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 O442LADY

Joined: 8/9/2006
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Posted: 7/12/2007 4:16:24 AM
Well I dated a guy not too long ago that I was told his mother would not accept me not only because I wasn't black but because I wasn't a part of the tribe.
 geen z

Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 224
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Posted: 7/12/2007 4:29:30 AM
i am half wog half aussie - and I look white, so does that mean I am off your dating list too wayne or does you hatred of other races just happen in the back blocks of hicksville in the southern states of america, where you dance around a fire with your hoods on!

ok - i am so attracted to darker guys i dont care where you were born or what language you speak if you look like caramel or chocolate or any other variation i am yours........
 superserial

Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 225
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Posted: 7/12/2007 8:10:37 AM

This is the 21st century, so such question should not be asked because racism shouldn't still be existing.


You live in a small small bubble, my friend. Most of the world is still racist. Goto Europe and you will find more racism than the US has, but even in the US racism still exists. As long as people look different there will always be racism.
 Tossed_Salad

Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 226
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Posted: 7/12/2007 9:30:00 AM

i am half wog half aussie - and I look white, so does that mean I am off your dating list too wayne or does you hatred of other races just happen in the back blocks of hicksville in the southern states of america, where you dance around a fire with your hoods on!


what does it matter what women are 'on wayne's dating list' (that he wants to date)..?

somehow I get the feeling VERY few women are 'lining up' to date ol waynie..

can he afford to be so 'selective' ? probably because all but the green-tooth inbreds preferother men, he blames this on the fact that they might prefer to date decent guys of any race (black, white, asian, etc.) rather than him.

a lot like the slack people with IQs of 70 or so who say they could be doctors except for all the darn immigrants taking those jobs
 AllRight

Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 227
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Posted: 7/12/2007 1:29:24 PM
"Superserial" and "theonethatyouwant," I truly, TRULY applaud your honesty. I know it took a lot to admit that you simply are not attracted to women of other races (well, black women, at least). What's great is that neither of you tried to use this forum as a vehicle to defend or force your POV on others. Thanks for being real stand-up guys.

I used to date men who were readily available to me (black) and attractive. It got me absolutely nowhere, because they could not offer me the things that I need to sustain a productive and satisfying relationship. I tried, but they just weren't capable. So these days, it's what I'm looking for INSIDE a man that dictates that I date somebody other than (or at least in addition to, because I'm not excluding them) black men.

Frankly, I was SHOCKED to find that there are so many men of other races who ARE interested in black women. All my life I've felt so invisible...where were you guys? Well, now I know that you're all online, where it's "safe" to say hello. :-)
 Da Exception

Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 228
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Posted: 7/12/2007 2:29:42 PM

I see that you are a N****R lover and like to bash people who just dont agree with mixing up the races.


If all racists are like this. Minorities we have NOTHING to worry about. Thank God for inbreeding.
 Jooly

Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 229
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Posted: 7/12/2007 2:34:30 PM
Us mixed race kids are just way purdier too Go outbreeding! Works for corn, works for homo sapiens.
 superserial

Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 230
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Posted: 7/12/2007 2:56:17 PM

"Superserial" and "theonethatyouwant," I truly, TRULY applaud your honesty. I know it took a lot to admit that you simply are not attracted to women of other races (well, black women, at least). What's great is that neither of you tried to use this forum as a vehicle to defend or force your POV on others. Thanks for being real stand-up guys.


I've been attracted to black, latina, and some asian girls before but on the whole they really don't do it for me. Part of it is cultural though, I just have trouble hanging out with alot of hispanics or blacks because I grew up in 80% white Alaska and went to college in 85% white Fort Collins, Colorado.

I have friends of all races though and there are jackasses in every race, just is a case by case basis for me to want to hang out with them. But as far as women go, I generally stick to white girls.
 jacobite45

Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 231
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Posted: 7/12/2007 3:05:04 PM
Jooly,
I have to agree there are some absoluetly gorgoues mixed raced offstring.
 marathonman11x7

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 232
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Posted: 7/12/2007 5:52:18 PM
Race as its most often used is simply a superficial social construct. A poorly constructed and ignorantly adhered to concept of classification.

Generalizations that deal with "race" are most frequently simply foolish. Although, humorous at times to make fun of the fact that generalizations of that sort exist its also a sad commentary on humanity that so many actually make genralizations(negative and positive) and BELIEVE them to be fact. Actually, "race" is simply a concept that is NOT and has NEVER been FACT nor factually based. Therefore those who subscribe to the concept as fact are in varying degree ......(perish the thought).....RACIST, whether malignant or benign. Just as ignorance can be malignant or benign. Certainly those who subcribe to the most commonly used construct of race do so out of ignorance.

Essentially there is never interracial dating...but intraracial dating. We are a part of the 1 and only human race.
 Jooly

Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 233
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Posted: 7/12/2007 5:56:36 PM
Well... there are some useful generalisations that can be made about people by race - black africans are more prone to cardio vascular problems; orientals are more likely to have dry than sticky ear wax, asians are more likely to have difficulty processing ethanol.

(list contains differences from white caucasians simply because my medical training was done in the west where white is still considered the norm)
 marathonman11x7

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 234
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Posted: 7/12/2007 7:05:31 PM
No maam, there are cultural differences that bring about medical issues...ie,cardio vascular issues..these relate to culture/diet/economic issues much more than genetics. We can make national generalizations with just as much if not more accuracy than "race". Even comparing Serbians to British there aregreater "medical" variances and generalizations between the social construct of "race". The fact is that "race" is so unchallened that it is presumed as fact. Therefore the establishment the promotes it and in many ways profits from it teaches it.

