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Posted: 5/21/2008 8:00:50 PM | Not in my lifetime, have I heard of a man that does NOT enjoy a woman giving him oral......................... | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 9:08:26 PM | I've enjoyed exactly 2 women giving me blowjobs. Now, those two were exceptionally enjoyable. But you know what? they seemed into it, seemed to enjoy giving as well as receiving. I think that made 90% of the difference. The last 10% was pure technique, I'm thinking. :)
Edit: My ex-wife, among her other foibles, really hated giving oral, so it really didn't do a damn thing for me... I think in varying degrees, that was true for the other women with whom I just didn't dig it. Ah well. | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 9:54:57 PM | I can see how you wouldn't enjoy a bad blow job if the chick put teeth into it or some girls are just bad at it. You can either give her some tips and hope she gets better or just go without depends on how much you love her.
Oral sex is great! | |
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Posted: 5/22/2008 6:52:37 AM | I dated a guy for a long time who didn't like receiving oral. He said there was never a time he enjoyed receiving it. I thought that maybe he just hadn't had a *good* experience with it, and he did let me go there, but there was almost zero reaction from that. He truly just didn't like getting BJ's. I used to think it was because it was one of those taboo things from the way he was raised - you know, raised to think it was nasty/dirty/wrong, but then he liked other things that were on the naughtier side of things.
Honestly I just think it is a matter of preference. Some people like having their neck, ears, whatever nibbled and others hate it... I don't think there is one thing that EVERY guy/girl ALWAYS likes... Even if the stereotype is that every guy/girl likes this particular thing. | |
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Posted: 5/22/2008 7:24:50 AM | There are irregularities in many personal tastes and preferences concerning many
different subjects..!!
My *Perfect Match* was my late wife....
We BOTH Loved Giving SO much...that we'd get into Heated debates..
as to who got to start a Love-making session...
We finally settled on a * Ladies First. . but Gentlemen get a *77* compromise*..!!
* A 69 , and you get 8 ..{Ate[Eaten]}.. More!!! | |
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Posted: 5/22/2008 11:47:33 AM | | He must have had one from his mother at a young age. All normal men love oral sex. | |
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Posted: 5/22/2008 12:07:45 PM | I love a good BJ even more then penetration , the key word there is "good". I have had women go down on me ,that didnt have a clue what they were doing. There is more to it ,then just putting the head into the mouth and thinking thats good enuff . Other times, I have had women that made me scream and twitch . There is a difference between women when it comes to talent.
I used to work with a russian guy who thought blowjobs were sick , he never went down on the wife either..no oral at all , said the thought of it made him feel like throwing up...
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Posted: 5/22/2008 12:54:02 PM | | I knew only 1 man who didn't like blow jobs. That's because he had a bad experience in the past. After I gave him a BJ, he began to like them more. | |
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Posted: 5/22/2008 1:05:16 PM | | How much of a f'en nutjob do you have to be to not like blowjobs? I mean a bad bj is one thing, but a girl that knows what she is doing? Come on now.... | |
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Posted: 5/25/2008 8:02:41 PM | I have never meet a man that didn't like BJ's as a matter of fact, most of the guys that I have been with would prefer that than sex.
If a guy doesn't like it he must have never gotten it right
or something happened to him when he was a kid | |
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Posted: 5/25/2008 9:50:42 PM | That's because he had a bad experience in the past
That would be a major reason why some guys do not like BJ's. Try getting your penis scraped constantly by a girl's teeth and then left with a bad case of blue balls because she doesn't like the taste of it. That will change your mind about things.
As far as myself, I prefer sex to BJ's. It takes too damn long for me to "release" (probably due to the women I have been with, not for sure though, who knows, maybe it would be good with the right woman) and many years ago, I never really enjoyed it. If a girl wants to give, that is fine, I won't stand in her way, but I much rather have sex than a BJ. I have only came once on a BJ, with help of course, but again, I would rather have sex. | |
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Posted: 5/27/2008 9:38:23 AM | louiebb,
Your welcome. I would gladly give your gf tips (bj101) but you are just a bit too far away. I live in Texas, way down here on the tail.
Actually, I have taught a few girls on how to give the perfect bj. Needless to say, their husbands and/or boyfriends adore me.  lol lol
The only stipulation is that the "getter" has to be present, because I tried teaching a friend of mine with a beer bottle but she kept insisting on using a bottle full of beer and that got her no where quick. 
