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 kayleighr
Joined: 9/30/2011
Msg: 26
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i met up with a man from another dating website after 3 weeks of talking to each other over msn and texting. anyway as it was during the day my son was with me (thank god). he turned up late, it was one of the hottest days of the year he wore 2 layers of tops and a thick black coat, he looked different from his pics, he actually looked scruffy. anyway i bought him a drink and he never bought me one back. the convos were so boing and he kept trying to hold my hand. went into his work place and he told his collegue my son was his. he was just too weird for me.
 chromelove08
Joined: 11/17/2008
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Posted: 10/11/2011 12:37:48 PM
Well mine wasn't really a date because it didn't get that far. I had met this guy on another dating site. He looked nothing like his picture. Anyway, so we had decided we were gonna go to the lake and talk. He told me he didn't want to park his truck where it was and wanted to move it. I said ok i will meet you in the other parking lot across the street. I waited and watched him leave that lot and go on down the road. I called him and he picked up the phone then hung up. I totally forgot about him til a couple weeks ago he contacted me again saying he wanted to take me out. I told him no because i didn't trust him and why did he ditch me in the first place. He said it was because I was so pretty all he could think about was sex with me and didn't wanna ruin it. After that he kept asking me out everyday saying he regretted what he did and we could have a great future together. I blew him off everytime. About 3 days ago i get a phone call from his phone but it was a woman and she called to tell me he was a player. Some guys are nuts
 5150Rivergirl
Joined: 8/3/2008
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Posted: 10/11/2011 12:52:46 PM

He said it was because I was so pretty all he could think about was sex with me and didn't wanna ruin it.


HAHAHAHAHA!! Is that the best bullchit line he could give? What a prick. Not only ditch you, but insulted your intelligence too. What a douche.
 Bkrast
Joined: 2/9/2011
Msg: 29
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Posted: 10/11/2011 1:34:41 PM
The worst date I ever had was a blind date set up. A friend wanted to go out with a girl who would only do so if her friend had a date. Being a good sport I thought why not how bad could it be? Well, some people are just not attractive, not looking but the kind where her personality makes you not even want to be around them. I drove and this girl complained about everything in a whiney tone that reminded me of nails on a blackboard. Then my friend and the girl he was with began fighting. I gave serious thought to aiming the car at a ditch and jumping out while it was moving. Never again will I ever do a blind date without knowing something more about her!
 brown_eyed_girl_60
Joined: 8/14/2011
Msg: 30
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Posted: 10/11/2011 4:44:15 PM
I went on a date with this girl, she had me come over to her house where i found out she smoked like a pack a day. She said i have a surprise for you, and came out with her newborn son. After her mother took the baby to another room we sat down to watch a moive. A little while later she started scratching her head, and than infront of me took her clip on weave off...... needless to say i got out of there very soon after and yea had a few beers with my friends in a futile attempt to forget the date.


OMG! I actually laughed out loud! That has to be the funniest date! Sorry...I'm still laughing...
 sg99
Joined: 8/8/2009
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Posted: 10/11/2011 7:50:52 PM
Worst dates...wow, there are so many...

1) The one that showed up drunk and didn't look anything like her pictures (in her photos, she was brunette, maybe a size 4. In real life, she was a blonde, say size 16)

2) The one that had a really bad lisp. Now I always talk on the phone first.

3) The one that didn't say anything. Nothing. Nada. She emailed me the next day to say that I was her first date after being married for 15 years and was so nervous she couldn't talk. Being an optimist, I can now say I know what it would have been like to dine with Marcel Marceau.

4) The doctor that insisted that our gay waiter was staring at her chest.

5) The girl who chastised me on our date because a year earlier, I had been emailing with her and just stopped. I had forgotten. Probably deserved that one.

6) The one where a really fat guy sat down behind my date and I could see his butt crack the entire date. I was torn as to whether or not I should tell her. I didn't want to ruin her night, so I didn't. I was probably a horrible date because it was hard to look at her with that "thing" staring at me when I did.
 blueceleste
Joined: 6/2/2005
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Posted: 10/12/2011 2:44:06 AM

Worst date?
Started talking to this guy via a mutual friend from facebook. He told me he was divorced. We get to the restraunt, order our dinner and start drinking wine, where he proceeds to tell me that it's a "War of the Roses" active divorce. He mentions that they separated 2 months prior and she filed. Said he had a mistress and it was made public and proceeded to excuse his infidelity by saying she gained weight after their daughter was born and didnt make any attempts to loose it years later. Starts telling me about all the drama included with that, and the mistresses husband finding out, restraining orders, etc....then he shows me a PICTURE of his soon to be x wife AND mistress on his phone!!! LOL!
Im sitting there, just downing my wine, hoping the food will come quick and we can just part our separate ways...LOL


wow! who the hell would want that kind of drama?! i met guys in the past just online who were separated saying the same crap about their wives/gfs. one guy told me his gf is giving birth to their 1st child and is seeking women to **** while she is about to pop! i told him u should be ashamed of urself and he said he wasnt she will never find out blocked him so quick. cant stand those that just cheat think its ok with it and for u to accept them a waste of time
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
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Posted: 10/12/2011 7:23:56 AM
MsTennis....

