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WHOA...
Now we're adding relationship seeking as a further variable in this discussion. The question was about getting laid.....sex only.
"We" aren't doing anything. "I" was responding to a poster who made a comment about something. The main topic is still what it is.
Now...the guy is just looking for sex. The gal is looking for a relationship. The guy is putting in extra effort...pulling out all the stops including intimations that he is looking for a relationship.
Does she want to get laid too? Just trying to keep up
How should I know? I'm sure she would under certain circumstances. If they sleep together - then yes, he got what he wanted, if that's what you're asking. Did she? Does that matter if he attains the goal to get laid? Only she knows that. | |
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majyk1
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 8:54:53 AM | I'm going to have to agree with all those that used the 'number system'.
Over all the answer is YES. We'd just have to lower our standards for a few
minutes...Oh I mean hours. lol
There's always a nickle looking for a dime somewhere! | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 9:11:39 AM |
How should I know?
Because it was the subject of the thread that she wanted to.
I'm sure she would under certain circumstances. If they sleep together - then yes, he got what he wanted, if that's what you're asking. Did she? Does that matter if he attains the goal to get laid? Only she knows that.
I'm really not sure where to go with this one. If THEY sleep together...then the guy got what he wants...and only what he wanted...and for the gal...only she knows what her intent was?
This insinuates that men use manipulations to gain sex...and women us sex to gain manipulations...as a rule. Very risky...especially given the history of these forums.
The whole premise of this entire thread is that the women JUST wants to get laid. And can she whenever she wants to.
This thread has somehow spun this simple question in obscure circles with unending bifurcations. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 9:47:22 AM |
I'm really not sure where to go with this one. If THEY sleep together...then the guy got what he wants...and only what he wanted...and for the gal...only she knows what her intent was?
This insinuates that men use manipulations to gain sex...and women us sex to gain manipulations...as a rule. Very risky...especially given the history of these forums.
The whole premise of this entire thread is that the women JUST wants to get laid. And can she whenever she wants to.
This thread has somehow spun this simple question in obscure circles with unending bifurcations.
Again, this all stems from my response to a post that was an aside to the actual topic. So in that context, if she only wanted sex and no relationship, then naturally the score would be 1-1. Sure, to some extent women don't tend to seek out sex for the sake of it and if they did they'd get laid more. However just because it's easier for a woman to have sex it doesn't mean men aren't capable of or unable to do the same. Many men for instance don't want to pay for sex as they feel it's impersonal. If sex is the goal who cares how personal it is? Many won't sleep with any girl who'll have them. Because men don't want to do this doesn't mean they don't have the option.
I do feel that more men could have sex but don't, and less women can find sex on demand than men believe, but overall if someone wants sex and within legal boundaries makes the effort required if there is one to have sex with another person, then they can in fact achieve it. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 10:11:52 AM |
A guy is subject to the female veto power.
Since most of the time men make the first move. There in lies the veto power. She is too fat. She is too skinny. She is plain. She is old. She is black. She is ________ (fill in the blank for whatever reason you will not approach a woman). Then YOU have vetoed that woman's yes. And she just may have said yes. So if you guys wanted to get laid. Start with the 2's at 10 o clock rather than being with rejected by the 10 until nothing is left but the 2. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 10:17:33 AM | http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/37710334/ns/health-diet_and_nutrition/
Pretty much kills that theory of women having an easier time of getting laid then men. NEXT. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 10:25:57 AM | | Yes, we can. But, some of us do not want to. Getting laid is not what I call satisfying. Not unless it is from a man I am in an exclusive relationship with. I laugh but also get disgusted when I DO go out, how many men basically ask if they can dew me. I am sure a lot of it has to do with many women who are "easy". I could never have sex with "whomever". All I know is when men confront me on this, I feel so much better walking away from it. I never want to be that girl taking antibiotics over just banging some guy because I can. Being picky is priceless. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 10:55:13 AM |
(waywardwynde) But, you see, most everyone (man or woman) wants someone better looking -- on a 0 to 10 scale -- than they are. A 3 wants a 5, who wants a 7, who wants a 9, who wants a 10 ... and precious few 10's exist. *IF* a 5 would take a 3, s/he'd get laid. But, noooooooo .....
