Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > Double standard on Oral?      Home login  
 AUTHOR
 dindin123
Joined: 4/30/2012
Msg: 951
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?Page 39 of 47    (7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42, 43, 44, 45, 46, 47)
hey u cant paint all us men with the same brush....any time a woman asks me to go down on her i will always suggest 69..if she dont want to go down on me fair enough i love going down.....
 dindin123
Joined: 4/30/2012
Msg: 952
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/5/2012 11:36:32 AM
ya girl i agree..if u want to impress....then nothing should matter...
 Notaliberal
Joined: 10/29/2009
Msg: 953
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/5/2012 12:21:38 PM
U like that (saying uncle) do you? You are also very correct.
The desire to make your partner enjoy the experience with you is the greatest part of sex. From the 1st time I experienced the thrill of making a beautiful loving partner so happy her eyes were tearing and she wouldnt let go of me I have made it my business to make sure she was never left unsatisfied.
Now there were times when I never got started or should i say i tried to get close but her hygiene stopped me cold.
My late wife used to douche like she brished her teeth after every meal! Her female OBGYN said it was no different than brushing your teeth & using mouth wash. I have found women who dont douche on a regular basis usually have older men OBGYN's who still say its unhealthy to douche regularly. My wifes doc said that was an old wives tale used by docs to explain why some women never got wet before or during sex.
Women who are very slowly stimulated over time get very very wet during foreplay & if they are clean its sweet like peach nectar & very slippery and tastes wonderful to her & the guy who is responsible for the condition she is in.
 orallyyours
Joined: 4/15/2010
Msg: 954
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/5/2012 1:23:21 PM
yea blow jobs are great to recieve but giving is just as enjoyable myself I enjoy going down on women but its a little difficult in the car lol I might not be the average guy i enjoy giving oral
 dprichard
Joined: 3/15/2012
Msg: 955
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/5/2012 1:32:45 PM
maybe i am different.
i have always made sure she gets hers first.
i actually enjoy it more to give than to receive.
 NwBeg42
Joined: 4/4/2012
Msg: 956
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/5/2012 6:41:40 PM
I broke it off with a man because he told me he broke up with a women because she wouldn't go down on him. When I asked if he went down on women he said rather loud and proud "NO". I thought what a ****ing selfish man. If he's that selfish in bed I could only imagine what else he was selfish with. No thanks!!!
 Brian_Thunder80
Joined: 3/20/2012
Msg: 957
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/5/2012 9:33:04 PM
Good for you NWBeg42. A woman should always receive oral if she goes down on a man, and vice-versa. Some women in my past don't like giving oral, but I'm not going to say no to giving pleasure to them. That's not nice for both parties.
 imwsabbcswgc
Joined: 9/28/2011
Msg: 958
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/7/2012 5:19:42 AM
I love giving oral sex and never complain, why not give a girl the greatest pleasure you can.
 aspcaofficer
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 959
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/7/2012 12:00:40 PM
ill go down on u all night coxgirl inbox me please
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 960
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/9/2012 8:51:30 PM
I love making her cum that way and then kissing her immediate afterwards while my face is still all wet. All seemed ok with that and one GF went crazy for it.
 needyone
Joined: 8/13/2010
Msg: 961
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/10/2012 4:10:53 PM
I think you will find far more men will go down on a female then the number of females that swallow
sucking my****is like me sucking your nipples
eating you nice wet **** with its tasty juices is like you sucking my****and having it cum in your mouth continually for 5 minutes
one is a dry appendage and one is juicey
dont compare sucking a****to eating ****
swallowing is somewhat like eating **** but the cum and taste only lasts for a couple of seconds
 ILUVGIVINGORAL
Joined: 7/24/2011
Msg: 962
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/10/2012 6:50:53 PM
well coxgirl, look at my profile name, im the man who luvs kissing, licking and nibbling on a womans body till she begs me to stop!!! and i have no problem proving it,lol,i wont even take off my clothes, unless u want me too. and as for in the car while driving, i showed a few woman that she can be orally pleased while driving!!!! so if any ladies in phoenix, az need some attention, please get in touch with me. kisses and licks!!!
 NYQT4U
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 963
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/10/2012 7:18:49 PM
I understand what ur saying I dont understand why it seems so hard for others to understand. It only makes sense that u were looking for men who dont like to do it to respond. And its not true they all like to do it I met a few who didnt like to do it also but felt they should receive
 favalarry1969
Joined: 8/27/2006
Msg: 964
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/10/2012 7:58:10 PM
Honestly it should go both ways..I will even go down on a woman during her period..fair id fair and I love it!!
 Ink3dforev3r
Joined: 2/2/2012
Msg: 965
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/12/2012 1:30:52 AM
Well except for the guy above ^( i wouldnt go down on girl who has her period) Ill agree with everyone else here, I dont think its that big of a deal. I think the type of guys you are attracted to is the problem. It seems like most guys who have responded so far dont mind, some like me, actually enjoy it more than receiving. Its a wild turn on and a good way to start something.

My advice to you is if you cant choose the type of guys youre attracted to, I would think about finding a guy who helps you first, and than you help him in return.
 TallGlass30
Joined: 8/17/2011
Msg: 966
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/12/2012 1:38:14 AM
Girl can't get a "bj" but she can get 39 pages of opinions.

