| guys who don't like blowjobs
Posted: 7/21/2005 2:06:41 PM | | @passionfly...i'm not sure it's the case here cause the way he was playing with his****it didn't look like it was sensitive...he was slapping it.stroking hard...he came,stayed hard and continued masturbating again | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs
Posted: 7/21/2005 2:17:18 PM | | I have a friend who is that way.I don't understand why,BJ's tend to feel better than intercourse. Some people are strange.LOL | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 2:18:19 PM | then its gotta be a control issue or a previous bad incident. People are very adaptive by nature. We are the most adaptive species to every live on this earth. We have ppl living in -90 degree cold weather in the arctic circle and flourish.
Once anything is done with someone and the benefits outweigh the negative, they learn to adapt to the new "norm"
Whats with all the speculation tho? Why not just ask him why? lol | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 2:19:15 PM | I've been with two guys that don't like blowjobs. It really bummed me out bc I love to give them. But it isn't freaky or wierd. Some people don't like oral. Get over it and deal.
Oh yeah, both of these guys could give me oral like no one's business. | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 2:24:55 PM | A guy that doesnt like blow jobs eh? he definately has something wrong warts or something | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 2:31:36 PM | Any guy that does not like to get a blow job is because it's not the right girl doing it
I have met one girl that has giving me a blowjob of a lifetime and that is when I really
started to enjoy it, but they are rare.And if she isn't good ex.using her teeth... then you kinda got to stop her **** her instead. | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 2:52:40 PM | *Looks to Jello, and just happens to mention that I've never been able to climax from receiving oral. LOL
Well, everyone is distinct; each of us has different sensitivities. Just as the sensitivities of the clitoris is so very different from woman to woman, the same is true for men. I am the biggest fan of giving that special woman pleasure… but the techniques I used to drive my last girl crazy, may not work the same way with the new woman in my life… I have to learn her own intimate places and recognize her likes and dislikes and what pressures to use at what moment… Because women’s sensations differ greatly from the teasing kisses on the inner thigh in the beginning - to those final muscle reflexes of ecstasy! ( …I better stop myself there before I turn this thread into an entirely different topic!) LOL
Now combine a highly sensitive man with his large girth - and BJ’s will continually be a problem with the novice giver who doesn’t know that she is actually hurting him. But that's where communication comes in. A sensitive guy with gifted girth will have painful "scraping" with almost every motion... mostly it's the inward motion that gets it the worst. The outer edge of the head of the penis is just as sensitive as the clitoris... and any hard, rough surface that rubs against it – in a bad way – will cause the guy to be distracted from enjoying the moment with his lover. But, he has to communicate this, he can't just take it and pretend nothing is wrong and then close himself off emotionally to any future engagements of mouth and penis. LOL He has to tell her what feels good and what tends to be painful and both can work together to explore and find new angles and motions and techniques that work better.
But to generalize in that there must be something really wrong with those men who don’t like getting a BJ – is like saying those men who can’t live without getting it must be lacking where it counts and are just excited to get what they can. LOL
- “Now I’m not tryin to cash up – I just call it how I see it!” | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 2:56:24 PM | The guy musta had some chick, with a bit of a teeth fetish...biting can be fun, don't get me wrong...but that kinda pain we can all do without 
Remember...teeth not a bad thing...lota teeth. not a good thing hehe.
Then again...on a more serious note...maybe he has a psychological barrier, which doesn't allow him the thought of a woman doing that to him, for a variety of psychological reasons, rather than physical...cheesh..Get over it bud!...close your eyes and think of England hehe. Don't think..just feel
passionfly...you're a great guy..and i love reading your stuff.. however...i love to argue..so i shall...Are you sure that sado-masichists don't like pain? Or is it, that they just like inflicting it, not necessarily getting it too? Just a curiosity question^^.
P.S. Late bloomer? You lost me...or do you mean, hadn't had any sexual experiences till later in your youth? (still a youth, when ya did i hope;) )
P.S. Like the idea of askin him why^^ | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 3:04:37 PM | I did...and you did ask...and he didn't give you a reason...just that he "didn't like it", that's not an explanation, thats a cop out...ask him what exactly he doesn't like about it^^
Personally if i was a woman, I'd show him why he oughta ;) | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 3:08:56 PM | Awww..i was so hoping she was gonna say, "He didn't turn me down, he turned me over!" lmao...
O.T. Not many men don't like it...but hey...it can happen for a variety of reasons i guess...over-sensitivity on a physical level...or just psycholigal reasons, for a distaste for it.^^ | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 3:18:50 PM | @nighttowl2005i read it all before - you just don't get my comment - must be the ocean distance
or maybe cause i'm a french girl and trying hard to learn english...i think i'm doing good for someone who learned english without taking lessons | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 3:20:23 PM | | parle vous francais I still think i am right the guy had ghonnorea if thats how its spelt, I have done english all my life and still struggle with it | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 3:22:09 PM | c'est ca qu'a dit en haut ... elle a apris a parler anglais avec aucun lessons.
Félécitation pout toi BadBadGirl | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 3:25:21 PM | Badbadgirl~~~ Wow I just am speachless for the first time!!!
Poor him,,,,,,,,,,like someone said maybe he just never had a great Blow job!!!!!!
See ya  | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 5:05:58 PM | i don't like blowjobs either
1 i love to kiss and if i kiss her after i might as well just suck my own d***
2 i have never had ond that just got me so excited
3 i belive it's better to give her oral and see her squirm than to recive | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 7:56:26 PM | i started loosing interest in him, to me a guy who doesnt like having a blowjob is boring
Marry Me. | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs
Posted: 7/21/2005 8:14:58 PM | | It totally depends on the quality of the work....i've had a couple girls blow my freakin mind but most of the time....ya most girls either don't know what they are doing or just aren't into it. I've told girls that i don't like blowjobs but it's usually after they've given me one. | |
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