| | What should i do about my ex?Page 3 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | | Everyon in this thread is giving u jacked advice. She's playing around on you , keepin u in her reach in case her first date cancels AND to some ppl 3 months is a comitted relationship. They both agreed so who is anyone in this thread to tell them it's not. Id dump her | |
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| What should i do about my ex? Posted: 5/8/2012 9:08:13 PM |
If I give her space will she come back?
More than likely if you leave POF she will come back. And we'll be sure not to make the same mistakes you did.
I've been in alot of relationships and could tell when the other person was looking for someone else.
Too funny. So you are use to your girlfriends looking for someone else when they are with you. Maybe you should be thinking about what's the problem with you and not the problem with them. That might sound a little harsh, but you might want to give that some thought.
Unless you already know.
I know i messed up | |
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| What should i do about my ex? Posted: 5/9/2012 5:00:22 PM |
I made a fake profile and began speaking to her through it. I put pics up of a fairly attractive guy and spoke with her back and forth for a few days. I messaged her through the fake profile asking her if she was interested in meeting and she said it was a possibility.
Did you message back to your real profile to report what you had learned? | |
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| What should i do about my ex? Posted: 5/9/2012 5:47:11 PM | | If you think your ex is confusing you haven't heard about mine yet and that relationship ended in February. Maybe I'll go into it later. It seems from the sound of it she was just not ready to settle down with one guy yet, and may have just been dating you till she found someone she liked more. It sounds like she was dating behind your back or just needed space but didn't ask for it. Mentioning you were going to go another week without sex was a big mistake. Sex should not be the priority in a relationship. | |
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| What should i do about my ex? Posted: 5/9/2012 8:24:33 PM | | Uhm...do...about...an...ex? Unless you have kids with someone, move on! The end. There's really nothing to do with an ex. | |
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| What should i do about my ex? Posted: 5/9/2012 8:52:38 PM | "I got upset and said I was mad and that I was going to have to go another week without sex. I know i messed up about mentioning sex.I got upset and said I was mad and that I was going to have to go another week without sex. I know i messed up about mentioning sex."
You did. I dumped a 54 year old with this mentality for putting his hard on before everything else. Your creating a fake profile was childish and I cannot blame her for not deleting her profile as her intuition told her that she was dealing with a child. Let this be a lesson to you. | |
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| What should i do about my ex? Posted: 5/9/2012 9:21:00 PM | This all happened within the past 2 weeks. She hadn't logged onto her pof for a month and then all of a sudden she puts new pics up. She did delete it after I made the fake profile. My question is if she didn't give a damn about me why did she delete it?
Ummmmm Maybe she deleted her profile to STOP you from spying on her!? Creating ANOTHER phony profile to suck her in and then claim,"btw it's me, and wtf do you think your doing". Talk about insecure......WOW! How old did you say you were....29-30.....well GROW UP already! This is high school drama! Granted, if it was agreed that BOTH of you were to remove your profiles, then she should have honoured that.....but that gives you NO right to spy on her!
Move on, get rid of the childish drama! | |
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| What should i do about my ex? Posted: 5/10/2012 9:21:26 AM | Um this thread is two years old and OP has left the building. It's just as well OP left the building cause he sounded like a stalker to me! | |
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| What should i do about my ex? Posted: 5/10/2012 9:39:49 AM | The girl was obviously yanking him around. Everything was actually great until the girl lied about her not looking for another relationship. Op acted like an idiot, sure, but she was still lying. She was looking for "the next guy".
Probably related to the fact he must've been acting like a moron, but still... | |
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