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 3Therm0pylae0
Joined: 5/11/2009
Msg: 151
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?Page 7 of 12    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12)
I may leave a woman if:

*She handles disagreements immaturely,
*Starts fealing like she can launch snide comments,
*Starts looking shady,
*Let's her controlling mother start running her end of our relationship,
*Is selfish,
*(this space reserved for all the other reasons)
 hamster-dance
Joined: 12/26/2009
Msg: 152
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 2/28/2010 10:44:08 PM
My BF left his ex wife primarily because she very much wanted an open relationship and he very much did not. There were other issues too, but that was the big one.
 AnarchoCapitalist
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 153
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 2/28/2010 10:57:00 PM

I think women will leave a relationship because it is not fulfilling. On the other hand, men, tend to leave a relationship when something better comes along.


Wow. This is typical female thought. Men just leaving for greener grass, but when a woman does the same thing, its cause the current relationship isn't fulfilling. Great double standard there!!
 plyter
Joined: 10/6/2009
Msg: 154
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 2/28/2010 11:01:38 PM
I totally agree, I'm in a relationship where sex doesnt exist, communication is null, and I've even asked for a divorce. But whats keeping me there is the fact that she doesnt have a job, she has a disability and I'd hate to see her doing worse although she might be better without me
 janu15
Joined: 6/3/2009
Msg: 155
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/1/2010 10:38:19 AM
The answer to your question is uaually as simple as this ...Feeling and i'm not talking emotions ...i'm talking about the ability to satisfy your man with feeling this is what all men wether they realize it or not are seeking ...if a woman has Feeling the sex life or better put (Love life ) will be good if a couple has a healthy satisfying Love life the two will be motivated to work out any other differences they might have ...simply put and True!
 emmmjay
Joined: 2/18/2010
Msg: 156
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/1/2010 2:03:18 PM

Clearly you have me mixed up with someone else. I have never said women find excuses to get away from me, or any such thing.


Here you go...


The control freak issues that women have always begin to surface within weeks of meeting them, and of them I would say about 50% are so judgmental that they label you from the beginning and start thinking of ways to get away from you after the second meeting.


Separate residences the new living together thread. Message 41.

You're welcome.
 torquoise pixie
Joined: 11/20/2008
Msg: 157
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/3/2010 12:40:36 PM

I have always put my man before any children,I will not be growing old with them.

I think that would only ever become an issue if the man is immature and/or the woman was never interested in the guy as much as in getting married and getting children. In a normal healthy loving relationship between two adults, it's not an issue.
IF this is an issue do to the guy being immature/selfish or having whatever other issues, and is detrimental to the children, and the woman stays with him, "because she will be growing old with him, not them", then that to me is a selfish cow.
 brother_ant
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 158
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/3/2010 4:15:03 PM
(l)aughing (o)ut (l)oud
 yourstillhere
Joined: 7/30/2008
Msg: 159
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Posted: 3/3/2010 4:51:04 PM
everytime i`ve walked its been for the same thing, shes not holding up her end of the deal by showing~

lack of appreciation. this is NUMBER ONE.
example:
i just took her out for a very romantic weekend the week before, and not 3 days later she suggests we go to the casino this weekend, and i tell her nah maybe thats something for a "girls day out" and shes got an attitude about it and treats me like garbage the rest of the day and keeps it up the next day.

on day two of her tantrum (yesterday) i walk, tell her i`m done and she doesnt understand why.

disrespect.
name calling, snapping at me, swearing, putting me down in front of others and not in a playful way (better smile when you say that)

disloyal.
taking others side against me, allowing too many issues to become more relevant than working on the relationship, putting too many others before us too much of the time.
 Daves place 1
Joined: 1/14/2010
Msg: 160
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/3/2010 5:00:26 PM
you are going to have work on your spelling and gramer to keep a Man
 Savona
Joined: 11/22/2009
Msg: 161
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/3/2010 5:24:59 PM
I think most men leave women when the woman says ...

No I am not putting up with your shiit anymore so kiss my azz. Yep the men don't like it when the woman decides that enough is enough and an equal relationship is just that. EQUAL ... equal work in that precious 24 hours.