I am not surprised

Consider this.... when men get in the presence of a woman that is clearly above them in character, intellect, conduct, etc they either get like a silly school kid or become an offensive angry beast..... a mature man of character will treat you as his equal with kindness and respect...
 WinstonDoubtfire
Joined: 7/29/2009
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Posted: 10/12/2011 7:24:21 AM
Yesterday, I met the first woman that I've ever met in my entire life that I hope to never meet the likes of again: She smelled like bologna. I kid you not. Like she bathed on a deli slicer.

If only there was a *sick* emoticon...
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 10/12/2011 7:39:32 AM
Here you go Rusty
 *army mom*
Joined: 6/9/2009
Msg: 36
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Posted: 10/12/2011 7:44:51 AM
The worst date I ever had was with this dude who apparently decided half-way through the date that I wasn't really his type and he tried to ditch me by introducing me to the bartender ...
 WinstonDoubtfire
Joined: 7/29/2009
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Posted: 10/12/2011 7:46:00 AM
Here you go Rusty


lol. thanks.
 brown_eyed_girl_60
Joined: 8/14/2011
Msg: 38
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Posted: 10/12/2011 1:11:02 PM
I've had a few for sure but I think all of yours especially Rusty and the guy who saw the "crack"...lol

I needed this laugh at the end of my day!

I don't even want to divulge what mine were...because a couple of them were from on here and in case they stalk...lol

I am sorry though for everyone's bad dates....but at least we know we're not alone~!

I'm still laughing at the guy who responded to Rusty with the emoticons!!!
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 10/12/2011 5:27:05 PM
That emoticon is colon 38 colon with no spaces in between.

Just helping Rusty out. We posters have to stick together.
 dark_mistress
Joined: 9/4/2011
Msg: 40
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Posted: 10/12/2011 8:48:22 PM
i feel for the most part i to attract the weird ones. what i would not give to date a normal type of man.

worst date i been on would have to be a tie between where i went to see incubus play at the pnc center. near the end of the concert the guy claimed needed to use the bathroom and never came back.when tried to call him seems he turned his phone off. left me stranded thankfully i figured out how to get home.

the other was more recently with a guy from on here who kept trying to get me to go back to his apartment. few days later i stupidly agreed out of pity to see him again at a bar to hear a band play. the place was great but the band was terrible. the guy kept bobbing his head to the music like a****too and drumming his fingers. made comments on every little thing i did and other half of the time was watching a baseball game. of course true to nature he once again tried to get me back to his place with an excuse of checking out his wine bottles. when all i really wanted was to get home. this time i did the smart thing and blocked him.
 EddieFreddie1969
Joined: 3/23/2011
Msg: 41
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Posted: 10/13/2011 9:45:38 AM
Went on a first date with a girl I met on here to a local pub. Was a nice girl and the conversation was going well until, all of a sudden, she has a boogie. What made it even worse it was one of those breathing boogies...you know, the ones that keep going in and out of your nose as you breath. Obviously I was way distracted at this point and scared to death that it would fly out on the next exhale, right into my drink.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
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Posted: 10/13/2011 10:40:27 AM
when on a first date and she asked me where's my car. I told her it's parked why? so you can drive me and my 2 kids around. While walking down the shopping strip she's asks again where'd you park. I say down the street it's not that far. Then she's like I'm going to go shopping, I'm like I'll stay and wait for you. While she's shopping I pull up with my car and wait for her, she's outside talking to some next dude. I smile and say hi and drive off . Learning experience of dating, act right and she wouldn't have to be downgraded.
 jan1025
Joined: 3/23/2009
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Posted: 10/13/2011 2:38:58 PM
Worse than a dog, but a date with a humping man: NOT FUNNY then, but funny now:

Just got to the beach, standing there catching the sunset, and others where there also standing at a distance. He started humping my right side of my hip.

I looked at him, he stopped.

Turned watching the sunset again, and he started to hump my side of my body (my hip).

I moved away from him. Looked at him.

Started watching the sunset again. He put his arm around me, and started to hump my hip again.

By this time I couldn't take it anymore and I said, "what is your problem?" He said, nothing.
I was like ok, let's go.
We get in the car, drove a few feet away, and he (we) ran out of gas.
I get home (after I paid for his gas).
My daughters boyfriend had to put a new battery in his car. Got to be kidding me!
When the battery didnt fit, we had to go back to the store (we had ten minutes to get to the store before it closed), because he bought a motorcycle battery by mistake It's true!

He did find his reciept in the parking lot, so that was good. (I'm not making this up!) It's true when I took him to the store to buy a battery, I waited in the (running) car (if we turned it off, it wouldn't start again) while he ran in to buy it, when he came out he threw the receipt in the parking lot, un beknowing to me!

Get back to my place, my daughter's boyfriend put the battery in his car for him, and he finally left.

Called me the next day, and asked me out again. I was about to hung up on him when I told him I didn't think it would work between us, so then he asked me if my daughter was interested in dating him?

OMG, I could not get rid of this guy!