When a 5 guy tells a 7 woman that "she can get laid anytime she wants" he means HE would lay her anytime she wants. When a 7 guy tells a 3 women "she can get laid anytime she wants", he MEANS some 5 (but not him) guy SHOULD be available to her BECAUSE no 7+ woman wants a 5 or less guy.
Your system breaks down in the higher ranges. What happens to a 9? A 10? Who do THEY go after? Or, do they turn into fruit, like this:
People want the fruit on the tree which is higher than they themselves are on the tree. If people are willing to pick the fruit at waist to knee level, they get a grateful piece of fruit.
This is very confusing...
Arlo...  | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 11:08:21 AM |
(revilors) This insinuates that men use manipulations to gain sex...
Not to put myself into the "Slam Guys in the Hopes of Scoring!" camp, but...
GEE, YA THINK?!?
Arlo...  | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 11:17:39 AM | Plus one of most males double standards is the a guy can have sex with 10 women and be a hero but if a woman sleeps with 10 men she is a slut. That is common knowledge by most men and women. Sad but true. So keeping that double standard in mind that could be another reason women don't "sleep around" because when they are ready for a s/o they don't want that "skeleton in the closet" Just a thought
This is true, too, in some cases. However, not the case for me. If I want to sleep around, then I'll sleep around. Double standard or not, and what woman would follow that double standard? This is 2011.
Ladies, do you know how powerful you really are?
What kind of power is that? Men aren't the only one's that have to prove themselves to the opposite sex. Women have to work to improve our chances as well. There is no red carpet laid out for us, and many us don't have the opposite sex eating out of the palm of our hands. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 11:25:35 AM |
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/37710334/ns/health-diet_and_nutrition/
Pretty much kills that theory of women having an easier time of getting laid then men. NEXT.
This article has no bearing on the subject of this thread. Unless I can't read...it didn't ask if obese women could get laid whenever they wanted. It didn't ask if obese women had a harder time getting laid than skinny women.
It only states that...in Europe...obese woman have a more difficult time than obese men. And...in Europe...woman seem to tolerate the extra weight than men.
and less women can find sex on demand than men believe
Perhaps for some men. At least those that believe the subject of this thread. I really don't believe men (at least this one) believes that (all) women get laid whenever they want. Statements like that aren't intended to be taken literally.
It's called a hyperbole.
"I'm so tired...I could sleep for a year". "No you couldn't...you'd starve to death or get septic shock from bed sores and die."
"I'm so hungry...I could eat a horse". "No you couldn't...given your relative body mass and gastric capacity...it's impossible.
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 11:48:29 AM | Many of the statements here are operating from the premise that woman want sex in the same way/manner/frequency/etc as men.
For example... the earlier statement that given the same level of attractiveness... the woman in a social setting has the advantage. (At getting sex on demand.. I guess)
OK... that is assuming that women would want sex in that same manner as men.
Let's change the sentence....
Given the same level of attractiveness... the man in a social setting has the advantage. (At getting a relationship started).
Simple...
I want a man who is offering respect, consideration, a commitment ..... not causal sex.
If he is offering casual sex... not commitment, consideration, respect.
then each could be perceived by the other as having the advantage.
Men are just a lot more willing to leap into bed without looking first. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 12:08:44 PM |
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/37710334/ns/health-diet_and_nutrition/
Pretty much kills that theory of women having an easier time of getting laid then men. NEXT.
the headline on this story misrepresents the findings of the study.
the study made no comparison of the success rates of men vs. women in finding a sexual partner. it only made comparisons within genders: fat women have less success than women who aren't fat. fat men have the same success as men who aren't fat. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 12:18:14 PM | ^^So maybe that means fat women can't get laid whenever they want.
I agree with DallasSBF. Generally, women wait until they're approached - therefore, it's men who make the first move. They're the ones making the initial decision. It's up to the women to say yes or no. But if no one's making the moves, the women aren't getting any action.
However, I'm sure sexually aggressive women (as in those who make the first move) get rejected at times.
And women in relationships get sexually rejected as well. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 12:21:53 PM |
Many of the statements here are operating from the premise that woman want sex in the same way/manner/frequency/etc as men.
