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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/22/2005 8:37:40 AM | I have NEVER cheated on a girlfriend in my life. I swear it!
But does it count if you have slept with other peoples girlfriends? i seem to have an uncanny skill in landing those. Except i never find out till the next day!! .lol | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/22/2005 9:27:01 AM |
I agree!!! A leapord can change its spots!
They generally don't, but they can. They're gonna have to change that spot for another, however, because I won't stick around long enough after having been cheated on to watch them change their spots.
Like many have said already, NEVER. Why? It was done to me and i wouldn't wish it on anyone, let alone cause it. It's just an all-around ignorant, brutal thing to do. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/22/2005 9:27:18 AM | No buddy dont worry your not the only one.i myself too never cheated on my girlfriends and i know i will never either.remember the quote " what goes around comes around" and dont do to others what you dont want others to do to ya"
but when it comes down to it.its just that one night of passion with any hot girl is not worth loosing a relationship that you builded for a while and has a strong foundation.lets face it guys.the girl that you would cheat your girlfriend with only wants one thing aftre she gets it she couldnt care less about other things you have to offer contrary to the girls thats been there as a true partner and friend.is that really worth it.i dont think so.
plus even if your girlfriend wouldnt find out you still have to look at yourself in the mirror and live with yourself.if you have a soul its gonna eat at ya for ever.i know myself i cant.
and i like to be able to say that i have principles and be proud of myself to have values.and to me not being a cheater is one that i am proud of. plus once you go down that road you rarely stop. once a cheater always a cheater.sorry if i keep coming up with theses (maybe) cheezy quotes here but its true.
plus how are you suppose to find true love if you cheat.true love is base on honesty and trust. for people who only wants sex and never love i guess for them cheating is o.k.
but thats theyre choice. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/22/2005 11:34:51 AM | I could never hurt my husband like that. I made a vow 13 years ago and I don't take it lightly. We have stuck together through alot of really bad stuff.
If it ever came to the point that I didn't love him anymore then I would leave before jumping in bed with anyone else. Always close one door before opening another | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/22/2005 7:51:26 PM | | never cheated as i did not want to be the one to lose control, so i made sure i never got myself into situations where it could happen...too bad i cant say that about the ex, but, i understand that mistakes happen | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/23/2005 4:18:52 AM | Mistakes do happen. Its up to you as the person that was cheated on to decide if the realtionship is worth saving, and if the other prson may do it again.
I never cheated. Not once during 12 years. Even with my X G/F being less then interested for long periods. I was the first guy she was with to help her orgasm, but there were other issues from her past that made sex problimatic. Vanilla sex was all she would/could agree to.
Sometimes I felt that I was missing out especially in my mid 20's, but I knoew there was no one at fault, it was just the way things were. Hopefully when I meet the right woman I will be able to look forward to a long fruitfull emotionaly and sexually fulfiling relationship. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 8/1/2005 8:38:24 PM | [plus even if your girlfriend wouldnt find out you still have to look at yourself in the mirror and live with yourself.if you have a soul its gonna eat at ya for ever.i know myself i cant.
and i like to be able to say that i have principles and be proud of myself to have values.and to me not being a cheater is one that i am proud of.]
is it about being able to look in the mirror? looking back at yourself allows you to create any illusion. to me why i couldn't cheat is because i couldn't look into her eyes. the idea that eyes are gateways to the soul rings true. look into her eyes and say you love her after cheating on her and there's no illusion you see yourself for what you've become. illusion allows you to live with the cheating, the reality reflected back from her eyes doesn't, and that's what eats at you. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 8/2/2005 12:44:05 AM | Never have cheated and I never will
Why because we are adults...if something is missing in the relationship we need to talk.
Bottom linel: If you feel you could do better than me, go ahead and move on, but don't keep me on the side just in case you don't find better....
That is my attitude and for the man in my life I will do the same.
