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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/4/2005 1:42:07 AM | | im never ever cheat with myloved guys bt he's cheating me a lot.badly!!! | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/4/2005 7:52:25 AM | | i think guys basically cheat because they need a change at least that was what i was told the first time my ex cheated on me ....with my best friend!!!i mean come on did he really think i wouldn't find out...and another good reason they have is because they were "HARD UP" like wtf anyway i belive that there is somone out there who won't cheat on me it just might take sometime to find em.. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/4/2005 8:34:40 AM | Excellent response Loukus!
Many of my clients (male and female) used ask me the same question about the other gender. When you get past the "popular beliefs", it seems that these people do not value their commitment to the offended party. Nothing that you can do will change that, until you start looking for the type of person who is "rock solid" in basic values of duty, honor, and fidelity. Sadly, our Western civilization makes dishonor an illness rather than a lack of character.
When a thing keeps happening to one, one must look for the error in themselves that causes them to keep having the same problem. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/4/2005 9:06:42 AM | | Women flirt and cheat far more than men. I have a woman friend that has****pix on her computer. Where do you draw the line and label these people white trash? My jury is out and waiting to enter the courtroom with the verdict. Catch you later. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/4/2005 9:37:13 AM | Yea i understand where your coming from...because, I too, have been burned plenty of times. But as for your case...i never really understand why Men cheat. I dont! lol, but i just think its that mentality saying that if he got you, then he can get someone else. I think sometimes men get a lil greedy at times because your either not giving it up easy or often or just want something different. I know it sounds bad, but its reality and sometimes the truth hurts.
I know many women asked theirselves the question "What does she got that i dont have"? Money, popularity, fame, etc...never know it could be something simple as in she has a nice butt...People are all different when it comes to relationships...Just be careful and watch out for those Types that like to flirt alot or hang out alot when your tryin to talk to him.
Any other questions....feel free to IM me...jus check the profyle....later | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/4/2005 9:49:54 AM | not all men cheat
I was married for along time and slept on the couch for as long as 13 months at a time
and i never cheated
but now at 38
I am also mature enough to say that If i am with a woman and she says she cares about me
I am not going to go without my needs being met
I wont cheat on her I would just not stay with her
period
but i am single alone and old and ugly
so thats not going to happen anyways
lol | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/4/2005 10:12:20 AM | The power of sex is so strong that men want sex, not love, in which sex is only one factor.
To get love, both people have to understand what it is and how to behave in a loving relationship. The most important is communication which is a must. Without it, love is not possible but with it, when you have it, you are already at the start for a love relationship.
Read a book on manners and check out communication.
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/4/2005 10:15:10 AM | The answer "Because I can" is a cute phrase, but simply untrue. Men and women who honor their relationships don't cheat despite the possibility that they can.
"Because I can", implies that anyone who can will. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/6/2005 6:55:19 AM | I never have, and probably never will.
I can't imagine doing that with someone I love. If I don't love her, then I walk first. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/18/2005 7:32:02 AM | Megan your amazing, the right man will come along and devote himself to you and you alone.
Any man in his right mind would be a complete idiot to cheat on you.
Your a beautiful and seemingly very smart women, I would imagine you will be just fine when you fine "that guy".
take care | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/18/2005 4:29:55 PM | | We are not monogamous by nature. For some men promiscuity keeps us "connected" with our youth. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/18/2005 4:42:25 PM | | Hey Kissme4Ever. I think it's the boys and girls that do the cheating. mature men and women know the difference between right and wrong. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/19/2005 8:53:49 AM | | I been burned twice also. But I think men cheat because they want their icecream and cake. They also think they miss out on something. I had a man said a woman hurt him so bad that he did alot of strange things because he love her. but he can't see because he's doing the same thing she did to him that he is doing to me. He broke my heart and don't think nothing of it. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/21/2005 8:52:39 AM | Why do women cheat. I don't know how anyone can cheat. I was cheated on in my first relationship and I could never give that feeling to my worse enemy. Why do women and men cheat, because they don't care about the other person there with and they lack communication skills. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/21/2005 4:42:42 PM | Women cheat way more than men. Also, it is alot easier for a woman to cheat than a man.
