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Joined: 5/26/2006
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| do women like being made love to anymore, or is it all about sex?
Posted: 8/14/2006 11:16:47 AM | When you want to make love it is like I have always said before, "turn off all the clocks and other possible interruptions, take all the time in the world to explore every inch of her, in every way possible, using all your senses(taste all of her, smell, etc.), and after you staisfy her first then satisfy yourself with every inch of her." As you orgasm look deep into her eyes (no matter what postion you are in), as you tell her how good she feels, and release real sloooow inside of her, so she can feel ALL of you.
Dont turn off all the lights either. Light the room with many candles or leave a small light on, such as a desk lamp, and enjoy seeing what you are doing.......mmmm good!
Now if you want to ruin an experience simply by having sex, then go ahead and satisfy your animal deisre for lust. It won't mean anything.
When their are strong feelings involved it is much better for both of you involved. | |
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| do women like being made love to anymore, or is it all about sex?
Posted: 8/14/2006 11:55:13 AM | It may start out with the intention of a love making session but in the end I am always yelling "Harder!! Faster!!" LOL!!!!!
If I am not serious with the person and they tell me they want to make love to me I get a bit creeped out...Okay maybe not a bit, a lot.....and I put the brakes on there.
If I am serious with the person and they say that it's sweet, but I don't think love making is limited to the kind of sex you read about in romance novels. I think animalistic rip your clothes off throw you on the bed sex is a good show of the passion between two people. You don't need to have rocking chair sex to convey your love for the other person. In my opinion at least! I think it's the effort to please and emotion that's put into it that counts. | |
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| do women like being made love to anymore, or is it all about sex?
Posted: 8/14/2006 12:35:22 PM | I agree with msg. #14
The two things are completely compatible
So called Raw Sex can be love making
It all depends on both of your attitudes on the time in question
Love making is not restricted just to those in love
Raw Sex is not restricted to a quicky with a stranger
I have 'made love' with an aquaintance &
had 'raw sex' with my s/o.
It does depend on the mood at the time.
That said, I do understand the feelings are different when the emotion (love) is there.
Runamuk
btw....don't you just love the term 'raw sex'??
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| do women like being made love to anymore, or is it all about sex?
Posted: 8/15/2006 6:48:59 AM |
When you want to make love it is like I have always said before, "turn off all the clocks and other possible interruptions, take all the time in the world to explore every inch of her, in every way possible, using all your senses(taste all of her, smell, etc.), and after you staisfy her first then satisfy yourself with every inch of her." As you orgasm look deep into her eyes (no matter what postion you are in), as you tell her how good she feels, and release real sloooow inside of her, so she can feel ALL of you.
Dont turn off all the lights either. Light the room with many candles or leave a small light on, such as a desk lamp, and enjoy seeing what you are doing.......mmmm good!
Now if you want to ruin an experience simply by having sex, then go ahead and satisfy your animal deisre for lust. It won't mean anything.
When their are strong feelings involved it is much better for both of you involved.
Oh my...I do think I've just fallen in love. Yowza! That was incredible! I hope for your girlfriends sake that this is how it really is, not just what you say it is. :-) | |
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| do women like being made love to anymore, or is it all about sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 11:45:06 AM | | I like to draw a line between making love and sex and ofcourse oly have sex with ppl I am not going out with. The nawty thing is, is when guys who want casual have sex with u like they're making love and it can really be a head mixer. I think personally if I was in a loving realationship then I would make love but not as much as have sex with that person cos I think it would mean more to me that way xjx | |
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Posted: 8/21/2006 11:17:14 PM | for males at least, I believe to fu3k is to grow closer, but one doesn't need to be in love. The more fu3king goes on, the more the man falls in love, at least for me.
