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Posted: 12/4/2004 8:30:11 PM | | If a man is an @ss hole by nature. I run away as fast as my legs can carry me away. I have to laugh - Why is it that a few select men actually believe this? Ah, don't answer. I have my own theories that work just fine for me. Cheers! | |
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| The Secret To Dating Hot Girls
Posted: 12/6/2004 9:47:10 AM | | If money has nothing to do with it how does a 350 pound offensive lineman get a hot girlfriend/wife Cause As most do and lots look like a train has ran them over. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2004 9:48:52 AM | | Benny I got a tip workout 1 hour anight with a trainer learned it from Terrell Ownes he said after a one hour hard workout you should be good. and How much do you bench just wondering. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2004 10:04:50 AM | Actually, I don't think we should be mad at Jimmy -- it's the idiot girls who perpetuate this fallacy that we need to lynch!!!
I myself have fallen for jerks. I have no idea what happens, it's like drinking light american beer -- tastes like crud, makes me feel like crud, but it's all I've got in the fridge at the moment...  Of course, I am not a "hot chick", so I guess I can't say what makes THEM fall for jerks...
On the flip side, what is it with all the great guys falling for the biatches???  | |
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Posted: 12/6/2004 3:09:08 PM | | DAmn, my island and bartender sound better all the time. Hot girls are for fools. This old guy would be happier alone with the sea breeze, and the booze. Take a few meds along, and sink into oblivion. I love being unconscious. Then I don't have to deal with all this BS. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2004 8:10:49 PM | I would think that in order to date a hot girl, one must be bold. Not stupid, or crass, or arrogant, but bold. Hot girls are not trained in patience (why would they be?) so you have to just pick a great moment and go for it.
I would also think that hot girls will be generally more wary of men's advances. Some men just want the status of having had them, and these girls are aware of this. If you are a man of this tendency, know that they will smell it a mile away. So be genuine.
Hot girls also tend to be a little spoiled. They can't really help it, it's too easy for them to get away with things than average women. Just steer clear of the real terminal cases. And expect most hot girls to be a little more vain than usual. They tend to be a little more insecure too, for the reason that they are very attached to their looks. They will fish for compliments regarding their looks, and at the same time complain that that's all men see in them. It's a game the man should learn to play.
Hot girls may be intimidating, but they are just people. Treat them with respect and dignity with plenty of gifts and good times, and that should do the trick. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2004 8:24:09 PM | | It is true girls that you hate it when men really listen to what you are saying and not just act like it. I saw a special on tv well Straight plan for the Gay man funny show straight men try and fool women a gay man is straight. And on a date should you look in and look out. Also do you like the date to be about you they said most wmen like it when you make the date about them. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2004 11:12:29 PM | >
This has to be one of the most intelligent, mature comments that I have seen by any one man on the threads. Speaking in general terms for myself, I cannot speak for all women - yes, I am leary of mens advances, absolutely. This is one of the reasons why I do not - and will NOT do as much as kiss on a first date. I sure as hell do not boink a guy within the first few either. What is the rush? Old fashioned? Sure, in a way. Am I prude? Hell no. Cautious about being "damaged goods" - oh, yes. In the end, I am happy that I am preserving my "temple", per se, for the right one down the road. The sort of man that I want to settle down with is not the kind of man that will be happy with the thought of "numerous" men having been where he "goes." Can I smell it a mile away, sure, there are two opposite extremes that men play to get into a womans panties - acting like a pig - and being so gentleman-like thinking that it will impress and *swoon* - TRICK us - at the very end. It's what I have learned in my own experiences thus far. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2004 11:13:14 PM | I would also think that hot girls will be generally more wary of men's advances. Some men just want the status of having had them, and these girls are aware of this. If you are a man of this tendency, know that they will smell it a mile away. So be genuine.
Here is the comment above - it didnt show in the brackets in my previous post.... | |
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Tayven
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Joined: 11/11/2004
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Posted: 12/6/2004 11:29:52 PM | When it comes to picking up hot girls... it's funny, that's why I let them come to me if they are interested in any way. Hot girls always think if you're being nice to them... well we must be after her...Not always the case girls. Some of us are just nice, like to flirt, have fun, laugh, and are looking for that someone... Some of use have been there, played the games, and actually want to be nice regardless of how they women think.
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Posted: 12/6/2004 11:43:05 PM | I do not understand what the concept of this topic is when I see a "couple" men posting here, that are also posting in other threads claiming that "looks do not matter, it is all about the personality." So I can almost be made to believe herein now that this is not about dating a "hot girl," but yet "scoring one."
It does not take much imagination to just be yourself. Why would that be so hard? Can you not do that? If not, it's time to take a personal inventory. Truth is guys, it's all a matter of common sense about dating any woman. "Hot or not."
Hot? I see women on here claiming they are not hot. Pitiful. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What one man find hot, another man does not. Ladies, from what I have seen of you in other threads and by reading profiles, you are all hot women. Do not let any man try to twist a stereotype blindfold around your eyes. Especially via way of a thread. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2004 1:46:59 AM | There is no secret to dating hot girls... Unless you mean the obvious things that people can do to attract others. Be confident, sure of yourself, not overly so, but enough to give off that "aura" of confidence. Use your sense of humor. Try and find humor in situations and comment on it when you can. Make good conversation, be intriguing. You want to make them think, hopefully about things they usually don't. That makes them curious, which is always a good thing. Be honest and open, but leave just enough "mystery" to keep things interesting. And by this, I don't mean hiding the fact that you got anal warts from your last trip to prison, or the fact that you went to prison, but maybe hide the fact that you like to write poetry, and then surprise her on her birthday with something cute that you wrote... for example.
