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 Sobe82
Joined: 11/23/2009
Msg: 26
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I agreed to a blind date with a girl that wanted me to take her to her date party. I meet up with her at the sorority house and find out that she is far from my type. I figured that wasn't a big deal an that we'd have fun. After all it takes alot of guts for a woman to ask a guy out. Especially one that she knows doesn't know her.

The girls had been drinking to get the party started. My date was already pretty drunk. We board the bus and I start making fun friendly convo. She lies about her age and a bunch of other stupid inconsequential stuff. She tries to make out with me. I dodge. I give her a kiss on the cheek. Repeat same scenario. She starts crying. Leaves my seat and starts bawling with some of her girlfriends. I find out later that she's had a crush on me for years. The rest of the night followed the same cycle. I was a good sport about it and did my best to help her save face.
 qu1nn
Joined: 7/16/2008
Msg: 27
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Posted: 4/22/2010 10:54:16 AM
I was out with this woman, she was 39 and I was 30. She was drinking white wine, I had my Corona and she says to me, I want to rip open your shirt! I said huh? I want to rip open your shirt she says again, and I reply with thats not such a good idea. Nice button up shirt, nothing underneath. So, we get ready to leave for the night, and she grabs onto my chest and rips my shirt open!

I went and bought the same shirt again the next day and call it my lucky shirt now
 girlsaturday1
Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 28
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Posted: 4/22/2010 11:47:39 AM
I agreed to meet this date at the cinema. He was a bit young and "wet behind the ears." He was actually in the cinema when I arrived, so I had to find him!
Needless to say, I didn't repeat the experience.

Date horror no.2. I should have made him send a photo first. it was a "fright or flight" moment. He was a cross between Shrek and a Leprechaun, with carrot red hair. I lasted for 30 minutes on the "penance" date. He also bored me to tears with "my boss did me wrong" stories.
 SJB2010
Joined: 11/21/2009
Msg: 29
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Posted: 4/22/2010 12:52:18 PM
It was a second date I had with this girl a year younger than me. We got appetizers at a local restaurant, and then walked across the street to a bar. No, we didn't get drunk; one drink each. As we were leaving and get to the sidewalk (we were heading to another bar), she suddenly stops and kicks me straight in the nuts. I bend over, and she does it again. Funny thing is I didn't even drop to the floor; just bent over. She laughed profusely. We did end up going to the second bar, but after that night I didn't contact her again and deleted her from Facebook.
 Abbicci
Joined: 11/17/2008
Msg: 30
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Posted: 4/22/2010 12:59:54 PM

It was a second date I had with this girl a year younger than me. We got appetizers at a local restaurant, and then walked across the street to a bar. No, we didn't get drunk; one drink each. As we were leaving and get to the sidewalk (we were heading to another bar), she suddenly stops and kicks me straight in the nuts. I bend over, and she does it again. Funny thing is I didn't even drop to the floor; just bent over. She laughed profusely. We did end up going to the second bar, but after that night I didn't contact her again and deleted her from Facebook.


She assaulted you and you took her to another bar? Did you ask her why she felt the need to kick you not once but twice?


I did have a first meet with a guy that made me wonder.

As I sat down I noticed he dyed his hair jet black. I thought OK vanity but whatever. Then he kept doing this weird lizard tounge thing the entire time he was talking to me. Kinda like Hannibel Lecter. Just plain creepy.
 SJB2010
Joined: 11/21/2009
Msg: 31
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Posted: 4/22/2010 1:10:24 PM
She assaulted you and you took her to another bar? Did you ask her why she felt the need to kick you not once but twice?


Well I didn't exactly "take" her to another bar, as I only paid for my own drink. It was more about wanting another drink for myself, then wanting to hang out with her more, LOL.

Oh yes, I asked her "what the f** was that for?" and she replied "uh don't worry it wasn't about you, I just was curious if that would really take down a man." Biznatch got her answer; it didn't.
 cap_n_mORGAN
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 32
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Posted: 4/22/2010 1:11:48 PM
I've got a grand one!!!
Talked to a woman for a couple of weeks. We decide to meet I pick her up on my bike. (it was bike week here).
We get to the bar and have a couple of drinks and we start talking. I had asked her what she did for a living on the phone and she never answered me.
So I ask again. She says I am not ready for that. I tell her I am open minded. She replies I'm a escort!!!!
I was floored!!!
I told her it was time for me to go and she got mad!?!?!?!?
Needless to say now I know a ladies job before I pick her up.

Before you ask no she did not try to charge me!!!.....lol
 Abbicci
Joined: 11/17/2008
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Posted: 4/22/2010 1:12:07 PM
Alrighty then. You wanted to spend more time with her AFTER she assaulted you.

Just wow. Unless you like girls who enjoy kicking, in that case more power to ya :)
 SJB2010
Joined: 11/21/2009
Msg: 34
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Posted: 4/22/2010 1:27:09 PM
Alrighty then. You wanted to spend more time with her AFTER she assaulted you.

Just wow. Unless you like girls who enjoy kicking, in that case more power to ya :)


Lol well like I said, it wasn't about spending time with her, it was about wanting another drink for myself.

