| | what are some of the times you most miss a relationship-not the obvious onesPage 6 of 6 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6) | Holidays or Sundays. I see couples going out together. Or at a club when everyone has a date and men alone think oh she must be out to pick up a man--NOT! Just because they are out for that does not mean a woman is. . Family events yes, here I AM still ALONE AGAIN hehe. . Trips. It is so hard going on a trip without anyone but I still do it. Or taking a road trip, hard to go to those out of the way places as a woman alone. Or how about football games and other sporting events. Or fishing. a woman can not go to a lake alone with no one around fishing.  | |
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| what are some of the times you most miss a relationship-not the obvious ones
Posted: 10/19/2011 3:48:36 AM | Hard to pin down, but I probably miss the general silliness, smiles and laughter the most.
Oh - and "cin____dy" - I wouldn't worry too much about missing the fishing thing. After this year's drought, it's not like there's any water left in the lakes anyway. You'd be in for a long walk just to be able to throw a line in. | |
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| what are some of the times you most miss a relationship-not the obvious ones
Posted: 10/19/2011 7:26:56 AM | | I am in a new relationship after being single for just over 7 years and I didn't realize how much I missed being snuggled to sleep, random texts meant to make me smile, the caress of fingers on my skin to slowly wake me up in the morning, walking arm in arm or the feel of my man's arms around me after a tough day at work. It's been a long time coming... | |
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Givthx
| | Joined: 9/26/2010
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| what are some of the times you most miss a relationship-not the obvious ones
Posted: 10/19/2011 1:08:08 PM | | I suppose in happier times , Mine is two fold. I miss cooking out and we did it together was nice. Alot of the kids(my own & neiborhood) rode dirt bikes, 4 wheelers, played in the pool..very active..I would fix their bikes and skinned knees. My ex and I would just laugh at all the crazyness the kids would get into. Also my kids are now about grown and miss the business..never thought I would say that ! After 4 years, I still feel very "detached" cause thats what I liked to do and did it well... | |
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red223
| | Joined: 10/14/2011
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| what are some of the times you most miss a relationship-not the obvious ones
Posted: 10/19/2011 1:28:50 PM | | I've been divorced for 1 year and I had to cook for him all the time. It was exhausting and he was very demanding! I do miss cooking for someone though, I know what you mean. I have been cooking more and bringing it into work. Of course there is a guy at work I have a crush on, but it is hopeless, he has a terrible girlfriend and she has cheated on him numerous times,but it is a mess. I feel like I got kicked out of a club or something, not being married anymore. It is an adjustment,but it was alot of responsibility that I have to say I don't miss. After 10 years of it especially. I hope I can find someone that is more of a friend this time around and who doesn't judge me and expect so much of me. I haven't gone on a date since and I just hope I can trust someone enough to not screw things up. | |
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| what are some of the times you most miss a relationship-not the obvious ones
Posted: 10/20/2011 12:04:53 AM | What instantly comes to mind are
Going out...and not being alone
Cooking a beautiful meal and sharing it...with an appreciative other
Sunday morning sleep-ins together
Reading to eachother
The simple bedtime routine and cuddles
Watching TV on the couch together
Mutual footrubs
Commenting on newspaper articles
Chess
Scrabble
A reason to dress up and primp
Someone else on the other end of the two by four
There's probably a hundred more things I could list. I really miss the simple, wonderful companionship. sigh | |
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| what are some of the times you most miss a relationship-not the obvious ones
Posted: 5/3/2012 3:44:42 PM | | Kaylee: Thanks to start this post. It helps to remind us to work harder to maintain a relationship when opportunity given to us again. Something that we are treasured during a good time in relationship, evaluated what was the cause to end that relationship and not have a history repeat itself. | |
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