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 PassionGent
Joined: 5/16/2012
Msg: 576
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Why would you ever buy him a drink? Not me, if a man is seriously interested and we have been talking, I am old school and he pays.


Old school? I recall that (thankfully) by gone era. So, your money is yours, and his money is yours.

Old school.

That is from the era where the women stayed at home, did all of the housework, was not allowed to work, raised the young 'uns, right?

Old school.
 vanityfair55
Joined: 1/20/2009
Msg: 577
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Posted: 8/5/2012 6:56:00 PM
There are still some men like that! Sounds good to me lol
 BlokeInSydney
Joined: 5/7/2012
Msg: 578
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Posted: 8/5/2012 7:32:37 PM

Romantic, ain’t it?

“Oooh, baby….copulate me, now!”

What do you mean??!! I say that all the time!

Really gets the mood going, don't you think?
 funnygirl_13
Joined: 6/24/2012
Msg: 579
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Posted: 8/9/2012 8:54:49 AM

Then there was the woman from class (local college) who freaked out at a drive inn(she started sobbing and crying) half way through the date. She then told me how she had found her dad hanging in a closet when she was twelve. This was after some mild make out. I took her home posthaste. The next week after that she asked me when we were going out again. I just smiled…

Wow... you're a real sweetheart.
 metsjets7732
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 580
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Posted: 8/11/2012 7:43:15 PM
I talked to a girl in chatroom one night who invites me to her house, i believe i had seen a picture, maybe not it was a long time ago. she tells me ahead of time "door will be open just walk in" I get there and hear "im in bed..come under covers" Im so young and stupid i listen, I get in the bed ANd see its a guy with a wig. I say " i gotta get the condums from the car"...I took off and never return. I probably had never come closer to dying in my life. Being a male, and getting horny and going a couple months without sex can make a man do scary things.
 RedCapSue
Joined: 5/20/2012
Msg: 581
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Posted: 8/12/2012 3:41:12 PM
A gentleman I met on here a couple of years ago. We dated for a few months. He suggested we go to the Oktoberfest here. It was an hour or more away and I wasn't familiar with the route so he drove. (a very expensive Audi that I was sure turned into a sub or something ) When we got there we met up with a couple that was friends with him. 20 min later he dissapeared with the guy part of the couple leaving me with the a female I didn't know. (I'll add she was decent company). Over and hour later we finally found the guys. He was SO drunk he could barely walk. It took me 40 min to get him the car as we kept having to stop for him to drunk text someone. I had NO idea how to get home. I got him into the car, called a friend, got directions and proceeded to drive him and his car home while he threw up in my purse all the way home. (I didn't want him to puke in his nice car). Once we got to his apartment he was unconcious so I carried him "fireman" style (he was a thin marathon runner type thank god) up two flights of stairs and put him to bed. Slept on the couch checking that he didn't die. I never got a "thank you" or a "I'm sorry". He broke up with me later via "text" and told all our friends we were broken up before he bothered to tell me.

That was a BAD date :)
 DreamsHopeLight
Joined: 7/9/2012
Msg: 582
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Posted: 8/12/2012 5:58:22 PM
LOL You definitely have me beat, but I went out with this guy and we weren't very compatible. He took me to a nice restaurant and then we went to a bar for a drink afterwards. To make a long story short, when he went to take me home, I was in such a hurry to get out of his vehicle that my short dress accidentally caught on the seat and I mooned him!! He was the last man on earth that I wanted to see my butt..... No more thongs and short dresses for me.
 nn2_girl
Joined: 1/3/2011
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Posted: 8/17/2012 1:21:39 PM
Old one I know but hey ain't life grand. Glad I'm not featured on this one. LOL. X Keep smiling
 liberalearner
Joined: 5/3/2012
Msg: 584
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Posted: 8/17/2012 9:39:44 PM
Redcap, wow, unbelievable date/relationship, I feel your pain. How nice of you to stay with him to make sure he didn't die, well of course you said you were already dating for several months so that makes sense, but man I would've wanted to drop him off at the first emergency room and left.
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 585
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Posted: 8/17/2012 10:11:53 PM
cooldog65

More fool you for showing up for the second date. Unless she was putting out. However it is rude to take calls when you are out with someone and some people cannot live unless they are texting or talking every five minutes. Sad really. Those kids were trying to sabotage her dates I would say.
 Shropshiregirl75
Joined: 3/16/2012
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Posted: 8/18/2012 2:29:42 AM
Not sure if this technically counts as a date, but here's my last experience.

