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|YOOO same happend to me bro, well not exactly the same, we went out for 2 years, last time i see her she says i love u and i say i love her, then a week i dont recieve anything from her. then she tells me she sond someone new ..****es are absolutely so fcking crazy sometimes|
Posted: 6/28/2012 11:51:59 AM
|Vanish with no explanation? Dude, there were plenty of signs. Sounds like you just didn't get it.|
Posted: 6/28/2012 4:37:13 PM
Eventually (after 6 weeks, which is probably too patient given all my close friends said I should dump her for this) I asked what was going on and got the reply I am just really busy
So this person in my opinion is a coward... I think we all get tired of having to be a mind reader.. She has no honor or integrity... Is that what you want? I have experienced this too... It's either that or like some men .. They are keeping their options open. I suppose in some ways no one really "owes" someone an explanation, however if they are that heartless now.. How would they be later? I agree with others... Karma will bite sooner or later...
Posted: 7/21/2012 6:21:51 PM
|This happened to me as this man that I dated vanished. I wrote to him via email, texted him and called him. He told me that I am bothering him. I know he has issues with his exgf that he lived with her for 3 years. I wanted closure and wanted to move on. I think because he wasn't sure about himself or has dealt with the issues of the breakup with the exgf then he couldn't continue. After I texted him and told him that I am moving on then he got mad at me. If men or women can't deal with their issues then they shouldn't even date until they resolve the issues. Why bother playing games and making someone care for you? Will it make them feel wanted and feel a bit better that their ex dumped them? That's why there's no dating happening here or other dating sites. We all want to be accepted, respected and loved but give 100%. If you can't give 100% then deal with your issues with a therapist.|
Posted: 7/25/2012 6:40:00 PM
|...ah the cowardly disappearing act... ya gotta love the cowards who hurt people then slink away so they dont have to take any responsibility for the hurt that they have caused others... i am sorry that you met up with such a coward...|
Posted: 7/30/2012 12:57:03 PM
|She probably just got dumped by the dude she left you for. Don't take her back she's just using you till she finds something else. Guaranteed|
Posted: 8/2/2012 10:59:28 PM
|Depends on how you want her to look at you.... Right now, since you haven't contacted her, it looks like you weren't hurt by her disappearing. But if you want her to know how she hurt you, then by all means call her up and ask what happened?? Ball in your court!! :)|
Posted: 8/3/2012 2:35:34 AM
|I had this done to me last year mate and you know what i did?? Moved the f**k on because i let karma get her because karma is a b***h..|
Posted: 8/5/2012 2:56:51 PM
|this just happen to me and it hurts like hell. i was seeing a guy for over a year and he just vanished. he said it was work and i am hurt. i am trying to move on . people who do this are cowards let them go you deserve better|
Posted: 8/5/2012 4:40:07 PM
|it's cowardice! people that slink away like this are nothing but cowards!|
Posted: 8/6/2012 11:58:19 AM
|I had this happen to me. This girl and I started to hang out a lot and eventually became a couple. We were "boyfriend/girlfriend" for about a month then she disappeared. She never wanted to be around me or anything. She would constantly use the excuse of being busy. We eventually broke up. But I don't know why she didn't have the courtesy of cutting off when she lost interest. Some people just have no courtesy for others and respect for other's feelings. |
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I've been there and know how you feel. Some women just "assume" that you should know what they're thinking.
Posted: 8/7/2012 2:09:38 PM
Remember karma is a total b***h.
Yay for karma...promise?