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| | Why do stunning women go for geeksPage 43 of 43 (3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42, 43) | | I must say, I am impressed. An obvious troll post has over 1000 responses. | |
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/27/2010 8:47:43 AM | which was my point to begin with...when the playing field regarding MONEY is even....she makes a truckload of money...he makes a truck load of money...then we cannot simply assume that just because the guy is not good looking (by whose standards anyway?) that she is with him simply for his money. There could be OTHER reasons...which is why I am wondering...if she makes a lot of money and there are plenty of SUPER RICH MEN in the dating pool for her to choose from....why go for the "less attractive" guy vs the really hot hunka burning love? Was just pointing out that it's not all about MONEY like some guys and gals) like to assume
Fair enough. I think we partially agree about this. One personal example. I know a woman who makes about 125k a year. Looks aren't that important to her. Looks might be a minor issue to her at the most. Things like personality and having some common interests are important to her. Money is also important to her. She wouldn't date a man who has a lower income than her. Because she feels that she would have to support him. She also feels people with lower incomes are less successful in life. Is money the only reason she is dating a particular man? Not necessary. But money can be a contributing factor even when both people have about the same income. | |
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/27/2010 9:58:57 AM |   sometimes the geeks of this world wind up where they arent seen as real and as to the bank account thought,well, the president of microsoft,bill gates, is laughing all the way to the bank and so is his wife who more than likely,saw what he had as to brains, and figured,better jump him before some other girl does. | |
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/27/2010 10:47:58 AM | I read somewhere that women typically date down (in terms of looks) where you'll have a gorgeous woman with an avg looking guy, and apparently the reasoning in a study was that the gorgeous guys are far more prone to cheating, so subconsciously the women pick men who are more likely to appreciate being with someone "better looking" then them, and not as likely to take them for granted. This is usually after they've been with a gorgeous guy and been cheated on themselves.
Granted you've got to have other things going for you, career, hobbies, passions, etc. | |
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noci5
| | Joined: 3/8/2010
Msg: 1054 | |
| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/14/2010 8:49:26 PM | | Sometimes they are the only ones with enough courage to approach these women. Alot of more "atttractive" men are just big pansies who are scared of rejection...I applaud these "geeks" for at least putting themselves out there....it obviously pays off more times than not... | |
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/25/2010 5:53:08 AM | I honestly couldn't refer to myself as a "geek". I have been involved with some amazingly beautiful women and I can honestly say, I am not classified as a geek.
Thom | |
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/25/2010 10:57:21 AM | I find it quite shocking that so many people seem so intent on heavily dualist beliefs.
Like a Geek is not physically attractive, and a pretty boy is, but the pretty boy is not clever, the Geek is however.
A person's physical appearence has little to do with their interests in geeky stuff or not. It's quite a foolish assumption to make, assuming that "all ugly people have geeky interests" and all "attractive" people could not possibly be interested in techie stuff.
Maybe Americans have a different definition of Geek from the UK, I don't know.
Shock, horror, pretty boys can be clever and hold conversations, geeks can have game and look smokin' too.
Also, just because someone is a "geek" does not mean that is all their knowledge extends to, it might appear that the "Hottie" is dating the nerdy guy, but you have no idea what chemistry and interaction there is between them. Again, foolish to assume "it can't be common interests because he only talks about computers, and her being hot must find that boring." | |
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/26/2010 2:54:46 AM |
I constantly see tons of the most gorgeous women all with guys that must have been beaten with the ugly stick constantly from birth. Does this mean there are shallow women out there who are just interested in money.
Because they're brilliant, clever, nice and have a big powerful brain which strategically knows how to lure and get what they want. 
A big brain to compensate for the lack of muscles 
Actually there are a lot of hunky sexy geeks out there too. 
you just have to know where to look.
Why arent there any shallow women only interested in sex
you must be blind or something... of course there are women out there only interested in sex just as some men are too.
On topic: Different women are drawn to different kinds of men, for a variety of different reasons....it's both wrong and inaccurate to make a generalization like the OP does.
Yes exactly... you're judging too quickly | |
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Posted: 3/26/2010 10:11:53 AM | Last guy I was with could be very well classified as a geek.
Not greately looking (beautiful eyes though), but he did everything right, absolutely, never made any remarks that made me feel uncomfortable about myself, was a gentleman and wonderful (until he disappeared after his father's death).
We had incredibly entertaining conversations (sometimes, on engineering subjects) and he was integillently funny (not just making bad and cheap jokes).
He knew how to excite me on more areas of my personality than just sex.
A guy like that is fun at 50, 60 and 80. If all that you have is looks and sexual power, by 55, at the most, you will be boring and have become a bad investment. | |
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YZ_Guy
| | Joined: 1/22/2010
Msg: 1061 | |
| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/27/2010 9:30:03 AM | Well, I'm definitely a techie nerd geek computer guru and I date what many men consider attractive woman. It's just a theory but I think it has something do with "Talking to them"? Not quite sure about this but if I spend a few minutes humoring them and having good conversation most woman will be interested. Furthermore, the upside to conversation is I can learn pretty quickly if she's "psycho girl!"