But believe me I too see that as assault and it is unacceptable, hence why I didn't see her again.

I blame the media for this girl's fascination in kicking guy's groins.

Feminists and mascu-fools have successfully eliminated that taboo. This started in the late 1970s, as one can verify by watching old movies or TV. Up until that point, it was completely taboo to show or joke about this on TV or in the movies. But radical feminists would routinely joke about this sort of things in speeches and their writings of the 1970s (which would have been scandalous only a decade earlier) and, in conjunction with mascu-fools, started to 'test the waters' in the mass media in the late 1970's and early 1980s. Then it took off, and the rationale/justification was stretched in succession from (1) self-defense to (2) he's-a-jerk/he-deserved-it to (3) it's funny.

So, at some level, I ought to congratulate feminists and their mascu-fool collaborators on their spectacular success at completely devaluing male sexuality and 'humorizing' sexual assault against men. Bravo. This is yet another femi-bigot success story.

Feminism - it's the new KKK.

This country's media is sick, and has turned some of the female population into abusive biznatches.

Domestic violence rates for women-on-male (women initiating it) violence is on the rise, too. And is it any wonder when in any comedy or romance flick you can find a women kicking and hitting men in the nuts, and slapping their face (lots of examples; more recently Aniston's new flick in which her character punched Butler's in the nuts TWICE, unprovoked, because she didn't want him to rightfully take her to jail).

In fact, in one of my classes, this girl was telling our group about when she was at a bar, this women through a glass cup at another woman for hitting on her boyfriend and tackled her. Women are ferocious when it comes to women and men alike betraying them (ie cheating, being the "other woman" hitting on her man) which we can thank the media's portrayal of it being accepted for women to kick guys in the groin or slap them for cheating, and to "cat fight" with the "other woman."

Anyway, and I would have reported these assaults to the police, however they do not take women-on-male violence seriously unless the guy is bleeding. All my date would have had to say is that she felt threatened or it was in self defense and that would be that. In fact, they would not even have questioned her at all, as they wouldn't take it seriously. Police live in and are affected by this sick media too.
 forumfishie
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 35
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Posted: 4/22/2010 1:35:58 PM
"I blame the media for this girl's fascination in kicking guy's groins"

I have cable, I watch lots of news shows.
I have never gone on a date and think " I wonder if I kick this guy in the groin he'll fall down?"
That has never even crossed my mind, never, not even once!

I don't think is a media, feminist, thing.
There isn't a ball-kicking conspiracy out there!!

I think is a crazy, intoxicated matter.


"So if you would or have done either of this for a man cheating or another reason, then you have been brainwashed like the other some of the female population"

I see your point.
No, I haven't slapped or kicked anybody, male or female.
Why get into a fight with someone who is twice as big and strong as me?


Nooo!
I'm with you, on your decision to walk away!! :-)
vvvvvvvvv
 Helen0426
Joined: 6/2/2009
Msg: 36
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Posted: 4/22/2010 1:45:35 PM

Lol well like I said, it wasn't about spending time with her, it was about wanting another drink for myself.

You could have left and done that somewhere else. Her action was certainly bizarre as well as unacceptable, but yours, in remaining in her company, was by far the weirder of the two.
 SJB2010
Joined: 11/21/2009
Msg: 37
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Posted: 4/22/2010 1:50:04 PM
Forumfishie, I did say some of the female population.

And it is certainly unheard of a girl to kick a guy there like this girl did to me, however ask any girl if she would slap or kick a guy's groin for cheating and chances are she'd say absolutely. I've had several females tell this to me, that they would and have in the cheating circumstances. This same woman however wouldn't find it acceptable for a man to slap them for cheating.

So if you would or have done either of this for a man cheating or another reason, then you have been brainwashed like the other some of the female population.
 Bipolarintense
Joined: 4/21/2010
Msg: 38
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Posted: 4/24/2010 6:32:34 PM

she suddenly stops and kicks me straight in the nuts. I bend over, and she does it again.

I do hope you realise your now considered married in some areas of Alabama, Georgia, Kentucky, Tennessee and Texas.
 cap_n_mORGAN
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 39
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Posted: 4/24/2010 7:36:19 PM

I do hope you realise your now considered married in some areas of Alabama, Georgia, Kentucky, Tennessee and Texas.


I don't kown about that but in GA if you sign into a motel as MR. & MRS. whatever you are married!!!
I know a guy that had to divorce a women because of this law!!!!
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 4/25/2010 10:11:10 AM

I agreed to meet this date at the cinema. He was a bit young and "wet behind the ears." He was actually in the cinema when I arrived, so I had to find him!
Needless to say, I didn't repeat the experience.

Just curious - if he was meeting you at the cinema, where else would he have been but in it? I do this all the time - I had no idea it was a bad thing, so I thought I'd ask what went wrong here.

I blame the media for this girl's fascination in kicking guy's groins.

