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 clem952
Joined: 12/25/2010
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The dudes are probably making phone calls, right?
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 52
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Posted: 1/7/2011 7:28:51 PM
He's in there pep talking himself on not screwing up the date and/or congratulating himself on landing a date. He's also smoothing his hair out and practicing his smile in the mirror.
 m_church
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 53
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Posted: 1/7/2011 8:01:22 PM
I figured it out...!

He's going through the mdecine cabinet...
Men, Long Bathroom Visits...?
Posted: 1/7/2011 8:51:30 PM
Had any unusual calls lately? Maybe they were etching your name and number on the stall door.
 shayla_v
Joined: 11/12/2010
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Posted: 1/8/2011 8:47:06 AM
[Lol. Sorry to hear you have to suffer through that with him. With any luck he'll lose lots of sleep with all those trips to the restroom./]


Thanks, my suffering has come to an end. The blushing bride gets to deal with that and the lying and cheating he will continue to do.
 FunkTheMillenium
Joined: 7/11/2010
Msg: 56
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Posted: 1/8/2011 7:27:57 PM
i've been guilty of taking an extra long bathroom break when been in some first time meetings with someone.
its usually just to get my thoughts together and think of where to take the situation with the person further or how to try and get out of the situation. thats my reasons anyway.
 Helen0426
Joined: 6/2/2009
Msg: 57
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Posted: 1/8/2011 11:49:38 PM
Sorry, wrong subject, nevermind.
 mingo88
Joined: 10/12/2010
Msg: 58
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Posted: 1/9/2011 9:08:14 AM
i was seeing this guy once for about 6 months and he too would take VERY long bathroom breaks. i noticed he was in there for quite a long time but having manners, i never mentioned it to him. i mean do you REALLY want to know what he is doing in there? probably not.
 district
Joined: 1/3/2011
Msg: 59
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Posted: 1/9/2011 7:50:37 PM
Maybe there was a long line. Maybe he saw a friend / acquaintance while heading to or from the men's room. Maybe he was taking a dump etc.
 MrFication
Joined: 5/6/2010
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Posted: 1/9/2011 8:21:47 PM

you're sooo freakin' HOTT they are in the men's room beating their meat thinking of you.


For many guys this SOP. When the woman is extra HOTT, guys will go empty the gun to desensitize it for later. That way after dinner/drinks....it is recharged and they won't PE, but be able to last for a respectable amount of time.
 cinnarose
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 61
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Posted: 7/25/2011 11:11:09 AM
Not to be crude, but some restroom activities take longer than others. It may be that the time they were with you happened to be the time when things normally "kick in" for these guys.
 Greatcatch12345
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 62
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Posted: 7/25/2011 11:45:53 AM
for me..coffee goes right thru me..throw in a drinking nite before..and i;m going like every 15 minutes!! You sound needy and insecure..u cant occupy yourself for a few minutes?/ My god, women i know take forever..my ex...took 1-1/2 hours to blow-dry her hair!! Hence the 'ex. part..LOL...
 Megan06825
Joined: 6/22/2011
Msg: 63
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Posted: 7/25/2011 12:12:12 PM
maybe he is so turned on by you & ready to explode, so he has to "relieve himself" multiple times?
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 64
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Posted: 7/25/2011 12:15:40 PM
LOL Megan,
Maybe the dude had to beat off to get you off his mind OP, Who knows why don't you ask him why.

A foolish thread this is. Shit if I need to use the bathroom I do my business and get out. Damn
 sportsgirl7700
Joined: 5/22/2009
Msg: 65
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Posted: 7/27/2011 7:02:32 AM
I have to agree with Helen. In my opinion, it's drugs unless they both had to take a dump...could be IBS. I think it's drugs most likely.
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 66
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Posted: 7/27/2011 7:58:58 AM
checking his mobile to see if the grass is greener has called, texted, emailed, voice mailed.
we are not the ones with couches in the restroom - it should be an in and out event. If they linger - they are plotting their escape, calling for back up, seeing if there is another fish on the line.
.... though in some neighborhoods in Seattle, maybe he is hoping both sides of the fence, and you lost out to Bruce, Steve or Davie
 cenomeno
Joined: 4/21/2010
Msg: 67
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Posted: 7/27/2011 8:14:49 AM
all that ..... or......

taking a glorious d..p while listening to Barry White collection on ipod... I mean this one certainly makes more sense to me than a junkie looking for a fix or furiously masturbating to OP ... or hell! texting, faxing - finishing that ITS report for work...

let the poor guys do their bizniz in peace ... jeez
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 68
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Posted: 7/27/2011 9:30:06 AM
does he have white powder up his nostrils, and/or are they red & inflamed when he comes back and does hetalkreallyreallyfastandjumbled?
 Janet_Always
Joined: 12/7/2010
Msg: 69
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Posted: 7/27/2011 11:01:11 AM
There was another thread started a few days ago by a guy with IBS who was afraid of dating someone and having it "kick in" at an inopportune moment... maybe that's it for the OP's date also. Nerves can set off an episode and first dates can sure make some people anxious.
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 12/9/2009
Msg: 70
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Posted: 7/27/2011 11:07:58 AM
It could be that the guy is a forum junkie and he slipped into the bathroom to check on the latest posts.
 RichenLosAngeles
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 71
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Posted: 7/27/2011 1:00:09 PM
When men get to a certain age, taking a leak becomes more like watching a dribble, and it does take longer.
 jblack187
Joined: 8/28/2010
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Posted: 7/27/2011 1:25:01 PM
I didn't read through 3 pages of replies to see if it's been said already, but if it hasn't...shame on you all!

Perhaps these guys are just taking a dump? Sometimes it takes us quite a while. Granted, I don't like to poop in a public restroom but if I absolutely have to, I try to get it over with as quick as possible. But still, "as quick as possible" is like 5 minutes or something which would probably seem like a really long time if someone though I just went to pee.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
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Posted: 7/27/2011 2:28:37 PM
Maybe the guy is multitasking by dating two girls at the same time or he accidentally arranged two dates at the same time. When he excuses himself from your table. he runs over to the place where the other girl is, stays there for a while, then says he has to go to the bathroom and goes running back to your table for a while, etc.
 scottey63
Joined: 3/8/2008
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Posted: 7/27/2011 2:57:05 PM
Sometimes we just need a few moments of solitary peace and quiet.
 JWS1974
Joined: 5/17/2010
Msg: 75
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Posted: 7/27/2011 3:15:02 PM
Yeah, it can be all kinds of things. Texting, prostate issues, the need to be alone for a moment, looking at the game on the bar TV, sneaking outside to have a smoke, taking care of a business call, baking a loaf, there are all sorts of possibilities.
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