|
|
|
|
|
| | worst date u went onPage 3 of 29 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29) |
The worst date I ever had was with this dude who apparently decided half-way through the date that I wasn't really his type and he tried to ditch me by introducing me to the bartender ...
That is bad ...
My worse .... meet a woman on POF ... and meet at a coffee shop ...
We are sitting down ... having COFFEE .... and she says i need to get my cel phone from the car.
She gets in the car and .... i see her drive away ...
Last time i see her ... you can image ...
 | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/14/2011 3:33:06 PM | These all make me feel a lot better about my terrible dates. I've had two so far, both bad ones from here. The first was a guy I was on my second date with. The first date went really well and I thought he was a sweetie. On the second date, all of a sudden he started talking about women's roles, and how women should be "barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen" basically, and that's why he liked dating foreign women, because they're much more submissive than American women. At another point I was talking about the fact that I;ve always wanted to take kickboxing lessons and he said quote "Do you seriously think a guy would open the door for you after knowing you take kickboxing lessons? The only lessons women should take, if at all, are like, ballet lessons." Neanderthal.
The second one was even worse. It was again our second date. I thought he was a little odd on the first but decided to give it a second try. We were going to a carnival type thing in another borough, and he got lost on the way, but then proceeded to tell me he didn't really care about being lost, and would rathger find a hotel to go f*ck in or a quiet place to park his car, and have sex there. How romantic. I obviously said no, he stopped the car and said "Listen I really have no desire to talk to you at all. Are we going to have crazy bamboo monkey sex or what?" He apologized immediately after but still, it freaks a girl out. | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/14/2011 3:47:13 PM |
I would've called her and left a message asking her if she thought the Starbucks was out of sugar and creamers and went to purchase them.
It was Tim Horton Dunut shop in Canada ..... Safe place to meet .... Cops pickup their donuts and coffee all the time ....  | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/14/2011 8:40:53 PM | | Met with what seemed to be a nice guy but very nervous. We talked for a while and it was pleasant. Then he started telling me that if we were going to see each other I would not be permitted to date anyone else starting then. THEN he told me about his arrest and how he is a registered sex offender (yep, I am a single mother so that was scary)..... Unfortunately he knew my number and blew up my phone with messages asking why I didn't like him. Hmmm NEW number! Thank GOD he didn't know where I lived or worked! | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/14/2011 9:19:21 PM | January:
Thank God/Spirit the universe you made it home safe and weren't raped!
You were one of the lucky ones!
I can't imagine it... I wouldn't want to!
 | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/15/2011 4:04:07 AM |
..then he shows me a PICTURE of his soon to be x wife AND mistress on his phone!!! LOL!
WHY oh WHY!!! Showing pictures of the ex is a big no no and I bet you didn't even ask! | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/15/2011 4:16:31 AM |
THEN he told me about his arrest and how he is a registered sex offender
WOW At this point I would have had a heart attack! | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/15/2011 5:27:48 PM | I met this woman on another dating site. We decided to meet at a local bar. I showed up and she had 6 of her friends with her and 'surprise' it's her birthday! So I bought a round of drinks for everybody and tried to talk to her a little, but by the time I got there she was pretty wasted. Eventually she spilled a drink all over me and passed out. Her friends really liked me and tried to make excuses for her, but that was the last time I saw her.
I went on a date with another woman who was into numerology. She asked me my birthdate, the number of people in my family, etc. I went along with it for awhile until she pulled out a picture of Abraham Lincoln she carries in her purse, and told me she was numerically equal to Lincoln. Then she asked if I could give her $50 so she could pay her rent. I took her home before we went to dinner.  | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/15/2011 7:13:44 PM | | @computergeek361: Numerically equal to Lincoln means $.01 or $5, not $50 I would have told her. | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/15/2011 8:02:58 PM | | The other night, I paid both our cover fee for bar/band ten each buy each a drink, first meeting, the entire time shes on her iphone probably on plenty of fish. Granted Ive been on dates when I wasn't into the person I am looking at, but it was so rude. I was shocked, didn't know what to say. I shouldve walked out on her when I went to the bathroom. hour and twenty minutes we were there and she was on i phone internet 40 minutes. She wasnt even hot..Ive dated girls a lot more attractive. just an ass I guess. Not even a thank you for the money spent. I feel bad for the next guys that will waste money on her. | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/16/2011 8:21:59 AM | Rawr773, your story might not be over yet.
Couple of years down the road you might end up on a Maury episode called "I slept with 10 different guys on the same day and I am in desperate need to find out who is the daddy so I can milk him for money." Just something to look forward too.  | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/16/2011 8:43:19 AM | | As long as Maury says the magic words..."You are NOT the father!" | |
|
| |
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/16/2011 2:11:58 PM |
As long as Maury says the magic words..."You are NOT the father!"
So true ... watched Maury sometime .... one had 5 guys checked out .. and NONE were the father .... she needs to get a daytimer ... i guess to keep track... | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/19/2011 7:07:57 PM | @tsmith26: Never take a first date to a fancy restaurant. Your story proves my point.
