| | Why do most women not reply or give it a try?Page 16 of 15 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15) | Im not so sure that men out number the women here, As I would think the oposite.
Women are very picky, women with children are way, way, to picky as Its not like every guy out there wants a premade family already. Some are ok with it and others are not. Women that have no children, Well you might have to be president of the United States for them to write back to you. And lastly, lots of women here don't really know what they want I think its more of a companionship thing they seek, like most people. If you don't look like movie star , a rock star, or look like you have millions fat chance that they write you back. Not saying that the men are not the same way. As I know that I want someone that likes herself and that does take care of herself too. There is always going to be an attraction, Although with that said, Attractions and Material things fade fast ! So you need to have something inside, that attracts them too you too, Example personality, sense of humor, values, etc.............. | |
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kow626
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 6/16/2009 12:42:06 AM | i reply to just about everyone.. i like to make friends with people even if i am not interested in dating them.
sscamarogirl,
wit dat attitude, ur a rarity on this site. most chicks want this n dat n r jus way 2 picky n want instant chemistry, romance, love, n a spark right away n it jus dont work like dat. i find it funny dat sum profiles say they want these very things, n its not completely unrealistic, but other than the obvious need for physical attraction, u can't expect these things immediately. some things take time.
i've never dated anyone, this site or otherwise, where i wanted 2 b bf/gf right off the bat, wanted to fall in love asap, wanted a romantic candlelit dinner on the 1st date, long passionate tongue kisses...i could go on and on. if the chemistry n attraction is there, then i aint hatin on dat. go 4 it n c where life takes both of u. but if u know the person aint gonna b long term material but could make a good friend cuz at the very least u hav sum things in common n r compatible on dat level, then y not accept dat rather than toss the whole thing to the side like i know happens sometimes, here or otherwise? all relationships need time to nurture and if you're not friends to start out wit, it jus won't last. i do think sum of the chicks on here r 2 picky 4 their own good.
waitaminute...this is a texas forum? oops, my bad. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2009 5:15:36 AM | | The reason this is happening is because we (the men) are all trying to go after the same women. I bet if everyone man on this website decided that we would not email or send a message to any female we would then gain the control back. Until then there is no reason or incentive for women to reply; they're driving the bus! | |
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Posted: 1/16/2011 11:57:27 PM | I've been here for about a week. On other sites, I replied to everyone, but the volume of messages recieved here is too large and indiscriminate. The format's flawed... the message window should be at the bottom of the page. I tried to reply to everyone but it just got out of hand... I spent so much time talking to guys that I wasn't interested in that I didn't have time to look for the guys that do interest me - the guy who messaged me that I was interested in thought I wasn't anymore because I was so busy on this site turning down other people! Also, many guys use a "not interested" reply as an opportunity to "plead their case." Furthermore, it gets frustrating when you feel obligated to answer mail from guys that obviously didn't read the profile and/or sent out a form letter ... so I decided to essentially turn my ability to recieve messages off and just send messages to the men who interest me.
Seriously... what is the polite thing to do when you've recieved messages from about 60 different people who, when replied to, will each send multiple messages? You just can't respond to "How u doin" with "Not interested.", because that's not "nice", either. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2011 6:59:05 PM | I have replied to the handful of messages that I have gotten since I signed up.
What you wrote can be said for the men as well. I write messages all the time to men in my area and 99% of the time never hear back from any of them. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2011 12:30:53 AM | I've talked to quite a few girls on here, and some of them have told me that sometimes they're either just NOT interested, or they're getting so many messages, it's hard to keep up. Sometimes, they don't respond, because they've already gotten so many perverted/rude messages, they don't even wanna bother with the rest! So, if you don't get a response, don't take it personal, just keep trying!...good luck, and happy fishing! | |
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Posted: 5/20/2011 9:56:23 PM | I, find it I, get ignored. When I, send mail to woman because I, feel the fact that there not really interested in me.  So in turn I, really do the same. But for real I, don't like hurting people's feeling's either and being honest or truthfull can be a double edge sword.  I'd rather chat with people and make a friend if nothing else comes of what is started between me and the other person.  | |
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Posted: 6/1/2011 10:17:23 PM | | I think the worst part in not getting a response with a nice pleasant and thoughtful message one gets blocked. Nothing more can be a more deterring blow than that. It would be nice to at least get a heads up :( I guess this is the cruelty of online dating I guess. You can only go as far as a picture will throw you. No matter how well the writing. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2011 5:13:30 PM | Hahahaha
I was thinking the exact same thing.