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Posted: 12/7/2004 1:54:04 AM | Wow, you are only 20, Oneman? Wise beyond your years. Think about holding "How-to" Seminars around the country, you will make a fortune.
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Posted: 12/7/2004 9:54:19 AM | Jimmy,
It's true women like jerks, but the things u talk about are NOT the traits they like in jerks: what is seductive in the classic "jerk" personality is the masculinity, the agressive side (arrogance), the strength of caracter, and the freedom. THAT is sexy.
-Flattery is NOT a jerk technique; it's good for weak spirits.
-Lying about your income is also lame... it's doing like Talented Mister Ripley, which is very very lame.
-And taking a hottie with you to a bar will NOT make you look like a jerk: what? u wanna prove to the others that u have a date? Playboys usually come to the bar by themselves. They're more free to "hunt" this way.
Finally, instead of trying to become a random jerk by reading some sh*tty websites, I suggest you read "The Prince" by Machiavelli, which tells you how to be a smart tyrant. Not only will you be able to rule on a woman's heart, but if she has kids, you will also completely rule over the household, like a king over a docile state.
It's always better to be a tyrant than a jerk I think... | |
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Posted: 12/7/2004 1:02:31 PM | "which tells you how to be a smart tyrant. Not only will you be able to rule on a woman's heart, but if she has kids, you will also completely rule over the household, like a king over a docile state."
A hell of a comment is coming on that one this evening when I have finished my day. Personally, I cannot wait to tear, rip, and shred into this one.
Stand by. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2004 2:11:38 PM | The "smart tyrant" technique can work. It can work beautifully and leave you with a woman completely bent to your will, and a houseful of subservient mindsets. You will be everything you think you are, because you have a household full of "serfs" to rule over.
However, this -will- not work on a quality woman. You may find a "hot" girl you can lord over, but as many have said before, physical attraction doesn't take you everywhere. Eventually, you will tire of the woman who's will has been broken and leave her a shattered mess with kids to take care of while you go gallavanting off with the next unfortunate victim while she has to pick up the pieces of her soul and put them together, and raise your dependant offspring as well.
As said: The "smart tyrant" approach can work. But it will only get you so far. It won't get you a woman you can wake up next to for the rest of your life and be completely satisfied. I don't know about anyone else, but that's what I'm looking for when I date. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2004 3:34:17 PM | Hello - Mighty O' Powerful Ones...what era does thine live? This is not Rome, Greece, or England 1804. "Lording" over "any" woman will not work who is coherant and not in a coma. Unless of course, if you may currently be living in a few select countries in the world that still "govern" their women in this manner.
Being a "Master" does work, since that arrangement/partnership is consensual and willing for both. At least most who call themselves "Master," loves his "pet," and likewise for she. That is another ball game entirely. Let's not confuse that community into this thread.
Suggesting to other men to break down ANY woman for his own benefit is sick and a malicious act toward womankind. We women believe that only men with tiny penises and those who have no power in all other areas in their life will resort to this manipulation upon the so-called "weaker sex." And yes, we are aware of it. Most women tend to run at the first few signs of it before the man actually has a "grip." The "weaker sex" is actually the man responsible one who is applying this "technique," who is not a man at all. Even more hilariously-disturbing, I find, is that someone on this thread had actually went out and bought a book on it, and read it.
Now let's get onto the children. Or pardon, "her children," as it was stated. Honey-buns, the most dangerous place in the whole entire world is between a Mother and her child(ren). Are your horizons not expanded? Do you not watch the evening news?
Evidentally, the one suggesting this is not looking for anything genuine in his life. And could be, possibly, as dangerous as his suggestion. If you were to research this subject thoroughly, and become knowledgable of it, you would become aware that the ending result in this sort of unhealthy situation typically results in murder and/or suicide in the very end. Men that do this do NOT let the woman go. They do not "move on," - if he can't have her, nobody will. So no, there is no way to be a "smart tyrant," - how cliche! To pull it off, it would have to bring success to the very, very end. Remember, all animals protect themselves, and only take so much. Buy a submissive dog and test your theory out. Make wearing a cup a part of your every day regimine, you'll soon be surprised at the eventual result. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2004 3:44:26 PM | Not true at all. In absolutely no way shape or form am I suggesting that people do this, but it is possible, horrific as it may be. I've seen it happen to multiple people, my mother included. A lot of women, and I am not trying to stereotype here, because it happens to men too, but I have personally seen women that submit themselves to someone like this, and I've seen it end in exactly the way I described.
I did not mean to suggest that this is something that should be done, in fact quite the opposite. I'm trying to get people to realize what it does to people, because I've watched my mom rebuild her life twice. Thankfully she's with someone great now, but the 2 men she did marry treated her like absolute sh!t, details that I won't go into.
It makes me sick just thinking that you thought I was trying to propogate the very thing that I hate to the core of my being. | |
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