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 lakegrl
Joined: 9/22/2009
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BELIVE IN BEING YOUR SELF!! You can very easily lose those extra pounds....your libido will go wild!!!! That first five pounds is all it takes to get started!!! Try extreme sports sooooooooooo sexy and all women look good in wake board suits!!! I am blessed @47 after 3 super pregnancy....I cant wait for summer attire!!.. Winter is almost here....men think snow bunnies are hot!!! and you burn kajillions of calories!!!... Use a good quality moisturizer and spray tans are safe and instant!!!! Go gettem!!
 5150Rivergirl
Joined: 8/3/2008
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Posted: 10/6/2011 12:36:44 PM

you can very easily lose those extra pounds

Use a good quality moisturizer and spray tans are safe and instant!!!!


But then you tell her...


BELIVE IN BEING YOUR SELF!


Seriously? Maybe her being herself does n ot include loosing weight, mositurizers, and spray tans.
 j_rock82
Joined: 11/11/2010
Msg: 28
stretch marks, body imperfections
Posted: 10/6/2011 9:54:37 PM
Imperfections are just a part of life. You can take care of yourself, workout and do whatever it takes to stay in shape, but I wouldn't expect everyone to be perfect.

There are some outside variables you can't control. I can't hang off a pull up bar with the hopes of growing taller. If you live in So. Cal you may get sun damage. Live your life and off your positive energy.
 shezabritelite
Joined: 9/24/2011
Msg: 29
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Posted: 10/7/2011 9:27:01 PM
You have to love your beautiful body! Feed it well, exercise it, take it for walks and don't smoke or drink in excess. Don't fret over things you can't fix and give yourself a pat on the back when you need it. Take all the hugs you can get and smile so someone else can feel at ease. If it's hot, wear shorts! If you want to swim, SWIM! If you want to wear a bikini, wear it! ENJOY all of the wonderful things this life (your life) is offering! No regrets.

Most people are not asking me for my opinion of how they should dress or behave or comport themselves. Therefore, I do not put much stock in the opinions of others unless specifically requested. I recommend you consider this and then do what makes you feel good and happy.

I mowed the lawn once this summer in my bikini top and short, shorts and the feel of the breeze and sun on my bare skin was delightful! So tasty. Yes, it was the backyard...but it still felt great. Most of my friends aren't going to give me grief and most people have not room to talk.

Enjoy your body!
 Celtic_Scottish_Gael
Joined: 8/24/2011
Msg: 30
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Posted: 10/9/2011 6:12:26 PM
I think stretch marks on boobs are sexy as hell
 john_in_bh
Joined: 12/25/2004
Msg: 31
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Posted: 10/9/2011 7:48:27 PM

I think stretch marks on boobs are sexy as hell


Yep! And I think its darn hot when they are all saggy hang all the way down to their belly buttons.
 Celtic_Scottish_Gael
Joined: 8/24/2011
Msg: 32
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Posted: 10/10/2011 11:29:29 PM
lol I wouldn't go that far
 lovefinds
Joined: 9/3/2010
Msg: 33
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Posted: 10/11/2011 10:03:30 PM
Most everything is okay. I really don't dig boob reduction results though.
 TheLimey
Joined: 2/24/2008
Msg: 34
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Posted: 10/11/2011 10:46:54 PM
After the Northridge quake back in '94 it took me a while to get out of the house. Just as I got outside a neighbor across the street fired up his RV & hit the floodlights he had mounted on it. One of them was pointed directly on his neighbors lawn where I was treated to the sight of his 80+yo neighbors completely naked.
I was almost tempted to run back into the house that it took me damn near 15 minutes to get out of....
 john_in_bh
Joined: 12/25/2004
Msg: 35
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Posted: 10/12/2011 9:44:56 AM

....so what's the end of the story?