We'd gone through the usual messaging, texting, chatting route for a couple of weeks and then arranged to do something. Both agreed to spend an afternoon together and see how it went. Plan was to go bowling (always fun, right? Bit of banter about me beating him an all that), probably see a film if it went well (we'd picked one out that we both liked the look of) and then maybe something to eat.

So, he came to pick me up...and texted me from his car on the drive to say he was here. Thought that was a bit strange, but y'know...whatever. Then we go off bowling. Played 4 games, had a laugh, I beat him on 3 of them and there was a bit of gentle ribbing going on. Then we decided that we would go watch the film. So off we go. I paid, as he'd paid for the bowling, and we settle down. Halfway through, he whispers that he needs the loo and off he goes.

The end.
 stevie86251087
Joined: 7/24/2012
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Posted: 8/19/2012 5:14:57 AM
Well, I've gone on so many bad dates but I'll limit this to the ones that pertain to this site. Recently I met a guy on here, we had a lot in common and I thought he was attractive. Then we exchanged numbers and decided to meet up for a drink. I'm not sure how common it is on here to meet someone who does not look like what you had in mind from thier pictures. I am barely 5'4". I was wearing boots with a short heel, and when he walked in we were eye level. His profile says he was 5'8". (First red flag). Then I notice that he is a lot smaller than he looked in his pictures. The camera really does add 10 pounds. Within the first 10 minutes he tells me why he joined POF. His ex of over 4 years broke up with him and he went through a bad depression and just got out of detox a few weeks ago. But then he reassured me that in the last 4 weeks he has really calmed down, doesn't drink much anymore, and is totally over his ex. Then he says if his ex wanted to talk things over again he would hear her out and see where it would go. SERIOUSLY??? Then he orders a double Jack and coke. And within an hour, he downs 2 more****ails to my one beer. He kept asking me if I found him attractive "Do you like my muscles? Are they too big? Do you like me? Girls always tell me I have amazing eyes cuz they're so wild. I think that's why cats like me." He also kept asking me what I do to workout. I told him about 5 times that I mostly do yoga. Then we talk about how I was a gymnast when I was younger and he asks, "So you used to be in shape? Because you could be like that again. You just need to tone up and do some cardio." I'm a f***ing woman. I think I am well aware of how I could look better. I told him I needed to go home and wash my cat and left.
 greatgirl1977
Joined: 6/25/2012
Msg: 588
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Posted: 8/19/2012 7:58:09 AM
I'm not sure how common it is on here to meet someone who does not look like what you had in mind from thier pictures.


