| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/17/2005 6:50:10 AM | | I believe it's about integrity and character. | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/17/2005 3:55:44 PM | This is funny (as in peculiar not humorous). In almost every failed marriage I know of it was the WOMAN who was cheating first. Its funny because when my best friend would go to marriage counseling with his soon to be ex-wife she would rag on him about all of his flaws and so would the marriage counselor. All the while she was screwing at least half a dozen different guys and even hit on me (just to try to hurt him).
I really get tired of hearing how men are unfaithful dogs. Its pretty much the same on both sides. The different sexes just use different tactics and women are simply better at hiding thier affairs. That is my experience anyway.
I am sure there are examples where it was the guy and I'm not arguing that. I just think its pretty much the same on both sides, just different behaviors to get the same objectives. | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/17/2005 4:08:13 PM | If you are a man and have to another man why we have to cheat, you're not smart enough to get into a relationship! Men don't have to cheat, some choose to, by making up there own damn mind. Damn. Man. I'm not going to answer a question like that for you! If you were a female asking why do men cheat I would help. But this is whack! | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/17/2005 4:10:34 PM | | I can't say why Women cheat, as that is not of my character. However I can tell you that you should leave her. If she is your fiance and cheating on you now certainly down the road before and after the marriage she will continue to hurt you this way. Why put yourself through this? You said you can't see yourself without her and you have been friends since 1st grade. You are probably just "comfortable" and used to her abuse by now. Marriage and Divorce are very expensive. I say get out before you spend thousands of dollars on a wedding then thousands on a divorce and maybe even child support by then. Good luck to you. | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/17/2005 4:13:41 PM | | WRONG! Women do like Good Men.. We just like the ones who LOOK LIKE bad boys! | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/17/2005 4:17:59 PM | Wow, I didn't realize, the author was a woman....Ha ha ha,. I'm lucky she's not still around. | |
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| They cheat for this reason? Posted: 8/17/2005 4:55:04 PM | Hey
Man cheat becuase they are lose in the head. My advise is to you is follow your heart & mind, and show him who u are inside & that he makes u complete, without him you fall apart. Hang around with him, do stuff with him, & keep telling him that he is great & makes u feel great also.
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/17/2005 7:56:11 PM | | This quote might sound a little crude. I heard it on public television, but it made sense to me "Keep his balls empty and his belly full, and he's yours forever." | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 12:37:18 PM | | Easy, Physical desire ! plain and simple | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 1:14:36 PM | Hey I feel you badly. I know I had the exact thing happen to me but with the soame guy and belive me I know how you feel. He cheted on me with my best friend. well almost the same. The only reason why they cheat on women is because all they want is there cake and icecream at the same time. I think you know what I mean by that right. Many people have told me that so. It just poped out.  | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 1:16:51 PM | | Its usually the jealous partner in the relationship that cheats first. | |
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| They cheat for this reason? Posted: 8/18/2005 1:20:56 PM | Eric I that is good advice but some times that just dont work you know.I am sorry to be rude but if a guys cheats on a women eather they want to be with more than one women or just wants to have their cake and icecream and I am not just saying for the men but some women do to. I have tryed that many times to me I think it is stupid in my words, sorry for being ruds. I really dont mean to be mean.  | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 1:23:26 PM | I don't understand why some men cheat on you, I was with this guy and thought that he was the right one. Boy was I wrong I come home from work one day and found him with my sister and you want to see someone so pissed..............I WAS AND I DON'T TALK TO MY SISTER ANYMORE..........AND I LEFT THE GUY THAT DID THIS TO ME. I tend to fall in love to fast and but I have learned a few things are so. Just watch the person your with if he seems to flirt with the same person all the time are makes excuse why you can't go with him.........then he is diffently not the one for you..........You have to watch the signs. | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 1:29:52 PM | | Definitely true! I went out with this one guy and heflirted with me alot and we helled eath other and stuff like that. well after three days he stops calling me. the secound he did not called. I called hos cell first and then I tried his house phone and a woman awsners the phone. I hunged up[ right away. I could not bare it. | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 1:40:45 PM | oh you want to know why because all they want is sex from another person because eather
1) they think the person they are with is not good enough 2) they think that oh i will never get caute 3) they think that all women want him and only him
just remember these are only in my words from my experances  | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 1:48:17 PM | | ^^Not bad, but, if they don't have any problems with their love life, they are still going to cheat. They usually cheat because of the fact that other men do too. In the other words, they do compete with eachother! | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 1:52:21 PM | I feel bad for you. There seems to be alot of this going on. I too have found my best friends in bed with my boyfriend. I have been cheated on many times. It sucks. I have even felt like getting even a few times but did not.
As far as should you leave her, you don't have a choice! She will continue with this behaviour. Once a cheater, always, a cheater. Because of the fact that you have taken her back before, she is of the opinion that no matter what she does you will take her back. She has to learn her lesson. You deserve better and must get better.
If she is depressed, she should be talking to you, the one who loves her not just anyone, especially if she has a history of cheating during her depression. Nice excuse!!
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 1:59:36 PM | | well,,,,, men cheat cause they are sexually bored to death.......its about boredom an lack of passion really! | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 2:01:18 PM | | What excuse is their ? my so called best friend that I have known for 7 years had sex with my boyfriend. She always taks to me about her problem and the thing is that she comes to me about guys and she had been with more guys than i have ever been in my life. Sad part of it that she is younger than me and even before she turned 18 years of age. | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 4:08:20 PM | | after the first time you should have caught the clue and left her kind of your own fault coming back for more two more times | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 5:23:52 PM | | why do men cheat? they don't think about it....it's roots go all the way back to the caveman days to populate the planet. watch the movie "quest for fire". should help you understand men a bit more.lol. | |
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| Why do men cheat? Posted: 8/18/2005 5:38:53 PM | | hear hear mate you 100% right what you say most woman want to find the perfect man then look what happens to them when there do woman are to fussy | |
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