I have been cheated on before and It sure didn't feel good. I would so much have prefered that he walked out and moved on....but someone who cheats like to have thier cake and eat it too and that is one thing I am not biting into. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 8/2/2005 1:17:39 AM | I have never cheated while in a relationship
I will NOT say that I never will cheat
There are too many scenarios that to answer never is almost impossible
For example; You are married; your wife has a stroke/car accident etc
She is in hospital coma for 5 years
You stay married so are still in a relationship
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 8/2/2005 1:18:59 AM | | I think if u really love someone u wouldnt want to cheat... so many people are in meaningless relationships or just for comphort or a time filler. In those cases just dont be with one girl play the feild.... Everyone always tells me love is just a four letter word. it's those people I think will never find it if they don't open up to the idea of it existing. I was jaded a while ago and contemplated having a typical relationship with someone without really caring deeply about them. Just kinda shut off the emotions for a while. I think if u love someone u wouldnt want to, for all my friends and family i love I would take all the hurt and pain if it spared them it. If ur wanting to cheat I just think u never have truely felt what its like to love with ur whole heart...dont commit unless u mean it.. why play the games? | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 8/2/2005 1:58:34 AM | | Couldn't of said it any better Tessie and so true....It's to bad when relationships are started without emotion and ended that way...Specially when it deals with one person who is madly in love( at least thats what they think because they are desparatly trying to hold on ) and the other who feels nothing. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 8/2/2005 3:32:59 AM | Hmm...I flirted with it once...but that was my insecuriity one nite...I was feeling, how to put it...hmmm...un-appreciated at the time...hmmm...maybe it was my imagination....
I used to go boogie with my love all the time...we danced really well^^, that's so cool^^...heeh...
But in 4yrs...she tended to take me for granted, as we all do...and that's ok...but i was feeling particularly bad one nite...and i explained it to her too...I wanted to feel wanted...call me a jerk if you like...i didn't do anything except get hit on...and my ego needed it at the time....why? who knows...my op is that being together for a long time, made her jaded, and I appreciate that...but...She really did love me, and I loved her...I just missed feeling, desirable....does that make sense? I don't need more than one woman, but, sometimes, we seem to do things that are not conducive heeh...Hmm...I remember feeling that I might be her love, but she doesnt make me feel like im "sexy" sometimes...she got all kinds of approbation when we went out, I didn't...So it made it hard for me... upon reflection...i think I was rather immature, and needed to feel wanted... let's not kid anyone, feeling wanted is always nice, but...not worth wrecking a relationship over...
When I was younger....umm...I used to get quite alot of attention from the opposite sex, after 4 yrs with the same person, it was wonderful, but, I had a bit of a gap .......We would go out, have 100 guys hit on her...but i seemed to feel less than attractive, reality has nothing to do with this kinda thing, it's about feelings...I was young, and impressionable... | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 8/2/2005 3:46:29 AM | Hmm... i want to add something....
I never did cheat on anyone, and they never seemed to cheat on me, I sometimes ask myself why...
Who knows really?
My opinion is that I never lacked in an area to warrant it...
The only time i flirted with the idea, it was about feeling wanted...and I told her
It's a shame about our relationship, but, I had an issue i couldn't live with... because we would have made a very good couple, as we did when we were together hehe...
Her 6'. me 5'9 lol...so all the ladies who say height matters...ummmm it doesn't trust me ;)
lol
You might like the look but...as tall as she was, I am wide, so we looked good together..does that make sense? hehe All you need do is lean against the wall..and you'll get kissed just the same hehe ;)
P.S...Ummm...i talk well but..reality is, I have the damnedest time saying stuff like that to someone...I'm honest and i can tell it like it is, but, here's a question....am I the only one who can take rejection, but has a hard time dealing it?...
I am curious why people cheat...what's the point? If you want someone else...just say it...is that hard? Say ...you don't do it for me, i need something else...but why bother lying about it? Such a waste of time, and so not honest.....hmmm i think Ill start a thread hehe
Just a thought hehe
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 8/2/2005 6:26:14 AM | Okay-can say that I never cheated and never will. First-I love too much too deep and that whole "loyal as a dog" thing. Second-had it done to me and NEVER would put that hurt/disrespect to another human. I can honestly say I never was tempted-I never set myself up in a situation to be tempted.
Nice to see so many people feel they would never cheat- | |
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