| | No sex before marriagePage 8 of 13 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13) | | Yes i totally agree with that. Thats the best choice. I am waiting till I get married. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2007 7:47:36 AM | | I do not agree...sex is an important part of a relationship and if that area of the relationship isn't good then the relationship could be doomed. | |
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Posted: 12/8/2007 7:38:28 PM | For those with their eyes open and not their britches down 99% of doomed relationships could have been prevented by heeding sound premarital ADVICE.
I speak from sad experience as a former fornicator . . . . | |
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Posted: 12/8/2007 10:07:51 PM | | i usually wait untill atleast a good hour into the first date. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 9:51:32 PM | IRJ...I agree with you. I beleive to do it God's way. He kmows best. And He is saying what is He is saying to save us heartache. If we are are obident then He will pick find the Right one for us. Have faith and wait. I am believing for the same. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 10:46:51 PM |
Does any one else agree with no sex before marriage or am I the only one who think that this is a good idea????????????????????????????
It's a good idea if you feel that is what is best for you. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 2:40:22 AM | OH HELL NO!! What age are we living in now?? I'm not sorry for saying this, but you need to check out the merchandise before you buy it. There is such a thing as not being sexually compatable, and I believe sex is extremely important in any marriage or relationship.
I'd hate to wake after a few months of being newly married and think, wow, our sex sucks. Not to mention, you will never know what it is like to have been with other people. Not saying it has to be many, but there have been instances where a partner has turned around so many years later in a marriage and say that he/she wished they would of experienced others. There are too many "what ifs" not to experience your loved one sexually. It can be a wonderful bonding experience that can only bring you closer together, OR, you may just find out you need sex counseling before you say the "I do's".
Just think, what if a man was too big for his woman. A lifetime of OUCH, is not good. OR, what if he was too small, A lifetime of toys is sooo unsatisfying. Same goes for a woman, too big, too small, too much of a prude, you get the point.
OH for gosh sakes, JUST DO IT!! a little sex will not send you to hell people.  | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 4:43:40 AM | | I'm with you. Which originally was just a matter of relgious scruples. But as time went on it also became a matter of self-respect. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 4:46:39 AM |
I'm not sorry for saying this, but you need to check out the merchandise before you buy it. There is such a thing as not being sexually compatable, and I believe sex is extremely important in any marriage or relationship.
Well, I don't look on either myself or a man as "merchandise" that I'm planning to "buy". And anybody who sees me as some sort of car he wants to test drive is treating me like a thing, not a person. I have had my share of being treated like a thing and will no longer settle for it.
Yeah, sex is very important in a marriage. But you can talk these things out. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 6:56:17 AM | You gotta try the ride before you buy!
Sell yourself, if it aint good....then I aint buying ya! | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 7:40:36 AM | Heck you need to learn how to do something before u get married..
I say loose the v card and have some fun!!!!!!!!!!
says the woman who hasnt seen her virginity since she was 14 | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 7:42:35 AM | | Im in awe that people still wait til marrige I thought this day in age people didnt even leave highschool first. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 8:54:06 AM | "Yeah, sex is very important in a marriage. But you can talk these things out. "
OMG, WOW, never a day goes by that I am not totally astounded by what people some people say. GET A CLUE!!
Sugar, if you think you can seriously "talk these things out" before or god forbid after marriage, whew, you are missing the point of really great sex and I feel really sorry for you.
How can you even say "yeah sex is very important" if you aren't having great, mind blowing sex with them now, which you will never know sitting around a kitchen table discussing what feels best for him during a blow job while you eat your Cherrios and read your paper. "OH btw honey, one year from now when I get a ring on my finger and you marry me and I decide to give you a blow job, would you prefer I spit or swallow your speww???"
The only way to find these things out is to get in the sandbox and start playing. Sure, talking is great, but while you are doing the deed babe.
Love making is great and in a relationship an absolute must, the hell with all this waiting for a ring and a signed piece of paper b.s.. Stop being a prude and start screwing your man. Let yourself go, enjoy what your body has to offer you, and what his body can do for you. I don't buy this i'm so holy b.s. You are "holy" and for a good reason, so his parts can go into yours. GEESH!!
OH NO, i'm going to hell now. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 1:47:02 PM | | I guess back in the day you just got stuck with someone like it or not........I think you need to sample the goodies to see if they taste good . | |
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AS82
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Msg: 190 | |
| No sex before marriage
Posted: 9/5/2008 4:17:54 PM | Yes there are people that still beleive in it, most being religious.
ABSTINENCE!!!!!!! YAY!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 8:24:28 PM | Well, it's what i WAS waiting for, but hell, she wanted it so much i gave in on the 4th date so she would stop ****in, and it did shut her up, when we woke up (at her place) she wanted to do it again,and I said no, and she ****ed more so I said its over.
But I don't wait till marriage for it now because of a religious holier than thou thing, or because i want to ride before i buy. only reason is morally and because i think that when its time, the buildup and anticipation will make it AMAZING! | |
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AS82
| | Joined: 9/1/2008
Msg: 193 | |
| No sex before marriage
Posted: 9/9/2008 5:04:10 AM | | Waiting until you are marriage takes faith and I have it, and I will continue to wait for my future hubby to be. | |
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Posted: 9/9/2008 5:11:20 AM | Re the Opost:
It's a free world, so to each their own. But some comments:
If anything, women have more reasons to check the "merchandise" before they "marry" it, sexually speaking. The probability of getting stuck with a "lemon" is higher than that of men.
Plus I am not sure that Christ spoke specifically against pre marital sex. Correct me if I am wrong. The old testament, one of the commandments, speaks against being unfaithful but once married, so that is a different issue.
And what does no sex before marriage have to do with self respect, especially in our era? | |
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Posted: 9/9/2008 6:49:17 AM | no way,, no sex, heck you wood not even get a 2nd date with me,no sex wtf is wong with you,, stop me if you herd this before,, put out or get out,,you just tell that bull to the kids,,no sex,, you nead ,, | |
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Posted: 9/9/2008 8:34:12 AM |
Does any one else agree with no sex before marriage or am I the only one who think that this is a good idea
I don't think I believe in sex before marriage. But I think sex should wait a lot longer into a relationship than it commonly does nowadays. I made a lot of stupidd mistakes when I was younger and I wish I could take them back. | |
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Posted: 9/9/2008 3:12:40 PM | post 196: "Most couples I've seen practice no sex after marriage."
True, which means no sex before AND after marriage, except maybe for the honeymoon.
But since marriage is a financial/business/legal partnership why not indeed take this messy thing called sex out of the partnership!  Playing table games like monopoly and trivia pursuit can be loads of fun as well (yeah, right). | |
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