In a nut shell. I forgot to mention the police that had to come while we were broken down, and that the reason why I even paid for his gas and took him back to the store to return the wrong battery he bought was because it was a holiday and he had to get to his mother the next day.... she had cancer and was dieing.

That was the worse date ever! I wish I could tell you all the inbetween mishaps that are too long to go into because if I could you all would be laughing your arses off!
 RT_2
Joined: 11/5/2010
Msg: 44
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Posted: 10/13/2011 4:28:40 PM
Background: met a girl who was just about to end her last semester at a local university, spent a couple hours with her, had a great time. About a week later went on a date with her that lasted several hours, mostly good though she lashed out verbally a few times, she called that night realizing her behavior had been inappropriate. She and I weren't compatible long-term (she was eager to have babies), but she seemed good for a summer romance; she would probably move out of the area within a few months.

The bad date was with her at Shakespeare in the Park, her idea and she was upset I didn't suggest something to do within 5-10 seconds after she asked. The reason I had nothing was she had just told me she did not graduate, had to take a class over the summer! I was stunned she wasn't be able to complete/pass a basketweaving class! Knew her summer class would cause her possible stress and her studies should take priority over any romantic activity. Agreed to go with her to the play on opening weekend.

Early afternoon the day of the performance, I called her to arrange the details. We agreed I would drive to her apartment, then we'd go together in my truck. Both of us would have already had dinner. When the play was over I'd drive her back to her place, then ... ??? She sounded quite enthusiastic on the phone. Cleaned my truck. Called her again just as I was about to walk out the door. Her demeanor had changed. Now she wanted us to drive there separately. Sounds like she got cold feet. It would be wiser if I had asked if she wanted to go some other night (a similar situation occurred this year and I was able to break it off because this year the girl was even colder). Would have been easier for me if she had already gotten cold the first time I called in early afternoon, then I could have postponed the date and found something good to do.

Didn't have trouble finding her even though she looked different: her hair color changed from the first two times we were together. When I arrived, an usher was standing close to her so I sat rather far from her on her blanket. She didn't seem to want me near her. I remarked how I had to move my feet back when other attendees were walking by - the typical response would be for her to pat the ground next to her and say to move up close to her. Instead, she made a bitter sarcastic remark of "Oh, that's so rough!" As a whole, the conversations we had before the play and during intermission were polite/civil, but she made a few other intent-to-wound sarcastic jabs, and she also tried to make me feel guilty about some things, and she let some conversations die. She also told stories showing her dysfunction, for example she didn't attend a friend's recent wedding because they forgot her birthday! Not only that, the previous Saturday she didn't attend services at her synagogue because they were honoring the couple's marriage.

The performance (Merry Maids of Windsor) was good enough, but the wicked female characters seemed mild compared to my date! She seemed to be in a mini-breakdown. When the play ended, I offered to walk with her to her car; she declined. Next day I emailed her asking if she got home safe; she replied yes and wished me well on the new job I was about to start. Never saw her again (shrug). Admission was free at the event, but my opportunity cost for going on the bad date was high - it was Memorial Day weekend and there were plenty of better things I could have done. My bad for not cancelling at the first indication she was going to be a head case. This year it was Taming of the Shrew and if I hadn't bailed out, this year's head case (who I never saw again) might have been much more of a shrew than the one in the play. I'm 0 for 2 on Shakespeare dates; will probably suggest something else next time a girl wants to go on one!
 Fleuron
Joined: 8/18/2010
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Posted: 10/13/2011 5:54:49 PM
This thread is great!

EddieFreddie1969, that story made me want to retch.

When I was with my last ltr and that kind of issue appeared with him, I’d just hand him a tissue and walk away for a while. He was cool with that.
 Glenoran1
Joined: 3/1/2009
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Posted: 10/13/2011 8:10:55 PM
RT_2, whatever you do, don't invite the next one to MacBeth! (grin).
 tsmith26
Joined: 2/16/2010
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Posted: 10/13/2011 9:59:10 PM
My last date talked the whole time about her History of Cocaine use, selling cocain, her miscarried child due to drugs... and how she got pregnant with her second child because of her ex "dead beat boyfriend" Then she told me about her mom that has Aids and is a Lesbian. I mean come on can you really top that!!?? Plus my stupid ass took her out to a fancy ass restaurant! Not good!
 Carolinaustin
Joined: 7/15/2010
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Posted: 10/13/2011 10:08:45 PM
You sound like you were the perfect gentlemen--and they're hard to find! She was at fault for not controlling the dog. Period!!!
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 10/13/2011 10:38:55 PM
@tsmith26: Never take a first date to a fancy restaurant. Your story proves my point.
 EddieFreddie1969
Joined: 3/23/2011
Msg: 50
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Posted: 10/14/2011 6:10:52 AM
This thread is great!

EddieFreddie1969, that story made me want to retch.

When I was with my last ltr and that kind of issue appeared with him, I’d just hand him a tissue and walk away for a while. He was cool with that.

Well I did keep rubbing my nose hoping she would get the hint. Even excused myself to go to the restroom, hoping when I returned it would be gone. Nope, still flapping along.
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