You had to take Viagra ever since?
 lovefinds
Joined: 9/3/2010
Msg: 36
NAKED AARP MEMBERS AMUCK!!
Posted: 10/12/2011 7:35:10 PM
Hilarious!! Just goes to show you.......you're never too old to be naked!!! LOL!! I think that was the moral of the story eh??
 MsAngelCat
Joined: 9/13/2011
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Posted: 10/13/2011 3:38:14 PM
I have stretch marks from having two kids... I love them and wouldn't change a thing : )_ I am confident when I take my clothes off and if he is a real man then he will love them too
 lone_ranger_74
Joined: 10/1/2011
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Posted: 10/16/2011 8:50:00 PM
I used to be a compulsive liar and my nose grew and grew. Now that I cut back on the lies my nose trimmed down and I have stretch marks on the sides of my nose..
 lovefinds
Joined: 9/3/2010
Msg: 39
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Posted: 10/30/2011 10:21:49 PM
After seeing the girl with over 100 messages in her inbox......men don't really care about anything.....if there's a big set of boobs attached to it.....seahags, sand lizards.......bring us your dried up, your burned out........ Men! Pull yourself together!
 IkeTurnersBoot
Joined: 8/26/2011
Msg: 40
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Posted: 10/30/2011 11:00:29 PM
Yeah, those all suck. Any guy who says they don't is probably lying or has a stretch mark saggy boob fetish. Here are the rules (usually).... Men work hard and make the money to take women on dates and impress you all with financial stability. This means that we have to bust our butts in school, bust our butts at the job, get a decent car to bring you to a decent place and hopefully impress you all to stay around long enough for sex, relationship or whatever the guy hopes for. It's a lot of work but what it provides the opportunity for us to do, is pay for dates, gifts, dinners etc. Women, during the courting process are required to look good. Period... that's it. The money you save on dinners you spend on your hair, nails, gym membership, shoes, nice jeans etc. Some of you will get pissy reading this but every guy makes exceptions as long as the girl looks good. You can be smart and good looking or dumb and good looking but ya gotta look good. So, our job requires long term career goals, hours in the office etc. You all, need to look good. I didn't write the rules, you can hate me and curse my name but walk down the street, watch a movie and the truth is there. So, get those stretch marks fixed! Get a boob job if you need, hit the gym, do what you need. You can still date of course but it'll be a lower quality guy. Not every time (Let's not argue semantics, this isn't third grade) but usually. If you feel like you need to get something fixed physically do it. Do NOT listen to the guys on here trying to impress every girl with his "Oh he cares" bit.
 john_in_bh
Joined: 12/25/2004
Msg: 41
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Posted: 10/31/2011 10:55:07 AM

After seeing the girl with over 100 messages in her inbox......men don't really care about anything


Yes, I agree that any girl with a set of boobs and a real v j gets a zillioin messages on POF. But it's not that men are so accepting of imperfections, fatness, ugliness, it’s because the numbers are so skewed that the guys have to take what they can get.

I laugh at some dating sites out there where it allows comments from any other member. I see a 250lbs scary woman and there are ten "comments" on her profile saying she is the most sexy pretty thing on the planet.
 lovefinds
Joined: 9/3/2010
Msg: 42
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Posted: 11/1/2011 12:38:29 AM
(quote)it’s because the numbers are so skewed that the guys have to take what they can get.(quote)

That's why the last two women I've dated weren't even from the county I live in.....if you can't get it locally.....get out of the locale. Both women had much more to offer than the typical women in my county also. Men have to realize they don't have to settle for the girl next door, next block.......try further out....the next town or state....it works really....and you won't find yourself in a dead end with a dead end relationship.
 john_in_bh
Joined: 12/25/2004
Msg: 43
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Posted: 11/1/2011 10:34:19 AM
There are almost 5 million single women in my county. If I can't find somebody worthwhile out of all that, there is something very very wrong.
 lovefinds
Joined: 9/3/2010
Msg: 44
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Posted: 11/1/2011 11:18:21 PM
Those numbers aren't bad......I think there's 3 Million in mine......It's kind of like the statistics thing though.......they test some 10 percent or something like that and you will basically get a general concensus of what you're dealing with. People are moving in and out all the time though, so you never know. Too bad those Russian spy women had to go to the dark side, they could have been somebody.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
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Posted: 11/7/2011 8:38:12 AM
Anyone who loves you will love your "imperfections" too.
 Rain587
Joined: 7/9/2011
Msg: 46
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Posted: 11/7/2011 9:16:52 AM
Amazing the men that say they have to settle. I think it's time for them to look inward and maybe they can see why their ideal woman won't give them the time of day.
 john_in_bh
Joined: 12/25/2004
Msg: 47
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Posted: 11/7/2011 10:31:42 AM
It's a known fact that 90% of the email men send in online dating go to the top 30% of women. (20's,30's, attractive, no kids, not overweight). That's why its so impossible for guys to get replies. Just take a look at the guys posting for Profile Reviews..

When you take that fact, and couple it with the fact that the M to F ratio is anywhere depending on age range from 3:1 to 5:1 this is what happens. Guys simply give up on getting what they want. Some..will go down the food chain further and further to get responses and end up being unhappy with what they get.
 CptJohnSheridan
Joined: 11/23/2011
Msg: 48
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Posted: 12/3/2011 7:12:09 PM
A beautiful heart is the only requirement I have ever had.
 mateo45
Joined: 1/17/2008
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Posted: 12/8/2011 6:26:09 PM
Amazing the men that say they have to settle. I think it's time for them to look inward and maybe they can see why their ideal woman won't give them the time of day.

To be fair, it's not simply men who sometimes have "unrealistic expectations". Or perhaps you haven't seen all the threads here re: the topic of "settling".... started by women!

Although I always luv the ones who are looking for "a knight in shining armor" (and that's only the first requirement... LOL)!!
 john_in_bh
Joined: 12/25/2004
Msg: 50
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Posted: 12/8/2011 10:50:03 PM

Although I always luv the ones who are looking for "a knight in shining armor" (and that's only the first requirement... LOL)!!


And don't forget the mortgage payments on your castle!

Just like a knight in shining armor...
From a long time ago..Just in time I will save the day
Take you to my castle far away..

----Peter Cetera
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