Your right about not taking a 1st date to a fancy restaurant!! I'm never doing that again..... | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/19/2011 11:31:04 PM | Well, the only one that comes to mind right now really wasn't nearly as bad as some of the ones told above but oh well. :)
The first girl I went on a date from who I met on POF turned out not quite as expected. I live in North Las Vegas, she lives in Henderson (South las Vegas) so we met half way in between at a casino on the strip. I got there, dropped my car with the valet and walked inside to head to the place where we were going to get a drink and chat before heading off to see a show and I bumped into her window shopping one of the stores on the way through. She was beautiful in her pictures on the site but she was even more beautiful in person. We said hello and chatted for a few minutes then she dragged me over to the window, pointed at the dress on the mannequin and asked if I liked it. Considering the $500 price tag how could I not like it. She then suggested I should buy it for her. I figured she was playing but for just a brief moment she actually looked ticked when I didn't pull out my wallet right then and there.
So we made our way to the bar talking as we went and based on her line of questioning it quickly became obvious that she was looking for a guy to finance a very lavish lifestyle for her. The main thought that was running through my head was "gold digger". We got to the place, ordered drinks and talked for a while as her questions about my finances, how big is my house, what kind of car do I own how much does that watch I'm wearing cost rolled on. I answered as politely as I could without giving any real information away. I'm far from rich but I do ok for myself and I am happy with what i have because I worked hard to get it.
Exactly one hour after we were supposed to meet two of her friends "happened by" saw us and immediately came over to say hello. They invited themselves to sit down and we all chatted for a few minutes. It was obviously the "save me" crew coming to find out how things were going and decide if she needed to be pulled out of the date. I was actually glad she had thought that far ahead because I was looking for my exit strategy. It was pretty obvious to me that I wasn't interested in her. She may be beautiful but she'd have me bankrupt in about a month. By this point it was pretty obvious to her that I wasn't interested in being her sugar daddy. So I politely suggested that since she "hadn't seen these friends in a long time" she should spend some time with them and we could always catch up at some time in the future. I thanked her for the conversation, we said our goodbys and I headed for the door.
I went out and handed my ticket to the valet to get my car then noticed a guy I had talked to at a different casino a few weeks before waiting for his car at the other end of the valet area. I didn't actually know the guy, he's just someone I met while waiting on the valet and talked cars with for a bit. As I was talking to him, the girls walked out, saw us and went strait to the extreme opposite end of the valet area to huddle up and talk. About this time the valet brought his bright orange Lamborghini Murciélago around. My dates jaw just about hit the floor. Stevie Wonder could have read the WTF on her face. We continued talking while he put the top down on his car and the valet brought the black Corvette convertible I owned at the time around. I dropped the top, we chatted for a few seconds longer as all three girls looked absolutely perplexed and we both got in our cars and pulled out. I wasn't even at the end of the drive when I got the first text from her. "I had a great time, we should definitely do it again!" There were about 10 texts on my phone by the time I got back to my house.
I just don't have it in me to be mean to people who don't deserve it but I knew what she was after and I wasn't interested. Even after she "knew" I wasn't what she was looking for she was still friendly so she didn't deserve to be treated badly. I tried to be nice. I was careful not to lead her on and told her flt out that I really wasn't interested in going out with her again but it still took me a full week to get her to stop texting, calling, e-mailing and leaving voice mails. In retrospect I probably should have just told her thanks but no thanks right away but hind sight is 20/20. | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/20/2011 5:30:59 PM | | Ha! that happened to me too. I talked for a few weeks with a guy on the phone, decided to meet in a town in the middle of our two towns. I couldn't find him at first then when I did I had to go to the bathroom, he suggested a gas station. I went, came out and then he decided he wanted to sit by the lake and talk. He took off and lost me. Never heard from him again. Then he had the nerve to email me again and again saying he wanted to see me. What the H?? | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/20/2011 10:19:47 PM | | Ha if we lived in the same area then i would think it was the same guy lol. | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/23/2011 11:27:20 AM | My worst date equals all of them; but here is one that stands out:
I met a woman online, for the second time since I started experimenting with this online dating thing. We talked for about a week and were having a lot of great conversations and laughs over the phone before I finally asked her out on a date.
I went to see her the following weekend, she lived in another city so it took me awhile to get there. The first date felt very awkward; she seemed extremely tense and I could tell it wasn't just because of the date. I met her at her apartment before we left for our little adventure around the area; but, before departing I took a quick glance around her place and noticed some things that caught my attention as being very peculiar.
So we hope into her car while she drives me to her dads lake house where we go swimming and hang out in a hot tub till the evening, chit chatting the time away. On the way home she started to become overly sexual towards me; a normal guy might not have thought anything of it; but, it seem totally random and out of place to me. Not going into too much detail; but, she started heavily flirting and making advances, touching and rubbing on me periodically.
