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| | I was doing better, but then I found out..Page 2 of 2 (1, 2) | | Nikki its hard to let go sometimes. The fact that you have to work with these people will make it even harder. Hold your head high and focus on your work. These two have to look at you every day and if you show a strong and confident front it will eat them alive.... | |
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| I was doing better, but then I found out..
Posted: 9/24/2011 10:17:22 PM | OP,
that sucked getting dropped like that after four years, you deserve far better. Was there are reason that after four years you guys weren't living together or married?
Still you should look at this like you have dodged a bullet, gotten a parole from a life sentence because you didn't want to be married to a man wh*re.
But look on the bright side. You say you feel angry, betrayed, and disrespected but you haven't betrayed or disrespected yourself until you make excuses for his bad behaviour and try to get him back.
You're okay. He will do the same to the new sweetie that he did to you, if she doesn't beat him to the punch. Go on with life... | |
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| I was doing better, but then I found out..
Posted: 9/25/2011 1:28:30 AM | | Just take comfort he will he seeing someone else before he stops seeing her. People like him constantly look for the next best thing. You want someone who is in it for you and not just in it until he can "upgrade". Move on at your own pace and try not to dwell on what could have been because it will never be. | |
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| I was doing better, but then I found out..
Posted: 11/12/2011 5:03:25 PM | I wanted to thank all who wrote words of encouragement to me on this post. I needed it. :)
I hid my profile for awhile as I decided I needed to take some time. But, I still come to the forums frequently. Every day, I pick up information that has helped me.
Looking back, I can see there were a lot of things that I ignored. But, time is helping me immensly.
Thanks again! | |
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| I was doing better, but then I found out..
Posted: 11/13/2011 12:24:00 AM | OP I am so sorry this happened to you.
it must be even more difficult because you have to see him and her at work.
personally I could not handle that so I cant give advice to you, I can only say that I hope that soon you can get over him and find a better man.
take care.
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| I was doing better, but then I found out..
Posted: 11/13/2011 5:10:29 AM | this is yet another prime example of why I refuse to get involved with co-workers, clients, and/or business associates.
OP, just go to work, put your professional hat on, do what you need to do, collect your paycheck, and go home.
I am sorry this has happened as this clown you were with is a real jack a$$ for not being a man to end the relationship.
From now on, ignore him, and the co-worker, and just go about your business.
- and don't worry for karma will take care of it all in due time.
Just remember what comes around goes around and what goes around comes around.....and paybacks are a total b*tch! | |
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| I was doing better, but then I found out..
Posted: 11/13/2011 9:26:52 AM | I am a male, 36, went thru the same thing, horrible, worst thing i`ve ever felt, so you are not along! I have not dated or even been with a woman since, no desire to.
What these ***holes need to realize is that, if you`re not happy with the relationship & want out, have the balls to say it, it will hurt but you will leave with some respect & still get what they want.
cowards.
the main thing is, don`t to this to someone yourself, don`t become what u hate, be a honest person and karma is on your side!
It is normal to be angry here, but don`t carry too much around, it`s a process, the human condition, but don`t give an ***hole the benefit or power of crushing your soul, they don`t deserve it! | |
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| I was doing better, but then I found out..
Posted: 11/15/2011 2:44:44 PM | Getting into a relationship with a work colleague should be a no no. Employers usually frown on that sort of thing, they don't like the idea that man hours are being lost while the lovers are passing e-mails, having little meet ups while in working hours etc etc.
Also i have seen it happen so often, that if there is a break up between these colleagues, one usually has to leave the employment as it is usually painful to meet each other not to mention the gossip which inevitably happens between the other workers.
Offices are particularly hot beds for this sort of behaviour from the lowliest filing clerk, or tea/domestic lady to the highest member of management. | |
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