Yup, this is pretty common. Don't be surprised if this happens again.
 shaew
Joined: 1/24/2012
Msg: 589
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Posted: 8/19/2012 9:42:56 AM
I have to say the lady hiding behind the plant story will have me laughing ALL day... I know it sucked but what a great story... LOL!
 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
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Posted: 8/25/2012 5:31:32 PM
the worst date i've ever been on? i honestly have not had a date that i would say was bad.i really can't think of any i would want to call the worst.
 mybrownidgirl
Joined: 5/2/2012
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Posted: 8/27/2012 1:33:49 AM
First date with some one from POF, when i was on here a couple of years ago. We meet at a nice restaurant, he's dressed in jeans and a decent shirt. He pulls out my chair for me, and seem to be an alright guy. he tells me that i'm even better looking in person and other flattering stuff. he orders prime rib for dinner for himself. We are having a good conversation, and the food arrives. this man picked up his piece of prime rib with his fingers in one entire piece and begins to chew off the fat on the meat. Then puts it back on the plate and wipes his mouth on the sleeve of his shirt! I sat there stunned! He continued to eat this way until it was gone. As if that were not bad enough, after the plates were removed, he sat there sucking his teeth making these God-awful noises. I wanted to crawl under the table and disappear. I was never so happy to leave a place in my life! But as we are going out the door, he runs into this woman coming in. She looks up and said to him, Jim what are you doing here? He fumbled for words and i couldn't understand one of them. they look like they are having a heated discussion, so i wander away and wait. When he joins me, I asked "what was that all about?" He replies "Oh don't worry about it, that was my wifes sister."
I said you mean your EX-Wife? Awww No the one at thome, I told her I had a church meeting tonight. i was so glad that i always drive myself to a date, because i left him standing there. I hope his wife met him at the door with a rolling pin or something equally dangerous! NOTE tO MEN: table manners are important, and cheating husbands do get caught!
 big222blue
Joined: 10/10/2011
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Posted: 8/27/2012 1:51:25 PM
LOL, better there than later!! worst for me was with a girl who proceeded to tell the hotel check in counter that she met me in the restaurant and liked me so much she was taking me upstairs for a little weeny licking!!! couldn't believe it because there was limited attraction I thought. I kept my weeny in my pants and kept her from biting it off!!
 Michaelc1986
Joined: 7/19/2012
Msg: 593
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Posted: 8/27/2012 3:02:22 PM
Worst date I've ever been on wasn't from online dating... I knew this girl and she messaged me in FB asking if I wanted a few drinks. She was pretty cute and friendly so i said, yeah why not. Go to bar and sit down, shes drinking vodka and lemonades. First thing she tells me is how she got raped by a scottish fellow... I was like umm ok, are you ok now? Then she starts talking about her ex-boyfriend about how hes a****and all that. When we got outside she passed out on the ground. I got some help and the ambulance said she pretended to pass out... All my friends had a good laugh when I told them the next day at least.
 maria4u
Joined: 3/21/2010
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Posted: 8/27/2012 4:31:49 PM
OMG!!! that is too funny, I would of died of embarassment lol
 FairOaksChick
Joined: 11/7/2011
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Posted: 8/27/2012 5:05:20 PM
I wouldn't consider it a bad date, but odd. I met a man from POF for a drink at a happy hour and he made it clear that he dislikes noise and noisy environments. So when the waitress asked if we wanted to order anything, even an appetizer, he immediately said 'no' without even asking me.

So we left and on the way to our cars I pointed out a stray momma cat with her kittens. I knew he was an animal lover. He was very interested in them and he was tempted to go home and bring back cat food for them. Then we decided to walk through a small village we both live near. I pointed out a skunk and he went running chasing after it, to get a better look. OMG!!! Like a little kid might do, lol! And he is my age - 50! Thank goodness he didn't get too close to it or I would have ended it then and there. Then we went and sat in a park watching a woman play with her toddler son. I was so not into any of this. Would have much preferred to stay at the happy hour and drink and eat and talk. I dealt with it by clamming up and giving one-word responses.

So the date ended. I don't know why but a day or two later I agreed I would be open to seeing him again. I think he is attractive and therefore willing to give him a second chance. He suggested coming over to my place. I said only on the condition that there will be no sex. I don't know if he was joking but he started writing back 'No sex?' Then he wrote that he was feeling kind of tired. I said "well I know what I am good for" and told him to move on. He said he was just joking.
 Bwadsp24
Joined: 7/15/2012
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Posted: 8/29/2012 12:05:13 PM
Went home with this lady and first she took her teeth out, then took her wig off, then took her faulse eye out followed by her leg. I could not decided if I should get in the bed with what was left of her or get into the wardrob with the bits!
 Roman de la Rose
Joined: 4/10/2009
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Posted: 8/29/2012 12:43:38 PM
Possibly the one where we went for a sunny walk in the park and a young fox came up in the first ten minutes and bit me on the foot.. the date only got worse from that point on..
 Nightzfire
Joined: 7/30/2012
Msg: 598
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Posted: 8/31/2012 1:08:07 AM
it's even better when they bring their friend along with you guys to the movies as a first date! lol
 mike215215
Joined: 2/15/2011
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Posted: 8/31/2012 1:30:22 AM
how about bringing her kids with her! cuz she could not afford a sitter....neither could she have planned on a day/evening when her parent/friends could have watched the kids... fro a few hours!


how about lonely women bringing her little doggy in her purse to a date!!


run for the hills!
 haveakitten30000
Joined: 10/4/2011
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Posted: 8/31/2012 6:55:17 AM
yall have really wild stories....my dates are fairly normal
worst ones

only happened once but it happens to everyone==lying pictures---did not even recognize the person

and a guy who grabbed/touched tried to handle me literally every second of the night
this was not affection but some odd attempt to do something else---I have met people like this
before and run fast the other way===========
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