For example... the earlier statement that given the same level of attractiveness... the woman in a social setting has the advantage. (At getting sex on demand.. I guess)
Well...now...getting sex on demand or getting laid whenever they want are pretty much the same thing...and the subject of this thread. "I guess"
Let's change the sentence....
Given the same level of attractiveness... the man in a social setting has the advantage. (At getting a relationship started).
How 'bout we don't hijack this thread...do a thread search...and start a new one...instead.
Men are just a lot more willing to leap into bed without looking first.
Again...we're not talking about willingness here. We're talking about ability.
I want a man who is offering respect, consideration, a commitment ..... not causal sex.
Then..."I guess" you won't be having casual sex. That's all fine and good...in my book. Unless to start a thread complaining that you can't get laid. You're not willing to JUST get laid.
"I guess"...if I'm not willing to have sex at all...I won't be having sex at all barring some kind of felony. If I'm not willing to have casual sex...then I won't be having casual sex. If I'm not willing to have sex on Tuesdays...there will be no sex on Tuesdays.
I could do this all day...as long as we keep changing the rules as we go. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 12:24:32 PM | .. yup, a guy can get laid any time he's willing to lay out $100-$200-$300 + for a hooker, once. A number of men have argued/complained that they've spent that much getting to know a woman they want to date without seeing sex once
Yup, boneheads abound....
... I'm willing to split a bottle of $8 plonk....
I also know some men that get offers for it - and oddly enough don't entertain those offers because those women aren't what they want.
I know quite a few guys who can get laid with relatively little effort as well. These guys just have great game and they don't have to work too hard at it....
... and, like most women, because sex is readily available, it has less value/importance in their lives than for someone who has to expend a considerable amount of energy/resources to get it.
It's basic economics, really.
Edit to m_church:
Absolutely... that's a big part of it. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 12:28:08 PM |
I know quite a few guys who can get laid with relatively little effort as well. These guys just have great game and they don't have to work too hard at it....
... and, like most women, because sex is readily available, it has less value/importance in their lives than for someone who has to expend a considerable amount of energy/resources to get it.
And oddly, the less effort they put into getting it, the easier it is to get... They don't have the scent of desperation or of being too focussed on it... | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 12:30:02 PM |
Ladies, do you know how powerful you really are?
I never understood the power that a woman has in sex until I left my ex-husband. Men have asked my about my "Chesire cat" smile during the act; it is there because I DO realize the power of women.
Here's a scientific study: Put 50 guys and 50 women in a room....I'd be willing to wager there would be many, many more guys willing than the women.
So what are the variables? Is this an afternoon tea? Are they there just to find a sex partner? Are they of equal good looks?
(late teenage, early twenties joke)
Q. How is a Mo-Ped like a fat chick?
A. Lot's of fun to ride, but no one wants his buddies to find out about it.
This is not even a thinly veiled insult to women.
By the way, I am fat, and I have never had a man try to hide the fact that he engages in sex with me.
Passing this off as a sophomoric joke doesn't hide the fact that you buy into this. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 12:33:17 PM | | Yes, but not always with the guy she wants to have sex with, I was stalked by a woman with whom i could never get turned on with in a million years. Doesn't mean no other guy would like her though. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 5:25:29 PM | I am thinking of trying a 2 bagger, one for my head and one for his.Where there is a will, there is a way.
Hmm I guess like everyone says, if you are not picky and stay in your league or go lower, you will get laid. | |
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| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/8/2011 8:39:20 PM |
did someone come in here and clean out a bunch of posts?
Yeah, a while ago it was a locked thread and lot of the posts where people were bashing others were cleaned out... not sure if anyone got sent to 'banned' camp.... LOL
Overdue in my opinion... There's a few other threads need a pressure washing... | |
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Fifi47
| | Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 75 | |
| Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 1/9/2011 6:11:18 AM | | As a fat woman, my experiences have been that about 50 percent of the men I have met made it obvious that they wanted to have sex with me. This might be a smaller percentage than what the average is for thin women , I do not know. Some women never date men who would imply anything sexual when they first meet them. Might be a lot of variables in this question. | |
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