Or men leave when the woman is tired of their ball and chain coming home drunk, is kinder to their drunk azz friends than to their own family. Can't get it up anymore or is just too friggin lazy to bother to have sex and would rather whack off in the shower. Yep men leave women when they realize they are not THE BOSS and now the kids are grown so the woman decides to go out and have fun too. Go out with her friends, take up an interest other than doing his laundry where he plopped it on the floor. Would rather go out with friends for wings than SERVE him another dinner that he complains about, goes to the couch, turns on the sports and farts, falls asleep in front of the boob tube and would rather do anything than have fun with his woman.

Yea men leave women when the woman realizes that he would rather fart than have sex, so she just starts her own life.

Men leave women when the woman loses respect for him 'cause he is just too into himself to think there is another person in the relationship.

Women move on, men cling. The men don't leave, the women deceide when they have had enough and then FINALLY the man knows it is time to shove off.

Awwww that felt just so damn good.

Savona
 Summer-loving
Joined: 2/7/2010
Msg: 162
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/3/2010 5:56:57 PM
Well never had a man leave me..so never had a reason to be left..I leave cos men are like ego led..
They say I want you to be happy
meaning
They want you to show you are always happy cos they make you feel happy.So you have to walk round smiling whether you want to or not..Just so they feel good....Its like you cant express yourself.
They say You are sexy
meaning they want sex most nights and if you dont then their is something wrong with you.
They say they want you to themselves cos they love you
meaning they are Jelous of you talking on the phone to your mates and paying them no attention but when you do they ignore you and sit in silence uless they want sex.
Its too much hard work relationships..and at the end of it all they are probably having sex behind your back anyway
I dont bother with them....they are draining ungratful bullies..x
 katt_411
Joined: 3/22/2008
Msg: 163
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/3/2010 6:15:24 PM
Post 52 nailed it. Short, sweet and to the point.

If I felt I was better off without someone in my life I, too, would move on.
The reason(s) could be anything..
 cap_n_mORGAN
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 164
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/3/2010 7:51:37 PM
I have left 2 relationships in my life!(after being in love that is) Both were Bi-Polar women read my profile!!!!!.....lol
 ohwhynot46
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 165
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Posted: 3/3/2010 8:30:50 PM

you are going to have work on your spelling and gramer to keep a Man


GRAMMAR!

PS man is NOT capitalized!
 *Surfgyrl*
Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 166
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Posted: 3/4/2010 8:02:43 AM
Could it be that men will put there best image out there and then claim to love you and then somehow change.
It is seems to always be the case that the woman should not try to "change" the man, but what about trying to "change" him into what he was in the beginning?
 wicked_desires
Joined: 2/24/2010
Msg: 167
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/4/2010 8:38:05 AM
Demise tends to be twofold so rather than come up with the norm list he did she did. Albeit i read one post saying men effectively destroy it by pushing away. True, but remember many of these women let them so the same result is achieved. And anyways depends on whos asked in these questionnaires, man or women, and both will answer a little differently.

*wicked top 3, in a credible order for once:
They grew apart hated the sight of each other
New and improved model hated the sight of each other and fancied a new dish
Her shoe collection took up every inch of space, including the man corner which is often dark dingy and with lots of cobwebs. But ideal for floor to ceiling shoe rack.

Too quickly answer the rest
Do people stay together and blame convenience. Yes
Magical wand is often needed to make one person stay again there will
 himynameisSarah
Joined: 5/27/2009
Msg: 168
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/4/2010 8:51:11 AM
ANOTHER WOMAN IN THE PICTURE...
 *Surfgyrl*
Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 169
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Posted: 3/4/2010 10:41:14 AM
So.....Does it really boil down to while on the "back burner" that any sex will do for the time being because a lot of men, (don't want to dare say all) say for instance the ones with cobwebs in their corner (since they may be the kind of man that is solely there for sex because they only do care for sex and not cleaning out those skeletons over there in the corner with the cobwebs). Sorry for the insult. Somewhere there is someone for everyone.
Kinda scary.....
This "psycho" theme that continues to be the norm everywhere is really starting to be another catch all phrase , excuse for not trying to work on something and one of the questions I had was if the man does need to work on some things will it end up making him more miserable in the long run and I don't mean working on something just for her, but something for their own betterment.

