| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 1/26/2009 12:22:40 PM | I've never cheated, and never will..... If I'm "with" someone, I'm with her because I'm very attracted to her both mentally and physically... I'm with her because we have a "special connection where I "can't wait" to see her, spend time with her, and share my day with her. When I'm in a "relationship", cheating or pursuing having sex with someone else is the furthest thing from my mind....
...Sure, I can still appreciate another female's beauty... I can still admire a "great body", take a second look when a "hottie" passes me in the mall... or make comments to my "buddies" about boobs, butts, etc... BUT that doesn't translate into a desire to cheat or have sex with someone else when I'm in a relationship... I'm no angel, but when I'm in a relationship, I'm in it for the right reasons... because I feel the right connection... And when I feel the right connection, cheating just isn't an option or even a thought. If I'm not feeling that connection... or no longer feeling that connection, than there's either no relationship or the relationship is over... I have no intention on "settling" in life and when it's not there, it's not there. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 1/26/2009 12:37:42 PM | | I will not cheat because it is risky,if I am in an abusive relationship and there is a man who will rescue me and *promise me the land of manna and Honey and no pain * I will have a clean break with my relationship and check this guy first before commiting to him. If I am married with little kids with a not so nice husband, I will check myself what happened to this nice man that turn into not nice husband and I will work that out. No I will not cheat for cheating is a cheap shot for sexual thrill what ever the reason is . Cheater is dishonest greedy person whether it is money or sex. Ps ."who cares what you believe or not ." | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 1/27/2009 9:44:34 AM | | Ive never cheated and never will as ive always been cheated on or Dumped I have never even Dupend or broken up with someone. I know what it feels like and I personally dont wish anyone ever feel the way I have so thats why i dont do it. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 1/27/2009 10:22:32 AM | My husband has cheated on me 3x in last few years...3 different women..(the wife is always the last to know). It is the most horrible thing that can happen to the betrayed spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend. No ifs, ands or butts. It is worse than being gang-raped. The lies, the sneaking around, the jeopardizes of the betrayed person's health, and the impact on the children...just so immense, there is no measure.
So, please, any of you that are thinking of doing this....I beg you, do not. Do not ruin your significant other's life and your children's lives, if you have any. Your familiy does not deserve it.
These people that cheaters, are emotionally disturbed. Possibly mentally disturbed as well. They are also Narcissists. They are terribly mean, selfish people. And should never be in a monogamous relationship, because, they simple do not have the wherewithal to. They just cannot. Just stay single, then you can date as many people as you can stand and let them know that too. Then no one will be devastated, lied to and stabbed in the back, and won't have sick people they dated harrassing your wife/girlfriend/children. Why do this to them?
If one is unhappy, and thinking of cheating, the best thing to do before they do it, is tell the other person, why lie, and let the other person decide if they want to stay or go. Or, file for divorce if you are married. Then everything will be out in the open.
If we want to improve this world, let's start with ourselves. Be honest, be open, be a real, stand-up character, a true type of caring human being.
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/1/2009 6:35:15 AM | | No I never have cheated, and NEVER will! At one point in time you loved this person, if you don't now, have the balls to tell them BEFORE moving on. Why cause more pain than need be? If you are not happy, and not willing to work on the relationship then it is over- bringing more drama into the mix is cowardly and just plain mean | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/1/2009 5:48:26 PM | | I've never cheated and I never will. It is against my values or belief system. I have to be true to myself. I believe in love and that is not what love is all about. When you love someone their happiness is important to you. You will give of yourself to make them happy, not to cheat them and cause them pain. If the problems in a relationship is too great, and both or either is not willing to make the effort, one person cannot do it alone. Pain is inevitable – suffering is optional; if you cannot walk side by side with the happiness of the other in mind, I wouldn't stay stuck in suffering. I have chose and would choose to end it before I cheated. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/1/2009 6:48:54 PM | | I've experienced the pain of being cheated on too many times in the past. It's not a pain I want to put anyone I'm dating through. Besides, I have more respect for myself and the person I'm dating than to cheat. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/1/2009 7:02:21 PM | | I never have either, no wait I have in elementary school but not in serious relationships. Cheating is just mad disrespectful and I have no respect for people that do it. But I'll forgive it tho | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/1/2009 7:02:40 PM | i have never praised myself...nor will i ever lay praise upon myself....
i know what my morals are
it is i that must live with them
i know who i am
and i must be at peace with that
i will never.... has already done? | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/1/2009 7:36:27 PM | | It's really simple why I wouldn't. My two longest multi-year relationships have ended with me being cheated on, then left for someone else. I know what it's like TWICE. I couldn't live with myself if I did that to someone. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/1/2009 8:04:21 PM | | I have never cheated on anyone and i never will. I have had a ex fiance that had cheated on me and that was one of the worst feelings that i had to go through. It makes it hard to trust people when you have been cheated and see countless couples cheating on one another. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/1/2009 9:04:46 PM | i never cheated on any girls ive been with.
why? simply cause i demand faithfullness from a partner so why would i do to someone what i dont want them to do to me.
and finaly i respect people who have integrity and morals.i believe in this day and age with so many values and morals trown out the window so often by many people its nice to still see people stand for what they believe in.if i would cheat i would have no respect for myself just like i have no respect for thoses who cheat.
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/1/2009 9:11:04 PM | I don't cheat and won't cheat. It's not worth it. I was in a bad marriage, still did not cheat. Cheating makes things worse.
I can't lie to someone anyway. I was raised to be truthful, and it seems if I do fib to cover my mistakes, I get caught. I am not a good liar. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/1/2009 9:54:36 PM | | I can't believe this post is still going since 2005. Who is going to admit that they cheated for all to see , of course most won't say because it shows up on your profile. I will say that I had many chances, but I didnt so I just left. And I didnt leave because of another man, I left because he was an alcoholic. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/2/2009 5:22:50 AM |
I can't believe this post is still going since 2005. Who is going to admit that they cheated for all to see , of course most won't say because it shows up on your profile. I will say that I had many chances, but I didnt so I just left. And I didnt leave because of another man, I left because he was an alcoholic.
I wonder if cheaters and players would even look at this thread? I have had my experiences with cheaters and players and from what I've seen enough to know is that Karma does know the golden rule. I wouldn't want to be perfect but I have a good heart and try to treat others with respect and dignity as I myself want to be treated. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/2/2009 1:02:15 PM | i have been cheated on and it hurts so much to find out that you put your trust in a person and they did that to you. i would never hurt anyone like that. anyone who thinks different, should take a step back and think. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/2/2009 5:00:41 PM | Because.
The very same moment you even think of being with someone else is the moment when the relationship is not worth fighting for. Because then you obviously do not care about the person you are with, well not in the way I think it should be. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 2/2/2009 5:58:36 PM | If a person cheats to me it shows a total disrespect towards the other person involved in the relationship. I was married for twenty years and not once did I cheat.
If I would have had the urge I would have been upfront and honest with my husband.
The one thing that blows me away is how some folks can do it and then let their spouse be the last to know.
Talk about a double whammy. OUCH! | |
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