What works for me is this. I work in tech helping people with their 'puter problems and this affords me all sorts of opportunities to meet people while they're at work. Here's poor distressed Sally, her phacking 'puter is a POS and I get to ride in and rescue the day. Now I'm in Sally's office and I learn what interest her, books on the shelves, pictures on the wall/desk and whatnot. Also, Sally is much more open to conversation and I get to put on my best charm without having to contend with 50 other drunk guys pawing at her.
Now here's the tricky part. I ask Sally if she would like to go out for drinks, or possibly rob a bank? Phew, get past that now I go big and ask her for her phone number! Then I call her. Seems to be working so far..... but then again I to can suffer from an occasional ID 10 T error.
Cheers, | |
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2heat
| | Joined: 3/23/2010
Msg: 1062 | |
| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/27/2010 10:39:22 AM | | I can only speak for myself. But I would never date a man that I consider to be ugly regardless of how much money or power he has. | |
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/27/2010 6:23:05 PM | | lots of them just get fed up of being treated bad - but then again, geeks can be just as bad - so girls, don't think geeks chuffed your with them, thier just greatful until the next bird comes along - same as any other bloke | |
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/27/2010 10:37:03 PM | | I don't think it matters which stereotypical classification a guy has to be in to attract women. I don't even think you even have to have a lot of money. Confidence is key. You could be the geekiest dude on the planet, but if you have confidence it will serve you and your partner well. | |
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/27/2010 11:36:59 PM | Just to this thread even longer, Wally Pleasant has pretty funny song that I think sums up your story pretty well.
She's in Love with a Geek
"Well, the girl whom I love doesn’t even know that I exist
‘Cause she’s always hangin’ around with this other guy
That I’d like to hit with my fist.
And it’s not just a matter of jealousy, for which I now speak
In fact my pride is being destroyed, because that other guy is such a geek.
She’s in love with a geek.
She’s in love with a geek.
She’s in love with a geek.
She’s in love with a geek.
Calculator in his pocket,
Dungeons and Dragons game by his side.
Driving around in his metallic-green station wagon,
He’s takin’ her for a ride
And she’ll never appreciate the love I can only contemplate in my dreams
And it seems that I want to scream.
She’s in love with a geek.
She’s in love with a geek.
She’s in love with a geek.
She’s in love with a geek.
Oh, they say that love is blind
And I suppose that’s true,
Because this guys got a face that resembles the hind end of a baboon
And he’s got about as much personality as a loaf of bread
And even if I tried to tell her all this stuff, she wouldn’t listen to a thing I said…"
- Wally Pleasant | |
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/28/2010 4:30:14 AM | I'm a 'geek' as well. My ex found it very attractive that I was passionate about the things I liked... whether it be videogames or computers or something stereotypical 'geeky', I could go off on one sometimes or launch into a massive explanation, which she would later tell me was 'hot' lol.
High five to my fellows out there. | |
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 11/23/2010 12:08:49 PM | Like some other posters said: "Geek does not necessarily equate to ugly".
I'm the new-age engineer: mathematical smarts with a jock bod (thanks to a lifelong workout regime). The way I see it, I've got the best of both worlds - the scientific intellectual with a well-paying job, AND I've got the bod to excel in sports, wear high-fashion, and attract good-looking women.
Why WOULDN'T I go for stunning women if I score well across all the normal dating criteria? 
I've met some breathtakingly-gorgeous women that watch Star Trek. Just because they're conventionally beautiful doesn't mean they can't be into unconventional things (or guys), and just because some of us are geeks, doesn't mean we don't have the muscles and physique to pound the Average Joe into the pavement.
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 11/23/2010 12:12:53 PM | Quite possibly, the ability to conversate about things NOT related to:
- Sex
- Lifting weights
- How many beers were shotgunned last night
- Slow pitch softball triumphs
- Cars/motorcycles/quads/boats/etc.
- Binge drinking exploits
- Traveling to a beach to binge drink and little else
That's a start, anyone got anything else to ad?
I'm the new-age engineer: mathematical smarts with a jock bod Nice. I run every morning and lift here and there; then go to work as an engineer where I spend WAY too much time on here. Thankfully, I'm starting a new job soon that will be more interesting than this, the boringest of all engineering jobs EVER! | |
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| Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 11/26/2010 7:42:30 PM | Stunning women go for geeks because they know how to put phasers on stun!
I'm a geek, I've gotten stunning women. I think its the fact they like nice guys who are devoted. Oh and geeks tend to be stable and undramatic, and you won't catch them cheating.
Why does anybody go for anybody? | |
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