I talked to my sweetheart last night and I asked him what % was the value of sex in a relationship?
I told him that I thought it would make or break a relationship and that it was 9 times out of 10 that it would be for some other reason. But that can mean not the actual sex but anything related to it like the attraction.
But that will wane and then move on to something better again.

He turned off the T.V. and told me that it was love and respect. Hmmmmm......
Is that what I wanted to hear?
 himynameisSarah
Joined: 5/27/2009
Msg: 170
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/4/2010 11:25:34 AM
my man said sex was the most important aspect... you can always "make" someone a better lover, as long as they are open to it.

Love and respect are the two most important things.
 rock_hunter
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 171
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/4/2010 11:42:31 AM
Betrayal.

When she betrays him, whether physically or emotionally, it's over. And it's not only cheating. When she betrays his trust, when she stops being his wife and tries to become his handler/master, when he needs validation and affection and receives only disdain and criticism, when he becomes an unwanted guest in his own house, or is (barely) tolerated only because he's the one supporting the home. When she stops providing sex while fully expecting him to keep his fidelity vows. When she belittles him in front of strangers/family/children, because that's what her friends tell her it's the cool thing to do. When he deserves respect and receives only abuse.

Summarizing, when she becomes his enemy, it's over.

But of course, she will say she has absolutely no idea why he left. They never have.
 rock_hunter
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 172
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Posted: 3/4/2010 1:17:58 PM
Because they will never be told or recognize the real reason.

I know this guy whose girlfriend used to slap him, belittle him in front of us, make jokes about him -calling him "my b¡tch" or similar. We kept telling him to leave her, but he was in love. They were together a couple of years. But when he finally grew some and left her, she began to cry to her friends, saying how "desperately in love with him" she was and what a jerk he was because he left her by no reason. She was completely convinced that she was the ideal girlfriend and that she had made everything to make their relationship work. When some of us told her about the times we saw her abusing him, she was astounded. Not astounded as in "I can't believe you're blaming me for doing those things". I mean, she was genuinely astounded as in "but that's how a woman should treat a boyfriend".

Every time I hear a woman talking about all the work she did for the relationship, I think about this girl.
 BigDaddyJinx
Joined: 11/4/2006
Msg: 173
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Posted: 3/4/2010 1:27:41 PM

I know this guy whose girlfriend used to slap him, belittle him in front of us, make jokes about him -calling him "my b¡tch" or similar. We kept telling him to leave her, but he was in love. They were together a couple of years. But when he finally grew some and left her, she began to cry to her friends, saying how "desperately in love with him" she was and what a jerk he was because he left her by no reason. She was completely convinced that she was the ideal girlfriend and that she had made everything to make their relationship work. When some of us told her about the times we saw her abusing him, she was astounded. Not astounded as in "I can't believe you're blaming me for doing those things". I mean, she was genuinely astounded as in "but that's how a woman should treat a boyfriend".

Every time I hear a woman talking about all the work she did for the relationship, I think about this girl.

Well clearly she enjoyed living in denial then. What a tool.
 InNCsearching
Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 174
Top reasons a man leaves a woman?
Posted: 3/4/2010 2:57:42 PM
i love how women try to twist this around. men actually stick it out longer than women. It's statistically a fact that 80% of divorces are filed by women. And for hardly any reason at all other than....i want half of your stuff and go screw the pool boy. Happens more than anyone wants to admit. It's disadvantagous for a man to leave his marriage so if he does, she has got to be a real pain in the butt and even so, he sticks it out most of the time and deals with it.

So given the fact that 80% of women file for divorce first (and their lawyer usually puts something in their about the ever present and hard to prove or justify....emotional abuse) I highly doubt a woman's opinion on this matter has any credibility as to why we leave our marriage when it's a financial mess for us to do so.

So this was a question as to why men leave their marriage and because women don't like the answer (and if you look at similar questions saying anything negative about women like why we don't date single mothers) and time we give honest answer you all blast us like we have no right to EVER leave a woman. that's freaking hilarious.
 InNCsearching
Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 175
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Posted: 3/4/2010 3:00:46 PM
it's pure victim mentality in this society. woman leaves because he was a jerk. man leaves for logical reasons. poor woman, men just weren't strong enough to kiss her butt all the time. freaking nutty world we live in.

man leaves because she's interferring with his work. woman leaves because he's a big meany and hurts her.
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