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 passionfly

Joined: 6/19/2005
Msg: 26
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Posted: 7/14/2005 8:38:11 AM

Go ahead and look. Commenting on their beauty may not be a good idea unless you know the person though.



"Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun. You don't stare at it. It's too risky. You get a sense of it and then you look away."



ok, I learned the most from these responses. As an actor, prolonged eye contact in a scene is crutial so I'm very aware of the eyes. Its second nature. The problem I've had is getting caught looking when an actress was looking elsewhere for her cues and we were facing each other. Its a bit embarrasing. I know I'm not supposed to but in some cases you just can't help it. Last thing I want to do is make her feel uncomfortable. With some ladies, not being obvious is quite the task. I want to be a professional but some make it so much harder then it has to be (no pun intended).
 Munkeechi

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 7/14/2005 8:53:45 AM
You can look... you can look all you want, but if you oggle or stare at them when you're supposed to be talking to me, you're in trouble!

OT: I remember this one time when my ex was moving out of his apt. His brother was around helping us, and I was talking to him in the apt while we were moving stuff. His eyes were totally on my breasts the whole time we were talking. So I talked to my ex and asked him to tell his brother where my eyes are. Apparently it was MY FAULT his brother was staring at my chest, beside the fact that I was wearing my scrubs (baggggggyyyyy pants and baggy loose t shirt)... right... thats my fault..uh huh
 shyrizzle

Joined: 7/1/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 7/14/2005 8:54:16 AM
I mean if we are wearing a shirt that shows cleavage its because we want the men to look at them.... not outright stare at them.... (well im speaking for myself) i agree with pretty much everyone here..... Its a compliment when guys look at them just so long as they look in ur eyes while ur talking to them as well... :P
 PrincessLayOnYA

Joined: 6/9/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 7/14/2005 8:55:51 AM
I think a woman that was exposing her clevage would be upset IF YOU DIDNT LOOK!! Now drooling and not being able to look me in the eye, makes you look pathetic. But yes they are out there for a reason.
LOL could you imagine if I said otherwise...with my boobs out in the pic
 dskate

Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 7/14/2005 9:50:31 AM
and princess, while you indeed have an attractive way to display, its your eyes that would do me in---windows to the inner self
 Always Smiling35

Joined: 7/1/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 7/14/2005 11:25:58 AM
What puzzles me is when women wear tops that enhance their cleavage or expose them moreso then normal, you look at them because they are so darn obvious and you get the "how dare you, you heathen" look or attitude from the girl. This behavior is one of the most puzzling I have ever encountered. Its like the notice me, but then again dont!


Thats called being hypocritical.
I made a thread that basically said the same thing, had the same theme with regards to profile pics. It got jumped on, twisted, distorted, and blown out of porportion.

It turned out to be rather amusing.
 Suzzanne

Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 7/14/2005 4:57:34 PM
I love it when men look, it's really great in the summer time, when I can garden in a loose shift with most buttons undone. I love the look in a guy's eyes, when his gaze goes back and forth from breasts to pussie. I almost cumm if he can see my enlarged nipples. Sincerely Suzzanne
 Always Smiling35

Joined: 7/1/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 7/14/2005 5:02:46 PM

I love it when men look, it's really great in the summer time, when I can garden in a loose shift with most buttons undone. I love the look in a guy's eyes, when his gaze goes back and forth from breasts to pussie. I almost cumm if he can see my enlarged nipples.


Indeed.
 FrancoisC

Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 34
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Posted: 7/14/2005 5:06:13 PM
Ohh tiffi78, I think I maybe shy about doing that. I've only just commenced reading these forums, maybe I'd better get on to the poetry section, I seem to be enjoying it all much to much. Are sure this is not a feminine plot to punish me for some of my past misdeeds. Regards Francois
 pinballdoctor

Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 35
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Posted: 7/16/2005 8:39:53 PM
Looking at womens breasts is how men go blind.
I have to wear glasses.
 eeeeee9

Joined: 6/14/2005
Msg: 36
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Posted: 7/16/2005 8:59:23 PM
i think women wear skin-tight stuff so men will notice- but not stare
 i_am_nad

Joined: 7/18/2004
Msg: 37
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Posted: 7/16/2005 9:26:19 PM
HAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAA, they parade them for nad!! whoooooooooo hooooooooooooooo
it takes lots of practice, but you can do it too!!! talk a little, look a little, rub yourself and watchher eye's, make sure you catch her staring at your junk and laugh!!! then it is even!
 Splog

Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 38
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Posted: 7/17/2005 1:39:17 AM
It all seems to come down to whether or not the woman likes you or not. I have recently been dating a woman with - well - very large breasts and a very thin waist. Men stare at her breasts a lot. Is she flattered or insulted? From what I have been able to work out so far, if she is attracted to the guy that is staring then she is pleased, but if she is not attracted to the guy then he is labelled a "dirty pervert".
 kevnar

Joined: 7/7/2005
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Posted: 7/17/2005 1:45:33 AM
Here's a funny thing I realized about flirting long ago. When people stare at each other, it's not so much that we want to observe them visually. We're actually staring to send them a signal that we're interested. It's a very subtle exchange, but it's powerful. It's almost a subconcious thing. "Hey, look at me! I'm staring at you. I like you. What do you think of me?"

There's a difference though, when staring at a woman's chest. Most of the time you really are enjoying the view itself, but the effect is the same. She knows you're interested, at least in her body anyway. Staring into her face, and especially her eyes tells her you're interested in her as a person, not just an amazing rack.

Just my two cents.

PS. I'd have to agree with Splog. A woman's offence at an oggling man is inversely proportional to her attraction to him. It's kind of a shallow double standard, but it's human nature.
 x_soldat

Joined: 5/6/2004
Msg: 40
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Posted: 7/17/2005 2:07:02 AM
Geez, I woulda thought if ya got drool right on 'em they'd be flattered.








But in truth, I have found that gals who've had them enhanced are likely to give you a show.

They're PROUD of those puppies, and rightly so.
 JUSTINBOY88

Joined: 5/27/2005
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Posted: 7/17/2005 2:34:16 AM
i look and i try not to drool but its been awhile so i sometimes get in trouble
 illnevertell

Joined: 11/17/2004
Msg: 42
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Posted: 7/17/2005 7:33:32 AM
I don't care
I like to look at boobs too
 SexyJody76

Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 7/19/2005 6:53:13 PM
I love to wear cleavage showing blouses and shirts on a first date and I love when they look at them and then look into my eyes too...

Leana
 T,D and H

Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 7/19/2005 9:04:13 PM
I used to get busted for looking when I was younger but now I either pick a good moment to sneak a peek or I just take a good look right at the beginning and then make a point at looking them right in the eyes. There is a physical struggle between a man and a woman who is flaunting her tits. The man resists looking down while the woman stares at him, waiting for him to look down and then becomes annoyed when he doesn't....lol
Taking a look and then paying attention to them and looking them in the eye works best for me and I never get in trouble that way. It's like I'm already back at their eyes before they can say anything and then the moment is gone. Noticing isn't bad. Drooling on them and ignoring everything she says is bad.
 megwriter

Joined: 5/24/2005
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Posted: 7/19/2005 9:05:49 PM
Speaking as a woman who has this happen constantly, that is a good policy, td&h...
 singlemum18fuk

Joined: 5/29/2005
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Posted: 7/26/2005 8:27:14 AM
i dont mind if someone looks at mine, i get it often, the only time it can be slightly annoying is job interview, altho more chance of getting the job if u put them on show lol, infact its a turn on for a guy to have his eyes on my cleavage
 79dude

Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 47
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Posted: 7/26/2005 8:29:44 AM
STARE! STARE! STARE!
lmao
 Armadababe

Joined: 11/11/2004
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Posted: 7/26/2005 9:08:08 AM
Looking is fine...gawking is just plain rude.
 lepoardlady

Joined: 7/2/2005
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Posted: 7/26/2005 9:08:18 AM
Passionfly, you don't think halter tops and bikini tops were made for the modest woman do you? Women who are uncomfortable with their breasts don't wear clothes designed to get a man's attention. And no, before anyone jumps on my statement, I am not flat chested...just the opposite, in fact. I wear low cut tops that snug my curvy breasts because I consider them an asset and everyone should show their assets. As for the penis being 3 feet higher, don't fool yourself...the average, healthy woman has checked out how tight the jeans are and what kind of package the guy might have before she ever says her first hello. Not to mention making sure she gets a look from behind too.
 79dude

Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 50
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Posted: 7/26/2005 9:08:54 AM
yeah! thats what i was gonna say! just rude! pffff

edit: oh my rude thing was meant for a post on the last page... i didnt even read this ^
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