Fact=Human variation exist. Human variation is NOT the same as "race". Race is simply a social construct based upon theory and myth but not fact.
African Americans are NOT a race but a cultural-ethno group.
 Jooly

Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 235
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Posted: 7/12/2007 7:22:15 PM
Ummm.... No. These are straightforward genetic tendencies. There's no 'better' or 'worse' or even inevitability attached to them. Or will you argue that it's a lie perpetuated by evil white scientists that blacks are more prone to sickle cell trait, whites to cystic fibrosis and asians to thalassaemia?


Edit: Not to say I disagree that many (most) diseases have an environmental/lifestyle component. I was simply pointing out that the racial differences we *do* recognise as meaningful bear no relevance in mate selection.
 marathonman11x7

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 236
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Posted: 7/12/2007 8:22:08 PM
No maam, please do REAL research.
will you argue that it's a lie perpetuated by evil white scientists that blacks are more prone to sickle cell trait, whites to cystic fibrosis and asians to thalassaemia?

Sorry you see evil white scientists.....I see foolish men and women working from ignorances regardless of cultural ties.

Let me break this down to you further. Check the rates of the sickle cell trait in Serbians, Sicilians, Bosnians,Turks,Greeks,Vietnamese,Thai, and Croats to those in Zimbabwe and Madegasscar. What you'll find is that there are Africans groups who have a much lower rate of sicle cell than those from say Serbia. What does this mean? Its not a "racial" variance, its a REGIONAL variance. Serbs FYI happen to be classified as "white"/caucasion" under the social construct of "race" most prominantly used. This is simply 1 example. The FACT is that the most renowned medical agencies that deal with sickle cell do NOT consider it to be "race" based but rather REGIONAL...why? Because of the FACTS. FAct is that the trait is found most frequently in those of African and Mediterranean ancestry. In other words we check ALL people for the trait but pay attention to their ancestry if comming from many African as well as Medditteranean EUROPEAN nations. Are Serbs "black"? Sicilians? Croats? Greeks? Vietnamese? They all have very high frequencies of the trait. Which makes this yet another example of a foolish generalization.
Again,we can make national generalization between groups that are within "racial"groups with equal or more accuracy than between so called "race".
 Tossed_Salad

Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 237
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Posted: 7/13/2007 4:45:00 PM

I really dont know where you get your ideas dude. It is obvious you dont like me and that goes vice versa and as far as the number of women that are interested in me how could you possibly know. You keep using the term inbred as well . How could you possibly know anything about me. I see that you are a N****R lover and like to bash people who just dont agree with mixing up the races. You are right I do not particularly like Jews but I do not condone mass extermination of them either . You know nothing about me so keep your 2 cent psychoanalysis to yourself.


LOL..I think people should have freedom..why do you 'bash' people who beleive that?

why do you dislike Jews, exactly? do you know any? do you know a thousand?

or just know what your 'reading material' tells you to think?

probably not many Jews in Monroe, GA?
 honeydew82

Joined: 6/27/2007
Msg: 238
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Posted: 7/13/2007 5:42:50 PM
Ok, I am probly very late in joining this forum, but I found this to be very interesting. I am a woman of many nationalities. My father is Creole and Honduran. My mother is Black, Cherokee, French Guinana, and a little Irish to spice things up a bit. I personally find it hard to date outside of my "race" seeing as how I am a walking talking melting pot. To many I look Black or Black and Asian. I date many men from different ethnic backgrounds simply to find the "one" that is right for me. Yes there are some cultural differences but that is the beauty of it. I can admit I was jealous of seeing black men dating white women because I was raised in mostly white communities where white was the thing. All I saw were white women in hair commercials and nare one minority. I have since grown the hell up and relized that to me interracial dating is beautiful. Who am I to judge what someone else is doing as long as it is not harming me? Interracial dating can be hard, and at times confusing, but never allow someone elses bigotry and hatefulness come inbetween you. As for the comments of what it does to the children, I am here to say that I am ok. There was a time where I was confused and have received some hurtful comments. If you partake in an interracial relationship learn each others cultures and traditions. Honor them. The children that you have MUST be taught to love both sides. The must understand the beauty that has made them. It is true that all you seem to see in the media is how abhorent the African American culture is, but that is just that. All you SEE! That never means it is true. Instead of pointing the finger and saying that another culture is creating all the strife and problems then why not help educate them and see what can be done to help them find a better way? If all else fails, and you are still afraid of the mixing of the races, you can always pack up and leave this country that was never yours to begin with and go to Antarctica. I am a melting pot of ethnicities and I am georgeous to boot! Oh, and happy dating everyone. muwah!!
 piscesgirl65

Joined: 4/3/2006
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Posted: 7/13/2007 6:51:38 PM
So what are you saying, Phil??? That God made us to all stick to "our own"???? God made us all the same on the inside, he just gave us different "shells". I'm really interested in knowing "the reason" why you think that God gave us different skin colors." To me, it seems like a racial statement.
 piscesgirl65

Joined: 4/3/2006
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Posted: 7/13/2007 7:09:39 PM
And you, Angel...You need to learn how to spell!!!!
 KikiBou

Joined: 7/4/2007
Msg: 241
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Posted: 7/15/2007 10:25:22 PM
Tainted Angel? Yep. You're tained all right. With profound ignorance.
You are rooted in hatred and superiority...but yet, afraid to show your
ugly face? Ha!
You need to repent quickly.
 gonzofanmel

Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 242
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Posted: 7/16/2007 6:48:40 AM

I see that you are a N****R lover and like to bash people who just dont agree with mixing up the races.


Hey Wayne, I think you dropped your bedsheet.



Thank God my mother never had this point of view. Or else I wouldn't be here.
 Joquer

Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 243
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Posted: 7/16/2007 8:26:04 AM
next time ask about interspecies dating and see how that one turns up *nods*
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