Beso, Beso | |
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Posted: 5/27/2008 10:34:42 AM | | I am not really into the 'for' or 'against' camp. I enjoy the sensation of receiving oral and think it makes awesome foreplay. I don't refuse if offered. But it is not something I am likely to ask or beg for (unlike some other guys I know) and I almost never orgasm from it. For me, the head of my penis is much too sensitive though most of the sensation of oral is arround that area. I need a lot of basal stimulation and for a lot of women, as nice as the lips, mouth, and tongue feel, it's hard to coordinate both. a few times I have orgasmed from a half-blowjob, half-handjob. But a BJ itself, would take me a month to reach orgasm. I prefer to give oral over receive, but that's just me. | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs
Posted: 5/27/2008 10:41:51 AM | | I don't mind it.. but it take a long while on me and sex is so much better. I say nothing unusual. | |
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Posted: 5/27/2008 6:12:39 PM | personaly i dont like blowjobs because i have never had a good one... but i think if the right woman did it i would enjoy it. but i have met women who hate getting eaten out, and i love eating a woman out, its my passion. but the kicker is i dont like doing it all the time because if i did it all the time my woman would exspect it or she would become numb to it... if you know what i mean. basicly what i am saying is, is that you have to try new things, you have to not stick to the same things you know how to do, having sex is a big exersise in getting out of your comfort zone and into the danger zone, so while you already out of comfort, why not try somthing new, i look at it this way, if she/he dont like it then try somthing else, or try from a different possition | |
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Posted: 5/27/2008 8:59:31 PM | I have one question.
Does he truly not LIKE to get blowjobs or is it he just does not cum from them?
Personally, my first blowjob was from a woman who worked at a place called The Datng ROom in NYC.
She was the only one who ever made me cum unassisted.
Still, even though no one in the next almost 2 decades ever made me cum from a blowjob i still enjoy having my c0ck in a wet, warm, loving mouth.
IN fact, with one or two women I have dated they wuold have me stroke it awhile and then when i thought I was close to cumming they would suck me down and finish the job.
I confess, I also enjoy giving more than receiving oral. perhaps it is an altruistic streak in me. Perhaps i is because once a woman cums all over my face she is even MORE willing to make me happy than she was initially. . .maybe some of both. . .
Please, ladies, not ALL of us talk about blowjobs like this in order to make you think we are challenging you.
Some losers might need to do that to get their c0cks in your mouths but not all of us do! | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 2:05:25 PM | | i must say i have never had any complints when i give a bj ,but i have meet and talked to men that have had painful bjs from women ,i think his had a bad experiance ,think you should get him round to yours and show him what its all about lol | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 4:13:58 PM | And I thought POF was a nice PG-rated place for folks to meet. I can't believe how candid some of these threads are,
or how popular naughty ones like this seem to be. Now that I've shifted gears into the fast lane of prurient interests, let's help out the women that obviously made the OP not like head, 'cause there ain't no other explanation. It's a situation where the woman is in control, so she better know what she's doing. Here's a primer, from my experience with different women, who all thought they gave the best blow jobs, of course:
1) Never perform this unless he can come in your mouth. Spit it out if you want to, but always let him come
there. What is the point otherwise? It's a huge letdown and a prom buster if you don't. How would you like
it if a man went down on you, brought you to the brink of a climax, then left you to finish yourself ? Second
thought, don't answer that. Women and men are vastly different here, judging from personal experience. We gotta
come - we're wired to do that, and anything less is pure frustration. I'd say it took the OP about 2.5 blue balls episodes
like this before he swore off of ever wanting a blow job again.
2) As has been pointed out, the shaft is where you should focus your attention. The plentiful pleasure receptors there
are what will eventually get him to come. The head is usually either too sensitive, or numb. Don't ignore it, but don't do
all those artsy tongue swirls there for more than 15 seconds at a time - you'll either get nowhere, or drive him nuts in a bad way.
Don't just bob, use a little suction and pressure, but vary it up. Use your hand from time to time for more intense pressure,
but don't turn it into a hand job.
3) Nuts! Why is it that women by and large ignore these? They're right there in front of you. At the very least,
fondle 'em. It's like half the experience for him, and so easy for you. Half the men on here that said they couldn't come
from fellatio would likely do so if the woman had worked their balls. Cup them right when he's about to come, but don't
squeeze too tight. Women that figure this out truly do give the best oral, IMHO.
4) Secretly don't like giving a BJ at all? Just scrape your teeth on him a bit. That'll get you outta there in a jiffy, unless he's
into pain.
Hope this helps. | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs
Posted: 7/2/2008 4:19:23 PM |
Hillarious...same old story...same old comments. It's amazing how many women are experts at oral...never ceases to amaze me.
So it's baffling why I've only ever met one. All the others were coarse and rudimentary in their efforts.
Oh well. The world is full of great kissers too. | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs
Posted: 7/2/2008 4:24:46 PM | if the woman can suck a golfball through a garden hose..I'd enjoy it ...enjoy watching her do that as well..lmfao | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 5:08:00 PM | | WOW maybe he was just trying to make you work to change his mind????? Otherwise to each his own.... | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 7:22:21 AM | | im sorry, i have been with several guys, and they all loved getting just as much as they did giving. I love recieving it, and they would always whole-heartely welcome reciprocation. I dont know what that guys deal was, i thought everyone liked oral sex. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 8:34:09 AM | | I sure don't. I've had plenty of oral in my time, and didn't really care for any of it, so I know it's not one person's technique. Don't get me wrong- it feels ok, but I'd much rather be doing something else. I like giving a lot more than receiving!! | |
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