It's a bit childish to expect to be in love before the first series of fu3ks. It's like falling in love in a distance-relationship (over the phone) or something.. not real. | |
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| do women like being made love to anymore, or is it all about sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 11:21:02 PM | maybe I'm missing out, but I'm totally lonely when I'm not in a relationship, because I think for most males there is no such thing as "casual sex". At least for me. It'd be nice to sex when not in a relationship, but there has to be some form of communication.
how can I find somebody for mutually casual hetro sex? :)  | |
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Posted: 8/22/2006 12:10:14 AM | I see what you're saying... 'making love' constitutes slow, boring, sweaty, smothering sex in the missionary position. 'Sex' is fvcking, being creative, switching it up and maybe getting rough. I disagree with that... You can 'make fvcking love'... Make it nice and rough and intense... More passionate the better. How is that not making love? Get a clue. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 5:34:50 PM | there is a huge difference between making love to a woman and having sex with a woman.
making love is a connection with the person and is so much more than just putting your piece in her and having some fun!!!
when im making love i dont need to come because i get all the satisfaction i need from satisfying the woman im with! making sure she is satisfied is the important thing.
but then if its just sex then i like most men (not all) just try to make the woman happy while satisfying myself!
xxJxx | |
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| do women like being made love to anymore, or is it all about sex?
Posted: 9/10/2006 1:36:18 PM | I think sex is purely a mechancial dexcription of the actual act. No matter how you slice it.. sex is sex.. whether its between me and the person I'm with, or friggin' sheep.
What denotes a good slam and love making...that's the real question.. when does sex become some more then just..an act. Well, to "make love" obviously implies a deep emotional connection. Does that mean then that when you love somebody sex then becomes lovemaking. Hell, no. I've foudn that th elonger your with a person, the diriter and more raw sex can become. Not all the time though.
Love making, for me.. is just like the John Mayer song. Your head never hits the pillow without his hand behind it, candy lips and a bubblegum tongue..discover me discovering you. That's love making. Long, slow and gentle.
Otherwise..sex by any other name is still sex... | |
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Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 63 | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 6:00:05 AM | Nothing can ever beat 'Making Love', especially when you actually Love the person you are with. The orgasms are even different - more enjoyable, more intense, more satisfying! 'Making Love' simply makes you feel better about yourself and your relationship. | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 1:34:48 PM | When a guy says he wants make love to me, I get the impression that he wants to 'lay me down on a bed of roses', 'gaze into my eyes' as he 'tenderly kisses every inch of my body', 'drink from my sweet' well and then ..... well, you get the idea.
It all sounds so sickeningly sweet ... and boring ....
I prefer to fvck, rather than make love. | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 5:24:18 PM | Hi,
I 'm glad to see there is a t least one other person in this world that values a lovong relationship. Just too bad I wouldhave to travel to the great with North of Canada, to find the only women left.. Sex is boring without the true emotion of love... Loving someone is ten times better. Love is with tenderness and compasion for your partners pleasure.. even if it takes all night :) With just sex you need plenty of drinks... with love it just a pleasure high that is unsurpassed.
You'll make a great partner for some one.. I just wish you were here in So Cal in stead of these Paris Hilton look alike Cougars.
GG | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 7:58:28 PM | Made love toooooooooooooo..........yummmmmmmmy.........of course this has the extra sensualness of being in a relationship.......ohhhhhhh yeaaaaaaaaaaaa ........ where i can let myself flow and relax and yet.................do all that 'other stuff'........YAAAAAAAAY   | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 8:16:58 PM | Wow.. ya, making love is a lot more intense in a different way. When you're with someone and the feelings are deep, everything seems so much stronger, the orgasms are out of this world!!!!!
HOWEVER.. until I do find someone I love that much again.. it's all about the sex! 
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Posted: 9/12/2006 12:05:30 AM | Hmm I have to say for me, it is about the feelings that i have for someone...you can be in love, and still have a good pounding as someone put it...it is the degree of intamacy that counts really...and the mood you are in...sometimes there is just that need, not much time...so ya do it hard and quick... | |
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