There has to be some connection here with the socio-economic/emotional/mental level of woman you met and this type of behavior. I don't have any friends who it would even dawn on to think this up. It was a weird thing thus the name of the thread. There's no need for a dissertation on why it happened in the context of how women's lib is sending the world to hell. She was probably just an extremely abnormal human being...there are not tons of women out there looking for crotches to kick.
 Helen0426
Joined: 6/2/2009
Msg: 41
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Posted: 4/25/2010 10:53:11 AM

if he was meeting you at the cinema, where else would he have been but in it?

The lobby would have been a much better choice! For one thing, she'd have been able to, literally, see him. Also, when you go in ahead and seat yourself without having discussed this beforehand, someone who's meeting you for the first time might well (very reasonably) assume they've been stood up when they don't see you either outside or in the lobby.
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 4/25/2010 10:57:05 AM
^^^Ok, it was the wording then. I assumed she meant inside the building (in my region we say cinema/theater and it generally means "inside"). Agreed, so long as it's mentioned beforehand it's not a big deal where they're waiting.

I tend to meet people in the actual theater seats or in the lobby but I also mention it beforehand.
 *LadyLinda*
Joined: 6/30/2008
Msg: 43
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Posted: 4/26/2010 3:13:35 AM
I actually went out with this guy more than once....1st date part way through he starts calling me mama and not just once but something like this "are you having a good time mama...do you like the meal mama...are we going out again mama" this was the way it went the whole evening. I thought maybe that was his way of showing affection.....2nd date.....starts calling me cuz....just like he had with the 1st date when he used mama.....then he starts telling me how he is gonna suck me t*** and lick my p****.....needless to say there was no third date.....very annoying....never tried to figure out the real meaning of what he was trying to say.
 Nice7Girl1977
Joined: 2/23/2010
Msg: 44
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Posted: 12/24/2010 1:26:28 PM
It turned out that he was looking for someone to marry so that he could stay in a county.
 kari135
Joined: 9/1/2009
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Posted: 12/24/2010 2:12:42 PM
Guy I'd met, knew slightly, wanted to take me out for sandwiches and drinks. Okay, fine. Took me to a gay bar, he immediately chugged a couple stiff drinks and insulted the regulars - who, thank heaven, pretended to ignore him. But I never did get the sandwich or a drink, either.
 bikenurse7
Joined: 11/21/2010
Msg: 46
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Posted: 12/24/2010 9:11:20 PM
I am laughing out loud..thanks for posting this one...:) I did go out with an uncontrolled farter years ago..It was really weird.he just kept walking and farting...never said a word about it either... I never went out with him again either.
 mrnick30
Joined: 7/20/2009
Msg: 47
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Posted: 12/24/2010 11:18:27 PM
I got the best one for you: Many years ago when I was young, just out of high school. I was working part time at a nursing home in the evening while going to school during the day. I was at this job maybe about 2 months. This girl that worked there, always flirted with me, big time. So we went out on a couple dates. We were flirting a lot at work after the dates, would kiss and stuff during work. I was doing my usual rounds, Shane (co worker), and I caught her masturbating. She froze, it was so funny! We tired not to laugh. She called me that night (didn't have cell phones, text messages, etc back then), and was like, "Don't think bad of me, I was just horny from all the making out, and didn't want to have sex with you to fast cause I really like you." Needless to say I slept with her after our next date. We didn't last long at all, maybe 3 more dates after that. Just wasn't there, but dam that was so funny! To this day, Shane and I still crack jokes about it! I wish I still talked to her, but I don't. Just to give her crap.

-Nick
 Helen0426
Joined: 6/2/2009
Msg: 48
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Posted: 12/25/2010 2:05:53 AM

But I never did get the sandwich or a drink, either.

Aw, now that's just wrong. Never mind the drink, if someone offers you a sandwich, you should get a sandwich!

Sandwiches are good (channelling Dr. Who on the subject of bananas).

Also: Good tale, Nick!
 Molly Maude
Joined: 9/11/2008
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Posted: 12/25/2010 11:04:53 PM
1st meet/greet with a man from PoF and he looked at LEAST 20 years older than the photo ... I commented that a more up-to-date photo would be good ... he agreed with me ... no biggie ...

but everything he said from that point forward was different from what he'd said BEFORE the date! finally ... there had been so many different discrepancies between what he'd SAID earlier and what was reality ... that I was getting a weird vibe ... so paid for my own sandwich and soda ...

the thing that I thought particularly "weird" was that he kept AGREEING with me ... no matter WHAT I said, he agreed ... he was fun to talk with, other than he kept agreeing with me! and even THAT was sort of fun!

but ... I started wondering how far he'd go to agree with me ... so I said more and more outrageous things ... and he'd AGREE! I was laughing so hard ... I think, at one point, he even agreed that women are smarter than men! (ok ... I have a weird sense of humour!)

somewhere out there, he's probably writing a comment on a thread about this crazy woman he dated who said outrageous things ... he probably won't admit he was agreeing with me and that I was laughing hysterically!

and he DID post a more current photo the next week ... I sent him an e-mail saying I thought his new photo looked great! but he didn't respond! LAFFIN!
 scottey63
Joined: 3/8/2008
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Posted: 12/25/2010 11:10:27 PM
^^^ Was he actually agreeing with you, that he felt/thought the same way about the things you talked about, or was he just acknowledging what you said?
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