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 carribeanking7

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 326
why do men think its so easy for women to get some?
Posted: 9/19/2005 11:46:05 PM
Doing just fine..........

By the way I met "someone" a month back...I
actually amended my profile on 20/7 to forums only..to take a break from dating....
and the next thing you know...........................
 Toronaga

Joined: 7/13/2005
Msg: 327
why do men think its so easy for women to get some?
Posted: 9/19/2005 11:54:04 PM
Right on man! I'm very happy for you!

Wish you the best of luck with ur special someone. hits ya out of the blue doesn't it? lol
 acgoat

Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 328
why do men think its so easy for women to get some?
Posted: 2/7/2006 5:09:42 PM
because most any woman that wants to get laid, can, aslong as she doesnt get to picky about who her pusher is
 Jeffs-The-Name

Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 329
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why do men think its so easy for women to get some?
Posted: 7/6/2006 10:32:03 AM
Is everyone on crack?

Obviously guys can get laid faster than women can. NOT the other way around.
 taurus516

Joined: 11/3/2004
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Posted: 7/6/2006 11:39:53 AM
OK, OP do this experiment.Go into any place where there is a mix of both genders,prefferably a single's type place.Pick a man that strikes your fancy, walk up to him and ask if he would like to fuk.Send a male friend into the same place and have him try the exact same experiment on a woman of his choice.See who is successful.
 BlondnBrilliant

Joined: 11/16/2005
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Posted: 7/6/2006 11:44:24 AM
I think it's easier for women to get some than men. Lots of women have no problem doing this. I however, am not in that category. I don't have the nerve to walk up to a complete stranger and ask him anything anywhere near that brave!!

The reason I think it's easier for women is because most - NOT ALL - men are looking for it anyways. Lots of women are too and that makes it easy for us to make it happen!

my 3 cents
 kobieandbaily

Joined: 11/17/2005
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Posted: 7/6/2006 12:00:25 PM
DO YOU NEED SOME CHANGE ???
 BlondnBrilliant

Joined: 11/16/2005
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Posted: 7/6/2006 4:16:33 PM
^^^^

Sure...can you change 3 cents?

Back on topic, I would like to add that I have had several male friends tell me it's easier for women and their logic made sense to me!!
 Sistermary

Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 334
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Posted: 7/6/2006 5:22:02 PM
[its not!!]

it's not?????? speak for yourself
 sinsrus

Joined: 6/20/2006
Msg: 335
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Posted: 7/6/2006 7:39:48 PM
"Most men don't understand women control access to sex, and the ones who know how to turn the tables, aren't telling. :)"

It's not a secret. Every man with half brain knows.

If you still can't figure it out, I'll give you a hint. Look at Anna Nicole Smith's husband, or Hugh Hefner.

We can do the same experiment in a bar. An good looking young guy and a average looking old guy ask every woman for sex. The old guy offer to pay $1M for the pleasure.
 acgoat

Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 336
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Posted: 7/8/2006 5:33:58 AM
scylla(d617669) on 7/15/2005 1234 AM
Subject: why do men think its so easy for women to get some?
Message: its not!! what makes you guys think so?




Generally its men that have to buy pu$$y from local hooker

How many men can make a living selling sex?

most any woman can get laid just by letting a man know she is available for use at no charge, but she cant be to picky about who sticks it to her, depending on her physical appearence
 your_pedestal

Joined: 2/9/2006
Msg: 337
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Posted: 7/8/2006 7:14:16 AM
How hard (no pun intended) can it be to simply say "okay"
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Joined: 4/15/2005
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Posted: 7/12/2006 2:48:00 AM
Okay because it is!!!

Step one ...put on sexy clothes

step two ...go to a club

step three ...say yes

However the quality you may be getting ... may be... rather questionable.

I guess half decent guys can sort of do the same thing, however there is a bias in our culture that the man has to do the work of the initial contact, it is extremely rare for a woman to risk rejection and come right out and approach a man, especially if she is good looking, however she may drop all kinds of hints and show signs that an approach would be welcome.

Seriously I am a good looking guy (or so i am told) and i have no problems going out to a club, showing off my sexy body and face, acting normal, and still after hours of socializing, not being approached by a single girl. Reverse that kind of situation and a good looking girl would have been approached numerous times.

…Just one of the many overlooked double standards that is typically embedded in our societal interactions.

Girls can get laid easily (with disgusting STD player boys) and guys can pee standing up, fact of life!

Such injustices are written into the fabric of reality, come on now, complaining about it is like trying to attack the sea, or outrace the setting sun.
 sparticuss

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 339
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Posted: 7/12/2006 3:37:22 AM
Actually it is.