It aint cuz it's supposed to be one way or another.. first of all, if you like giving oral, guys "tune in" to that, they say "Ok, so she likes doing it, I'll enjoy the expectation of her doing it."

You have to leave his johnson alone and wait till he is horny... then he will find a way to please you and please himself while doing it.
 cicicross1
Joined: 9/28/2011
Msg: 967
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/12/2012 3:59:18 AM
needyone said:

I think you will find far more men will go down on a female then the number of females that swallow
sucking my****is like me sucking your nipples
eating you nice wet **** with its tasty juices is like you sucking my****and having it cum in your mouth continually for 5 minutes
one is a dry appendage and one is juicey
dont compare sucking a****to eating ****
swallowing is somewhat like eating **** but the cum and taste only lasts for a couple of seconds


Well, you have quite obviously NEVER given a blow job. It is FAR from a dry appendage. It leaks precum (which tastes like utter a$$) constantly, you gag and about throw up all the time, not just from the taste but from having something hitting your gag reflex every stroke. It is NOT like sucking nipples. And except for the squirters, eating p***** is not a constant explosion of any kind. Leaking small amounts of thin to thick white secretions when you cum does not even come close to a load of thick mucus blasting into your mouth, at the same time it is already full of c***. It is a train wreck waiting for vomit to occur. And that taste lasts FAR longer than a couple seconds. Most of the wetness I have noticed when being eaten out is the mans saliva from his mouth being open and tongue working. Which tends to drown most of the womans taste a bit from what I have been told by guys unless she is particularly "musky" In which case if you dont like it dont do it.

NOW, all that being said...blow jobs can still be fun believe it or not because its an utter joy to bring that joy to someone else. My tear filled eyes and constant gagging are like badges of honor, LOL. And the taste varies with the man, of course, as it does with women.
 Metooalsotoo
Joined: 7/31/2011
Msg: 968
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/12/2012 5:20:11 AM
Well I just found this topic and haven't read all the posts yet-but I love giving lots of oral attention. My only reason for not giving would be hygiene problems!
But honestly I love to look her in the eyes as she is getting off
 Metooalsotoo
Joined: 7/31/2011
Msg: 969
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/12/2012 5:26:13 AM
Actually I have given a few and thought them exciting. Really like a wife to watch and join in.
And as far as a double standard-before during and after sex is always in the game plan.
And to you women that say no to giving oral to a woman-how many of you go down on your man after sex?
 poker_fan_in_nyc
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 970
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/12/2012 6:13:18 AM

And to you women that say no to giving oral to a woman-how many of you go down on your man after sex?


wait this isn't normal?!? for me it's like a lollipop of flavors :)
 AquariusBaby
Joined: 3/2/2012
Msg: 971
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/12/2012 7:29:37 AM
I fully understand where you are coming from, men do tend to lie back and be sucked for ever but when it comes to your turn, usually a different story.

Personally i love to give equally as much as I love ro receive, but when I meet a guy, I make it quite clear that receiving oral is what really gets me off. I think it's best to be assertive sexually and it usually brings satisfactory results!!

I have always been lucky and men I have been with have all loved to go down on me, but I think you should just be clear about your needs and don't hold back!!!
 jan135135
Joined: 5/6/2012
Msg: 972
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/12/2012 11:02:40 AM
to be fair, it is easeit to completely get a penis clean beofre underatking it that the other way around

jann
 Bobbystl
Joined: 1/22/2012
Msg: 973
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/16/2012 8:55:04 PM
I for one absolutely Love going down on women . Almost more than intercourse.
 favalarry1969
Joined: 8/27/2006
Msg: 974
view profile
History
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/16/2012 11:37:13 PM
Well, you have quite obviously NEVER given a blow job. It is FAR from a dry appendage. It leaks precum (which tastes like utter a$$) constantly, you gag and about throw up all the time, not just from the taste but from having something hitting your gag reflex every stroke. It is NOT like sucking nipples. And except for the squirters, eating p***** is not a constant explosion of any kind. Leaking small amounts of thin to thick white secretions when you cum does not even come close to a load of thick mucus blasting into your mouth, at the same time it is already full of c***. It is a train wreck waiting for vomit to occur. And that taste lasts FAR longer than a couple seconds. Most of the wetness I have noticed when being eaten out is the mans saliva from his mouth being open and tongue working. Which tends to drown most of the womans taste a bit from what I have been told by guys unless she is particularly "musky" In which case if you dont like it dont do it.

NOW, all that being said...blow jobs can still be fun believe it or not because its an utter joy to bring that joy to someone else. My tear filled eyes and constant gagging are like badges of honor, LOL. And the taste varies with the man, of course, as it does with women.

I love the taste of a woman..and its not fair to not give a woman her pleasure even during her period..if worried use a tampon or scented tampon..but i need to taste a woman way worse than I need a hj
 guitarist232
Joined: 4/30/2012
Msg: 975
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/17/2012 5:34:01 AM
One can't expect to have it done, and not return the favor. I've been with a couple of girls that didn't like to suck, but either way I do love eating a girl out regardless, but still. Everything works much better if both will do it for one, and/or LIKE doing it as well. Makes things a lot more fun lol
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > Double standard on Oral?