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Posted: 11/3/2004 8:51:44 AM | I'm single..........now with 2 children..................... men don't seem to run from me.
I guess that's the difference between men and boys. | |
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| The Secret To Dating Hot Girls
Posted: 11/3/2004 8:54:06 AM | | Yet another good point Lyon. Its no longer the size of their toys that only separates men from the boys... its how they have figured out how to treat ppl in their lives. As well as how they learn to treat themselves with a greater element of respect. Brilliant Lyon!!! | |
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Posted: 11/4/2004 9:45:01 AM | | are your kids from diffrent dads... I have no problem with a girl with more than one kid from the same dad. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2004 10:08:17 AM | | WOW I feel sorry for you Jimmy. Did you not have a good relationship with your mother. I just do not see where you got so cold towards women. Or did a chick with kids by diffrent guys hurt you in some way. The world has people in all kinds of diffrent situations, you cant say that one situation is worse than another with out giving each one a fair chance. My mother had three kids by three diffrent guys. Her first husband "my father" died of a car accident after she got pregnut. The second she meet when I was 3 he got her pregnut then after my sister was 5 he had a heart attack and died. The third she meet and had my brother then he got killed in the 9-11 attack. She is not a hoe or someone to run from. She has just had a REALLY hard life. And its not your place to say shes not as "good" as you. All of us show signs of life in diffrent ways and we all have marks of this life. Some people have marks by having kids, and if it wasnt for women having kids you or I wouldnt be here. So think about your mom and if something happend to your Dad and she got pregnut by some other man, would she be such a "bad" person... You got to think about others before you think of your self bubby. Or atleast about how would you feel if you were placed in their situation. You dont sound like your an a**hole, yet you sound like you have pain in your heart... | |
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Posted: 11/4/2004 10:58:35 AM | I am just going my what I have seen from where I live.. I recently moved from Victoria(On Vancouver Island for people who dont know where that is" to Abbotsford BC and I worked in Chilliwack, I have been here for over 2 years and I am still tring to get adjusted to the females here.. There is a joke in the Fraser Vallley.. You never ask a girl if she has kids.... you ask how many kids do you have.
I have know people since grade7 and none of my friends have kids.. single mother were very rare in Victoria,,then when I moved I got a job at a place that had about1800 people.. all I saw was single girls with "kids" looking for a man to support them.. and when I think I have found a nice girl eather she lies or does not tell me she has kids until we have dated a few times.......so it is not pain in my heart.it is just being fed up with space case girls with kids looking for a new daddie for thie kids. I have no problem taking care of a kid I help make.. I even want kids of my own.........but not right now. I feel when you have a new relationship when kids are involved to don't have the same opportunity when kids are not there. you cannot have last minute planning for things.. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2004 11:09:45 AM | | Ever heard the saying "It will find you when its ready to, and not till it's ready too". Stop chasing it around if all its doing is making you negative about women. The right girl will find you someday. it sounds like you looking in all the wrong places anyway. So why not stop looking for the "perfect" chick and enjoy life and being single before she does come into your life... | |
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Posted: 11/4/2004 3:26:14 PM | | right now I am realy enjoying being single...I have at this point stoped looking for "The One" I know it will happen.. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2004 7:22:16 PM | I think everyone is being to hard on Jimmy. Yes his views are quite narrow but for a good reason. Can most of you (guys) honestly say that you would stick with a person with 2 kids from diffrent fathers. We make snap decisions in life all the time, I know if I met someone with 2 kids from diffrent partners I would turn tail. I know I should get to know the person but at the same time... is it really a person I want to know. More likely than less is that the women in particalur is in that position due to her own faults as well, and I know I wouldn't want to play the game of picking up the pieces of her life to get them in order.
Also being a jerk is hard to do. Can someone give me some pointers. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2004 7:24:11 PM | | personality and confidence is key to a below average looking guy being with an above average looking woman. but it doesn't work for material women, unless you've got money. | |
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| The Secret To Dating Hot Girls
Posted: 11/4/2004 7:30:27 PM | | Jimmy Funny I live in the valley and thats the first time i've ever heard that ahhhh saying And Wow I'm a Single Girl and Surprise No Kids | |
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| The Secret To Dating Hot Girls
Posted: 11/4/2004 9:27:14 PM | the secret to dating them is to not. go for the cute ones or average you will be far better off in the long run.. the extreem pretty ones have everything handed to them and everyone wants to be with them... so they never take the time to devolpe a personality..and take many things for granted.(not all! but many) so when the looks fade as thay always do...they get bitter because they dont get the attention they use to and then your stuck with a crabby ol lady. also with the extreem pretty they always can drop you and get another like that.. I think it is nice to have a give and take on that part. kind of keeps you close.. also temptation for the extreem pretty is much greater then the average person. go for the one with personality, brains and a caring nature.
