaculate with her orgasm.
Have fun practicing man!
Peace | |
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Posted: 2/11/2010 1:57:01 PM | | hi everyone. new on here so hope I am ok sending this. mmmm well. I get very few orgasms through penetration and get the best orgasms from being rubbed. It' s the build up and the foreplay that is important. spend a lot of time on her neck, body and legs and it don't matter about size. Most men exagerate anyway lol. A huge one is great to feel and suck but I would run a mile if it came near to my ****. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2010 11:47:32 PM |
I bet you have never seen a woman cumming!!!!
WOW Lady I guess you didn't get the whole ironic joking part....  | |
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Posted: 2/13/2010 12:57:54 AM | I have to disagree kiev.
Specifically its the guys that advertise they are big that have problems.
A great lover knows how to use his size and read the womans body for signs of enjoyment. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2010 4:49:49 AM | | Bloody amazing what is allowed to be written in these forums ! And frankly I cant believe that people are willing to be so explicit. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2010 5:37:21 AM | | the word is mean , stupid | |
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kiev95
| | Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 71 | |
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Posted: 2/20/2010 1:43:41 PM | | Guys can say all they want how great lovers they are. But the fact is: that it's very hard to find a really good lover. If all men would be so great in bed women wouldn't: 1) fake orgazms, 2) pretend that they have headaches or periods when it comes to having sex 3) choose vibrators over men. any objections? | |
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Posted: 2/20/2010 1:54:55 PM | it's the motion of the ocean op, stimulate her clit or else you're in trouble big boy  | |
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Posted: 2/21/2010 9:31:46 AM | | [Without using the Shift ] | |
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Posted: 2/21/2010 10:49:28 AM | | I dont see alot of woman climax when we are having intercourse either...have had a few but its been rare....as for her orgasm...if done correctly...oral will give her toe curling climaxes....but preparations the biggest issue here....foreplay,kissing and her approval willdo her good....as for her climaxing during intercourse...try using your fingers while your in her....thats been good for me also....good luck! | |
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Posted: 2/17/2011 6:29:33 AM | | To some size matters...as for the finger thing....Ive done the same with the same result...but the stats say that a woman doesnt climax with penis insertion....and when your having intercourse massaging her clitoris with your fingers is a good thing for her....good luck! | |
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