It's harder for a guy to get some but not as hard as most ofthem will say. These days I think it costs about a weeks wages for an hour. It used to cost at least a months.

It's harder for a guy to find a girlfriend.

And it's imposible for a woman to find a "perfect man"

So it varies with what you wanted in the first place.
 sparticuss

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 340
why do men think its so easy for women to get some?
Posted: 7/12/2006 3:39:51 AM
OK, OP do this experiment.Go into any place where there is a mix of both genders,prefferably a single's type place.Pick a man that strikes your fancy, walk up to him and ask if he would like to fuk.Send a male friend into the same place and have him try the exact same experiment on a woman of his choice.See who is successful.
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Actually Taurus

I've had both male and female friends who have done that. The results were predictable if surprising.

The girl had to ask five different guys before getting a "yes"

The two guys had to ask over a hundred different girls.

AND
None of the girls slapped the guys for asking. They just gigled and declined.
 spicylad

Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 341
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Posted: 7/12/2006 4:10:59 PM
It IS easier for women to get some...it's just more difficult to get some that they actually want!
 Zain.

Joined: 9/20/2005
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Posted: 7/12/2006 10:34:45 PM
ummm because it is way easier for women to get it and THAT IS A FACT Why do you think prostitution has been around for so long?
 ubkobalt

Joined: 5/7/2006
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Posted: 7/12/2006 10:44:20 PM

Actually Taurus

I've had both male and female friends who have done that. The results were predictable if surprising.

The girl had to ask five different guys before getting a "yes"

The two guys had to ask over a hundred different girls.

AND
None of the girls slapped the guys for asking. They just gigled and declined.


Interesting. We need to conduct more surveys in the name of science.

Although no one got slapped, I wonder how many women were INSULTED that someone would DARE express interest in them that way. What do these guys think these women are? Some kind of slut?
 Hallucitania

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 7/15/2006 11:21:32 PM
A friend of mine accepted a challenge.... his buddy pointed to a hottie - she was with one girl and one guy, and so, the deal was on - basically to proposition.

50/50 chance of talking to the duded gf! =- unless dude was gay or "just a friend".

and he asked in plain english something like "how wouldit be if we had sex?" - something like that. minimal conversation before popping it out.

Anways, the girl said she'd be more into it if she knew him better. - those were her words.

not a rejection per se.
 harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005
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Posted: 7/15/2006 11:27:53 PM
Harvard study:

A female model went up to 10 men at a bar and asked for sex. She recieved 9 yeses and 1 raincheck.

A male model goes to 10 women at a bar asking for the same. He recieves 0 yeses and 10 no's.

Its just a fact because as I've said here tones of times. Women are the choosers and men are the persuers. Women can get men a hell of alot more easily than men can get women.

harvey
 Tick Tock

Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 346
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Posted: 7/16/2006 1:13:44 AM
^ Wow! It's amazing that a ivy league school had to actually conduct a study to determine what every man already knew.
 lindajohnson7

Joined: 5/1/2006
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Posted: 7/29/2006 6:03:25 AM
Subtle, dude!!!
 eye4light

Joined: 7/12/2006
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Posted: 7/29/2006 8:17:22 AM

scylla,

I think it depends on whether you're talking about finding that one-and-only-"special"-shining knight-savior-"are you out there?" relationship...or (*clears throat)...action.

As a guy, it appears that women are generally a lot pickier than men in response to that flood of hormones that makes us do crazy things. Possibly because of that big fear of being stigmatized as a "ho", or maybe something to do with archaeological biology, or maybe women are smarter than us...no, scratch that last one. :D

When it comes to seeking a life-long mate, though, the scales are probably more balanced, with both sexes having a similar challenge finding someone.

It must be hard for women to muddle through the ignorant masses of overly aggressive boneheaded men who approach dating as a game of tricks (I guess a lot of women do that too but that's a different forum subject) and they make it harder for you to see the good ones that abound.

But in the end, I think it's hard for both sexes. What else could take so much time and effort from our lives?

Uh-oh...gotta run. A giant herd of beautiful, intelligent, witty, good-hearted woman are chasing me! AAaaaaahhhhh!
:run:





 nipoleon

Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 7/29/2006 10:07:36 AM
We think it's easy for you to get because it's so hard for us to get.
 Emon3y

Joined: 3/30/2006
Msg: 350
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Posted: 7/29/2006 12:46:43 PM
to get a peice of ass??? i dont think its that difficult for any woman...even if your not so hot looking. all u gotta do is ask daaahling.
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