| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 7/21/2005 8:21:13 PM | well, i haven't realy read anyone elses comments but i thought i would throw in my two cents.
now, i'm a guy... so yes, i do enjoy a good blowjob. BUT, it's almost never that a woman can fully finish the job. part of the problem is that i have a very thick girth. aannndddd the other part being... that blowjobs just don't do much for me sexualy. i don't know why. they just don't... i enjoy them, i truely do.
well if any ladies out there would like to help me try and figure out why things are the way they are... hey just message me. ;) heheheh.
a guy can dream ok. :P | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 7/21/2005 8:21:15 PM | I have yet to meet a man that doesn't like bj's !!!
must be something about the local men !!!! | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 7/21/2005 9:02:53 PM | | i dont care if they like em i wouldent give em i think thats nasty i dont know were that has been or what others huchies mouth has been on it | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 7/22/2005 8:05:51 AM | ummmmmmm, sexxy_bi_chick you say you would never, yet it says in your profile "looking for a good tongue." so if you're unwilling to go anywhere near a penis with your mouth.... now, why whould anyone want to even consider going down on you? i mean it's the exact same thing right there. what makes you special? | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 7/22/2005 9:49:17 AM | Think it would mostly likely have to do with the quality of BJ's he's received. Had some that it was a case of please don't even bother, and yet others that were please don't stop. Poor BJ's seem to come from girls that really don't like giving them. They are also the ones that really, really, into having you going south on them. ( all request fulfilled ). Girls that enjoy giving them also are more into it and do a much better job. So I guess it's best to girl that likes giving them.
And why are the women from Quebec always so hot! I'm starting to think I might have to relocate. | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 7/22/2005 10:15:08 AM | i was a victim of hurricane emily, so..................no.
that b*tch blew so hard i had to hang on to my nuts! | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 7/22/2005 10:15:39 AM | | For me it's always been that the woman doesn't like giving blowjobs, I love it, one of my favorite things. I love going down on a woman too but it takes away from it if she doesn't like to do it for me. | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 7/22/2005 10:52:11 AM | | hey there bad girl......not too sure, i am with you on that, never had anyone tell me that either.........i love having****in my mouth....just look at my lips......lol | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/5/2005 10:47:40 AM | | Nope, never met a man that doesn't like head... my friends husband doesn't like them either... I don't get it. I love it , giving it, getting it.. to each thier own though. | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/5/2005 10:54:10 AM | guys who don't like blowjobs...
probably haven't had a good one.
It's an art.
To those who do it well: Some of us LOVE IT and appreciate the hard work you sweet loving ladies do just do make us feel like we're on top of the world... and we'll also work for hours to make it worth your while. 
To those who don't do it well: It really is something you have to work hard at in order to do it right. If you don't get pretty wild down there, guys go soft.
Another thing: When the guy starts to cum is not when you STOP. It's really just the beginning... The quality of your work will be enjoyed on the basis of how long you stay on it AFTER that.
To stop as soon as the guy starts to cum is the same as if a guy stops vaginal sex as soon as YOU start to have an orgasm. Not the ideal thing, is it? | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/5/2005 11:11:35 AM |
GIRLS-have u ever met a guy who dont like oral?
No, but it'd be my dream ... as long as he wanted to give. I'm selfish. | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/5/2005 11:16:43 AM | I am one of these weird guys who actually only gets turned on when the women I'm with is turned on. If I detect any hint of her not enjoying something, I completely get turned off.
For this reason, I actually prefer to give oral than receive. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy the sensation of receiving, but I get off more burying my tongue between her legs.
Some guys beg/whimper/cry/plead for blowjobs and complain that their significant other doesn't give them/give them good.
I could easily go my entire life never getting another one... as long as we are still having amazing sex and shes open and willing enough to let herself enjoy sex and let me know what she really wants. | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/5/2005 11:38:02 AM | Well kids, let me tell you a story. (funny how i say kids, when im one of the youngest people on this site) Anywho. I once dated a guy named Bradley. He was cute and quiet, and way too shy. I wanted to, you know, open him up a bit. Bring out the freak in him. Well, he didn't have one. The first time we came close to having sex, I went down on him, and he went down on me. Normal, sure. Well, when he was about to come, he made me stop. Did NOT want to come in my mouth. That makes sense, I guess. He DOES kiss me. no worries. Well, after that night...we never had any kind of oral sex, ever again. We just kissed, and ****ed. It sucked so damn bad. He said he didn't like blow jobs. I'm guessin it had something to do with the fact that "hey, i have to kiss that mouth"
Some guys dont like the thought of kissing something thats been on their**** i guess.  | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/5/2005 11:41:01 AM |
i dont care if they like em i wouldent give em i think thats nasty i dont know were that has been or what others huchies mouth has been on it
Okay. You're in the position where a blow job might be in order, which means sex may quite possibly be to follow. You wont put it in your mouth, but you'll let him thrust it in and out of your **** for *minutes* on end?
I mean, your **** is a dark, damp, warm orfice. I'd be more worried about keeping IT clean.
*I say minutes because most men, in my experience, aren't capable of much more. Do not take this offensively or defend that you can **** for hours. I dont care. | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/5/2005 11:55:49 AM |
I am one of these weird guys who actually only gets turned on when the women I'm with is turned on. If I detect any hint of her not enjoying something, I completely get turned off.
For this reason, I actually prefer to give oral than receive. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy the sensation of receiving, but I get off more burying my tongue between her legs.
Some guys beg/whimper/cry/plead for blowjobs and complain that their significant other doesn't give them/give them good.
I could easily go my entire life never getting another one... as long as we are still having amazing sex and shes open and willing enough to let herself enjoy sex and let me know what she really wants.
Really? Wow! It's awesome to know that there are men like that.
(And ... hey ... you live in the same province.... ) lol ;)
Being asked/ told/ begged to perform oral is the biggest turn off for me. Even if I had been in the mood to, that would kill it. | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/5/2005 12:37:38 PM | I can't imagine not liking SOMETHING associated with a BJ. I've had bad ones like most guys, but like the old actress Mae West once said, "Sex is good even when bad." It is an art and a lot of woman I think rush it instead of looking at it as fun foreplay, so I can see a guy maybe being frustrated by that, but actually not liking it. That's a tough one to swallow (pun intended).
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/5/2005 12:48:49 PM | | I`m with aviator on this 1 I love to give a girl the licking of her life but I have never been turned on by a b.j. I would rather get her going really good and that`s all the turn on I need | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/5/2005 1:38:33 PM |
I`m with aviator on this 1 I love to give a girl the licking of her life but I have never been turned on by a b.j. I would rather get her going really good and that`s all the turn on I need
Hooray!!! There are at least two men in Ontario with whom I could .... well .... use your imagination ..... and not feel pressured to give a bj.  | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/5/2005 1:41:05 PM | Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying "oh please dont give me a blowjob. I can't stand them"
No not at all. Just for me it's not my number one turn on... I'd get 10x more turned on watching a woman bring herself to climax than having her perform oral on me.
To each their own. But I also know some guy friends who would rather receive oral than ANYTHING else. i.e. their number one turn on is getting oral. If they had the choice between any other sexual activity, they would say oral.
For me, receiving oral is much lower on my list of 'please dos' | |
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| guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/5/2005 1:45:13 PM | | badbadgirl....I might fall into that category. It's not that I don't enjoy it so much, it's just that I much prefer other things. I'd rather be giving any day - and I rarely orgasm to oral. I know I know, "but you have never had oral from me." I have heard that a lot. I think I have had 5 orgasms total from oral. It's no fun when you don't cum! | |
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