| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 8:04:21 AM | @ joaquin17
Geez I'm blown away by the responses, I'm glad I posted, I'll get to everyone that directed a post towards me as I get time, but joaquin17, that's not crazy at all, why I can say never is for just such a reason, it is self rooted or its become so. Quite frankly I wouldn't be me, and I couldn't live with myself, its a promise I made to myself at about six years old, or at least as early as I can remember. Thank you personally joaquin, and all of you for the company, wow.  | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 8:23:07 AM | | I agree with most of what's been said so far. But for me, as much as avoiding others' pain would be important, I can say never,because this is an issue of personal integrity. I'm the only one that's living in this skin, the only one there when my eyes close at night, the only one I answer to in the end. It's hard to have that 'final' conversation, but it's critical, and in the end makes life so much simpler. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 8:31:29 AM | I have never. I will never.
I have been played, more than often and in the worst way and it hurts like hell. It also has a lasting negative affect that carries on to all the other relationships (as a victim).
Trust becomes a HUGE issue from there on...
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 8:31:59 AM | Throwing my hat in the ring!
Have never cheated, although the opportunity has been there. Also counted in on the other side of being cheated upon.
I'm a one man woman plain and simple. If there ever came a time that a relationship had failed to the point of considering another person, I'd leave the relationship first. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 9:30:41 AM | | I guess the reason I claim it is even thou its never really been around my life personally when I see stories of cheating like on tv, books, or whatever it leaves me with this sick feeling inside. I always feel horrible for the person that was cheated on. Prime example now would be that new Rkelly song trapped in the closet. Anyway I guess thats my reason. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 11:29:08 AM | If i had a girlfriend i would not cheat..
Because she's my girlfriend, and i want to be with her, make her happy.
I don't like to hurt my best and closest friend either.
That's the basic idea.
Ok.. I'm a terrible liar to. I look down and all that..
And if i succeed, all by mistake, i probably would not remember that lie i told her very long. If i DID cheat i would loose my girlfriend for sure.
So i don't dare either. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 11:36:02 AM | | nope, i never have and never will cheat. my x cheated on me the whole 12 years of our marriage and i never once cheated on her. i also had plenty of opportunities and never once took advantage of them. i was gone a lot in the military. i saw a few cheating on their wives and i felt sorry for their wives. so that is how i know i'll never cheat on my partner. especially one that could be faithful to me. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 11:47:48 AM | 1) If there is a woman I could have a relationship with, I would treat her like a princess, 'cause the opportunity doesn't present itself all that often.
2) I do enough stupid things to get myself dumped...at least this way, it won't be anything too major. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 12:01:29 PM | I was married twice and in both marriages they cheated. I never cheated on them, tho I had many chances to do so.
I would never cheat on my partner because I know the depth of the pain all to well and wouldn't want someone I loved to ever have to experience that in their life. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 2:31:52 PM | does it mean that i`m a bad person for
cheating on my right hand
i only did it once and i told my right hand
i was sorry afterwards
ot: no i havn`t cheated on any woman i`m with
and never will
its to disrespectable and i wouldn`t to be
treated likr that either
do unto others as you would have them do unto you
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 2:34:13 PM | | I agree, if you are in a relationship there is no reason to even think of cheating!! It is a respect thing, not only for yourself, but think of the person that you would be cheating on, how would they feel?? I have been cheated on in the past and honestly, I think that it would have been easier if the person had just told me that it was over!! | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 3:06:27 PM | | I would NEVER cheat on a woman . It is wrong . and feeling get hurt too much . I know , because , my ex-girlfreind it too me . She kept telling me " oh he's just a freind " 3 weeks later . she tells me the guy from the bar is her boyfreind . I must have S T U P I D on my forehead . I have not found a girlfreind in 5 years . one nighters . BUT , that is not what I want . I want her for at least 5 years . | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 3:46:20 PM | I have never cheated and i never will .. and i can promise that... If you are in a relationship and you feel the urge to cheat then there is something missing in the relationship and you should try to fix it or end it period.
I know there is alot of temptation out there but if you honestly love your partner then no matter how temping you wouldnt do it.
When i was married to my ex and i was at this bar with the girls this one guy i knew from the bar came up to me one night, drunk out of his skull and grabbed me and kissed me ... that wasnt cheating cuz i pushed him off me right away but i felt quitly.
You know you are going to cheat before the opportunity come along if you are eyeing other people and wondering about them sexually ... then chances are if opportunity came along you would prolly go for it .. just my opinion. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 4:40:59 PM | Never Cheated and Never Will????
That is just here say. Come on who can tell you what really comes tomorrow?
Sure it is so easy to say.
Important thing here is can you forgive the one your married with to attempt to carry-on with the beauty you first found.
That is really the question.....I think everyone will have their chance too. It is how you as a person can handle the situation.
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