all right.. i imagin i will get beaten for my comments, but i am a fast runner!  | |
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| The Secret To Dating Hot Girls
Posted: 11/5/2004 12:06:14 AM | @EVERYONE
I THINK JIMMY_KNOXVILLE IS BITTER
I THINK HIS ORIGINAL POST WAS MENT TO BE TAKEN WITH A BIT OF SARCASM
SOME SUPER HOT GIRL'S BRAINS ARE NOT TOTALLY DEVELOPED
JUST READ THEIR PROFILES ON HERE............YIKES..........SHALLOW
MY OPINION ONLY:
IF I WAS WITH A GIRL AND SHE HAS UNDER 24...........WITH 2 KIDS WITH DIFFERENT FATHERS..............I WOULD NOT JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS
BUT.......... I WOULD BE SUSPICIOUS.......CAUSE ,THAT IS NOT MY SEEN
P.S.
I HAVE BEEN TRAINING MYSELF TO NOT NEED/LUST FOR WOMEN IN MY LIFE.........I AM ONLY HALF KIDDING | |
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Posted: 11/5/2004 12:26:36 AM | The secret to keeping one is the simplest issue of them all. Be yourself, show her the respect she requires. Let her constanly know that the smile on your face is for her. That the reason you drive slow to work, but fast home from work.. is because of her. That when your holding hands with her... your heart races. That when you look into her eyes, you studder inside of yourself. That when you hear her whisper your name, you want to make every single dream she ever had, come true. That when its raining, you want to walk down through the parking lot and get the car/truck so that you can swing by and pick her up. That you will cook dinner and she can relax....
My god... keeping them isnt that hard. Just realize what it is you have guys. Never let it go. Never burn that bridge. Swallow your pride and be a human. If she demands that you do the above, leave her spinning in her own shallow world. But if you find THAT ONE... just show her. Show her your heart, show her your dreams, show her how you can make her dreams come about... but show her by making her dreams come about. Do that... | |
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Posted: 11/5/2004 11:00:32 AM | | I hope you see the the light and do not die as sad and trite as you sound right now. Honesty and self-confidence are all that are needed(by my experience) to date or keep a woman. I have dated a few that were admittedly way to beautiful for me. Nonetheless they dated me....primarily bucause I am a nice guy. Timing to anything in life is paramount. Without it things will never work. When the time is right you will meet your "hot girl" and everything will work. I hope for your sake by then you have passed through this malaise of discontent. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2004 3:08:45 AM | | I am not a bitter man.. I just realized that most of the time "Hot Girls" are not worth the trouble. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2004 6:54:24 AM | Ouch!! Are you trying to say that you let them see you as someone else? And I thought ‘almost perfect’ females on earth will never put any price tag on their forehead for a decent relationship.
Can't congrats you on this, Jimmy. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2004 2:43:46 PM | | While not supporting the behavior, I must admit that I've seen the "jerk" angle work time and again. As I said before on another thread, my old roommate went through a breakup and decided to be a jerk to women. I've never seen anyone go through as many girls as he did for those 3 months. They practically swarmed him towards the end. However, while he did attract women of physical beauty, they all lacked for quality. My opinion is that most of these so called "hot girls" have a deep-rooted psychological need for validation and attention. When a man refuses to supply either, it becomes a type of challenge. "What's so great about him that he treats me like I'm common? I'll show him what he's missing." Maybe it taps into the need to change a man. I often wonder if some women do this as a type of "trophy" to their friends. "He was a bum, but look what I made him into!" Maybe I'm wrong, but it just seems like some people (not just women) are addicted to abuse. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2004 3:27:19 PM | | jimmy_knoxville, I completely agree. If you think about all the sh*t you have to go through to get a hot girl, you realize that it's not worth the effort. Just find someone whose company you enjoy and who you wouldn be comfortable introducing to friends and family. If you have your heart set on a hot girl and you're not willing to be a jerk, you're just asking for disappointment. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2004 5:31:11 PM | I don't think that anyone can judge what kind of relationships someone is going to have by their sexual attractiveness. I've seen VERY attractive women in long term relationships with guys who weren't rich or that good looking and I've seen very ugly ones play guys like you wouldn't believe.
Generally, I think attractive women treat guys better because they get treated better by males and don't necessarily hate us for abusing them...
Guys who ask ugly women out thinking they're going to get treated better usually wind up getting a very RUDE awakening *LOL* If you don't believe me, go ahead and try it. You'll find out.
I think that if we meet enough people, eventually we get with someone who has values that kind of mirror our own. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2004 7:19:32 PM | Jimmy,
1. Lose the backpack
2. Lose the big gut
3. Lose the attitude
4. Quite reading the articles in Maxim and just jack to the pictures
5. Get some common sense
6. Get a personality..becase the one you seem to have makes you seem like a giant a** hole.
ect....
signed,
Just puck in my mouth a little from your nonsense | |
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