If I have to message you multiple times in hopes that you will grace me with a chance to meet you, Im pretty sure youre not someone I would care to meet lol
Im glad someone else noticed that. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2011 5:07:45 AM | | I would message guys who I thought didnt like the skinny perfect type but I noticed a lot of guys lie on their profile also. I have had guys ignore me too. I don't know if its because I dont know how to talk to guys or that I'm not good enough. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2011 7:51:32 PM | I could say the same thing ... in reverse.
I got out on a limb and contact men if I see someone I like ... and 99 percent of the time I get ignored. No response at all ... nothing.
It's like the men on here are after perfect blond bombshell models and not looking any farther than the photos they see. They want the impossible and anything else they aren't even going to bother with.
So ... been there, done that and seeing it from a different angle. *sigh*
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Posted: 9/11/2011 6:04:19 AM | | Shoot, I think its the complete opposite..guys are picky around here. It seems that you have to be a max. of at least 130 lbs and most of them don't like real/honest women..they want little girls so they can take care of them. Talk about shallowness. | |
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Posted: 10/1/2011 10:20:27 AM | | I tried answering all with polite flatered but not my type. So on comes stalker hate mail. So I figure if not someone I would go on a date with or if they are someone I have nothing in common with I don't respond. Guys said if I had no interest which is what I stated in my reply don't send an email. Really!?!? WTF? | |
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Posted: 10/1/2011 10:23:12 AM | | The inital filter people have selected on the profile will block too. So if you have browsed the sex personals which most women have as a filter you got blocked and the other person is thinking what a jerk he never sent a response. | |
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Posted: 10/5/2011 10:42:25 AM | | Women on here are full of it. They say they want a good man with morals and character but then they decide to hook up with a boy toy who's on here just looking for a good time. I have plenty of guy friends that are constantly hooking up with women on here. These guys are on here just to get laid. Don't give a damn about any of these women. Yet they get replies...The good guys, the ones women claim they want to meet, get nothing. You figure it out. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2011 6:22:38 AM | I was reading what you wrote..yes use women are picky out so are some men. Most men have a habit of yes sending a message and then never follow through. Set a standard for yourself and dont lower yourself. Thats when you end up with someone you dont want.
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Posted: 10/27/2011 5:35:05 AM | | hell I've been here for almost 7 years and after the first year it was a joke being here. I've gotten what I have given out of here and true that most women here are picky and looking for some fantasy guy. Most are all about the picture and dont go past that. I have met one lady that was great and she lived in another state. That didn't work out either but it had nothing to do with the distance. It was her divorce issue and she needed to close that chapter,it just took too long and I moved on. I've messageed sooooo many women and don't get a responce that I'll let them know later in a few days what I think of them so yes now I'm just here to look | |
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Posted: 10/27/2011 5:39:43 AM | and the women here say they are getting 20 to 30 messages in 10 min and can't reply to all of the is so full of themselfs. I dought any women here are that hot that they get that many in one day | |
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Posted: 10/27/2011 5:41:57 AM |
I was reading what you wrote..yes use women are picky out so are some men. Most men have a habit of yes sending a message and then never follow through.
I did such a thing do, it is natural.
reasons:
1.reply wasnt good enough...for example, she was too boring, nothing original at all, or seemed too careless -why invest energy i somebody who makes 3 spelling error in a sentence.
2.or re-valued her profile, and I saw her in a different light.
3.or I wanted to reply, but I wasnt sure what I want to say, didnt come naturally because maybe I had time presure from work etc., that part is my "fault".
so sometimes, I do not follow through. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2011 8:54:51 AM | | I don't understand this either. OR If they reply then they don't ever follow through with talking. If I respond to the woman then I obviously would like to get to know her...I find It's the woman that don't respond back 99% of the time. I tend to wonder who's for real on here anymore.. | |
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