| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/3/2004 10:03:53 AM | | I think mysticalman has a point. But I wouldn't assume it's something you've done kissme, except perhaps you are attracted to jock football types, and then obviously you're gonna be dissapointed. What kind of men do you date? | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/3/2004 12:20:33 PM | | I will admit i was attracted to the brawly...somewhat controlling guys...and apparently i wasnt everything they wanted...as for the sex thing...when i am in love with someone...there is no other...and I cant get enough sex...and Im good at it to d*mnit!Anyways Im sure I had something to do with it but I definatly dont think there is any reason to cheat...If thats where you want it to go then break up first..thats all | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/3/2004 1:00:16 PM | WOW Kissme, I am sooooooooooo sorry...Ouch...
Hey I know how it goes, been there and been cheated on, hurt, and used...But life moves on, you can do one of two things, let it eat at you, and make you cold and afraid to love, Or you can live life, and love and hope that you recieve that love in return...I think you will find that NOT ALL men are scum...Yes most happen to LOVE woemn in general that meaning that they are not opposed to finding something on the side, or giving into temptation, or hell just down right being cheating pond scum...
I was very bitter, very bitter...I got over it...I was [still am] terrified of getting into another relationship with a man who ultimately would cheat on me, or find something better...Seems to me that that is what happens most of the time, "Oh hunny I wasnt looking for anything, it just happened" Yeah whatever......No really I am likely not one to give the best advice, I am not in a seriously committed relationship, havent been in one for way too long [over 5yrs to be exact.] The thing I have now, "friends with benifits" works for now....
I will tell you this, from looking at your picture, YOU are way HOT, and he would seriously have to be mentally challenged to cheat on you...The other guys you had hun, were seriously not worht the time and energy you put in on them....Dont just assume this guy is like them, give him your TRUST, and hope that he does not let you down.....Remember NOT ALL MEN ARE ALIKE.....He may be one of the good gut's that you hear about in fairy tales...
I wish you the best....Dont give up on this one... | |
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Loukus
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Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 29 | |
| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/3/2004 1:21:17 PM | *sigh*
You can lead a horse away from poison water.... | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/3/2004 1:27:38 PM | thanks sumting....I really needed to hear that...thank you so much...and Im so not giving up on this guy..Hes so amazing...he makes me feel so worthy.And I think this could turn out to be the most amazing thing ever to happen to me...thanks again.Zman you are amazing baby...hope I dont dissappoint..muahhhhhhhhh
p.s. thanks for all the advise..but i think ill go with sumtings and run with it! | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/3/2004 1:40:07 PM | | Good call Kissme4... good ta hear ya found your pot of gold!!! | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/3/2004 8:58:30 PM | Kissme4ever,
I'm happy for you that you found someone you feel you can trust and lets hope that it works out for you. No one deserves to be cheated on no matter what. If a person isn't happy they can always move onwards, it's better to say the heck with you than hurt your feelings even worse by running around on you and there's an old saying that goes with all this. Once a run-around, always a run-around, so perhaps it all worked out for the best. If it's any condolence for you, women run around on their men too, so it's a two way street. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 10:59:44 AM | | oops how did i get here.....someone let me out! | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 11:07:02 AM | | ....Oops....I followed you into this room too ... I was looking for the Alcoholics Annonomous Room :) | |
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Loukus
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Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 35 | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 11:57:27 AM | I AM A MAN
I DO NOT CHEAT AND WILL NOT CHEAT.
HAD IT DONE TO ME AND IT HURTS LIKE HELL
I CAN NOT DO THAT TO ANOTHER HUMAN BEING | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 11:58:21 AM | BY THE WAY
REVAN IS RIGHT
WOMEN DO NOT LIKE GOOD MEN | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 1:20:25 PM | I like good men...just cant seen to find one that likes me! | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 3:26:33 PM | a wounded heart is better then a heart that has never loved. the wounded heart dosent take things for granted and apeciates love. a wounded heart has many scars but has truly loved as for the heart that has never been broken i doubt knows what love is.
even thought it is hard try to keep your mind off the cheating person.. if your fixated on that you might push them away from you.. your best to keep in mind that whom ever your with is just tempoary.. that way you will be more at ease and enjoy the time you spend with them. | |
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hemi13
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Joined: 10/27/2004
Msg: 41 | |
| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 4:31:54 PM | | Believe it or not I did some research on this for a college paper I did years ago and it's been suggested that humans were never intended to be monogamous. We all know humans are animals (men in this case) and our purpose is to spread our seed to as many woman as possible. I was surprised as hell when I did this research, but it's more of a theory than fact. Just thought I would share. | |
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Loukus
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Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 43 | |
| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 5:46:39 PM |
a wounded heart is better then a heart that has never loved. the wounded heart dosent take things for granted and apeciates love. a wounded heart has many scars but has truly loved as for the heart that has never been broken i doubt knows what love is.
So I'm told. Im still deciding. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 7:52:56 PM | Wow that sucks. Life goes on...and so do you! Good luck!
~Kristy | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 8:44:21 PM | sometimes i think its people nature to cheatttttt such a naughty word it nature we all want to try new lifes adventures thats from laying together in bed or sex it deosnt matter but cheating is such a nasty word i guess that what it is i never (**cheated on my ex ) i dont know why he was never home but i didnt im proud of my self | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 9:20:44 PM | tuesday30
I may have yet another reason why men and women cheat on each other. The husband goes to work each day, the wife is at home. He see's all these women, some in shorter skirts than short, some in pants so tight you can see their g-strings and when he gets home from the office there is his wife, dressed just as he left her, her hair in curlers, wearing baggy clothes that don't show off her body as it once did and he thinks to himself the next day at work, wow, these women really have it togehter.
The same thing can be said for women. There was a time when their husbands used to dress at least clean with their pants around their waste, not down on their asses as the style seems to be these days. They too get fed up with him looking like a bum and she starts to notice the guys where she works and or the last thing is that the two people have forgotten how to communicate, they've lost that loving feeling and don't know what to do about it, so they cheat on on another. Sad isn't it? | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 9:23:09 PM | I'm sorry but if you go to work and think that, then you aren't in love anyway and you shouldn't be with that person anymore. IF you don't find the person you are with attractive in what they have on then its not meant to be. I think a guy can't look any better than a pair of sweats and a t-shirt, but thats me. I find that attractive. If they can look good in that then they can look good in anything. I am a sweats and t-shirt person myself, but the g-string is good too haha!
~Kristy | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 9:36:44 PM | | Wow! You said it there...I do believe this one. Most of the "good" men are Soooo not attractive to me. There have only been a couple that I was attracted to. And because they were hot, it didnt work...go figure... | |
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Loukus
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Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 49 | |
| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/4/2004 9:37:29 PM |
I think a guy can't look any better than a pair of sweats and a t-shirt, but thats me.
o.0 Maybe no one has dazzled you with the alternative.
Either way, that is a pretty poor excuse (not that there are any good ones for cheating...), and it's inherently solvable with good communication.
Of course, that's the trick.
Or so I'm told. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 11/5/2004 8:15:07 AM | | Guys are not the only ones that cheat. I feel people do this because they are "lacking" something in there current situation. It may be sex or it may be attention. Or some may just do it because they want to see if they "still have it". But everyone makes mistakes and they only thing you can do if you are in so called "love" is forgive them and move on. And dont keep bring it up. Because if you do it will not last very long... | |
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