Everytimw a man cheat and gets busted, all hell breaks loose. The fight and agruments never stops till someone leaves. Yet, when a woman cheat, is like an honest mistake, I didn't know what I was doing bluh blah blah..... We men are stupid, we forgive them. But remeber, when a man cheats a woman would not forgive him and she will take revange. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/25/2005 4:12:48 AM | | I guess men cheat coz they have the chances and there are still so many heartless women out there who dont care about how you feel. and you can never change men, they are like that, when he already cheated on you once, he will do it again and again coz he knows you always there to forgive him. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/25/2005 5:23:12 AM | MEN DON'T CHEAT BECAUSE OF THE WAY A WOMANS LOOK, MEN CHEAT BECAUSE OF THE WAY THE WOMAN MAKES THEM FEEL.
SOMETIMES I FEEL THAT THE ONLY HEAD MEN HAVE GOT IS BETWEEN THEIR LEGS.
OUCH.
SORRY MEN, BUT MOST OF U R LIKE THAT-OR AT LEAST- GIVE THAT IMPRESSION. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/28/2005 8:28:57 PM | | if they cheat, they don't love you. it's as simple as that. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/28/2005 9:14:26 PM | i agree i think people cheat cause they get bored w/what the have and we all have that curious side to us, we just don't always think before we jump | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/28/2005 9:18:46 PM | | i agree i have done the cheating thing myself and wanted to get caught cause i didn't know of any other way to get out but to look like a bad person ...i was young...DOE STHAT COUNT?LOL | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 4/29/2005 6:38:02 AM | I don't think there is a specific reason why men cheat. It's all biological. It is in men to procreate and to procreate with every woman on the planet. It's a natural instinct for them. Now this is by no means an excuse for you guys to be cheating. I mean we are not animals in the wild... even though it is documented that species of animals do have mates for life.
I do know it hurts to be cheated on and it is highly unacceptable. You are either in a relationship or you aren't. Treat others as you expect to be treated!!!! | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 8/17/2005 4:15:42 AM | I have read all of your responses and I still am so confused by this issue! I know of a situation where the guy lived 2 lives. 1 as a loving husband ( as the woman thought) and 1 as MR STUDMASTER !!!!!!!!!! I do believe that some men JUST CANNOT KEEP IT IN THEIR PANTS FOR ANY REASON !!!!!!!!!! I think that this person has serious mental problems cause I know for a fact that he now lives with another woman other than his wife because of the divorce-- he never lived alone to get his own head sorted out and is still cheating on the live-in !!! Talk about no scrupples !!!!
Well guys it's not KOOL to do this sort of thing to any woman for any reason !! Stop being such dog ****ers and sit down think it thru and start to live like a human being with some self respect and you definitely will find some happiness in life other than a great CLIMAX !!!!!!! There is a lot more to life than just SEX !!!! I enjoy sex very much and this guy also said to his wife's face that she was a great wife and that they were great in bed together !!!!! So it was not her problem IT WAS HIS AND STILL IS !!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 8/17/2005 4:18:08 AM | not just men are cheaters.
some women are good at that too. some make a good living at that. | |
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| Why do men cheat?
Posted: 8/17/2005 4:34:08 AM | Discovery health channel had a big thing on cheating.
From what I got from it, men do it instinctively to spread out their genes.
While women do it instinctively to find a partner that can help raise her genes.
But I'm not buying all into that because then people will use that as an excuse into why they did it.
I mean hey, just like animals some animals mate and go onto the next set of animals in their species the next mating season. While other animals pick a mate and keep that mate for life and reproduce with the same mate they picked the first time and never go onto a diff one.
In the end it's all a matter of choice for human beings.
I never cheated on anyone. Personally that is the only way to go because if you have kids and you help raise those kids with the same mother then their odds or at becoming successful in life are much greater then the ones that don't stick around for their children.
So basically it all boils down to quantity vs. structure. | |
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