When we get back to her place she starts drinking one beer after another. She kept offering me a beer every time she had one; but, I refused because I'm a cautious man and like to stay sober in case I need to escape. It wasn't long before she started to pull her cloths off and attempt to have her way with me. I admit I almost fell into the the trap; but, I quickly gathered my senses and pulled her off me. I said, it was waaaay to soon for that as respectfully as I could; which she agreed and understood. That was the end of the first date.
Now the second date is when it gets really really odd!
I went back to see her again the following weekend for round two. We met up at a coffee shop before we hulled butt back to her place late in the evening. We show up there and chatted for a little bit before one of her "friends" called; which, transformed into an emergency. So we end up driving across town to go see her friend, who I found out on the way is a lesbian and who was having a frantic melt down. We get there and I walk in the door I immediately get a cold look from the said friend and they walk into the bedroom and close the door as they start arguing.
It didn't take me more than 5 seconds to realize what was going on. They were ex-partners and she was going bonkers because the girl I was with was with a man.
So after listing to a lesbian quarrel for a few minutes through a wall, my date came back out and was ready to leave. She suspected that I didn't catch onto what was going on; but, I saw red-flags all over her apartment.
We head to a restaurant where we sit down at this random table in this secluded area. I though, hrmm this is odd; but, oh well. We started casually talking about the evening and out of nowhere she drops a bomb on me. She says, "This is the table where my husband proposed to me". I thought she was just being funny at first; but, I realized quickly she was not joking. Needless to say the evening took a rapid downward spiral and I quickly left town.
I left out a bunch of parts; but, I think you get the general idea.
I found out later she ended up leaving her husband and went full blown lesbian for awhile; but, I guess that life style was a little too frantic for her; because she went back to guys again about 8 months later. I was fortunate to have control over my hormones; she was very attractive and hard to resist, especially while naked; but, I used my better judgment and got out of that train wreck before it went over the cliff. | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/24/2011 2:26:15 AM | Just yesterday the guy turns up 5foot two inches, fat and balding.....claimed he was a warlock and could cast spells.......He says on profile he is 5ft 7in ches and plays sports of all kinds, not with that gut he doesnt.......I had a coffee but made my excuses.
Hope he doesnt put a curse on me lol.... | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/24/2011 2:35:32 AM | Bunnygal
Why on earth would you get into his car on the first date or even the second.
Women amaze me the risks they take.....he could have taken you anywhere and done anything..... It sounds like a disaster all around.
I like you have been in a dilemma a few times about how to exit gracefully and I think the next time I will choose a vantage point where I can see him before he sees me.
THen get away.. When they lie about their looks, their height, their weight etc
they deserve to be stood up, I have decided..... | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/24/2011 1:17:59 PM | This thread is fantastic! I love these kinds of stories-- totally crack me up.
They have TONS of these on DatingFails dot com
HILARIOUS! | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/24/2011 9:07:24 PM | I just went on a date with a guy on POF and it was just awful. He was too pushy and couldn't take no for an answer. I told him to meet me at the restaurant and he kept asking to pick me up. Finally I got it through to him that I would drive myself. He had a nervous annoying laugh. I listened to it the entire 2 hours we spent together and I wanted to scream after awhile. He went to the bathroom during dinner and came back saying "that felt good". He constantly repeated himself and laid it on thick telling me how cute I am, that I have nice eyes and blah blah blah. There was awkward conversation at times during dinner. At the end of dinner I offered to pay and he accepted which is fine, but his profile said he would treat a girl on the first date. Talking to him though he seemed stingy. He is a car salesman so I felt like he was in car selling mode and he certainly wasn't selling me.
So dinner wasn't completely awful, but I knew I wasn't interested and I don't like to be a jerk so I agreed to spend a little bit more time at a casino. We drove seperate to the casino then he insisted on holding my hand. I kept pulling my hand away every chance I got. Then he kept trying to put his arm around me and I would move away. We ran into my brother and I refused to introduce them so he took it upon himself to introduce himself. After he proceeded to tell me how he likes how I interacted with my brother. We kept walking around the casino and I told him I don't gamble but he could so he would sit at a machine and try to get me to sit next to him and he didn't seem to understand that you are not to sit in the chairs unless you are using the machine. He sat at numerous machines but never played. I finally told him I'm not going to continue walking around like an idiot. We went outside and he asked to go back to my place and I declined so he asked to sit in the car and talk so I said fine. We sat in his car and he bragged to me about his brand new vehicle his work provided for him and pays the insurance for, but yet didn't pay for my dinner which turned me off. He then told me how much he liked me and he wants a relationship. I said I need to take it slow. He kept trying to kiss me and I pulled away. He said oh come on it's okay. I just kept pulling away. Finally I told him I was tired and needed sleep. He said he would call me when he got home. I said fine.
The next day I decided to break it to him I wasn't interested. When I told him his exact response through text was.. "Im devastated.. after all we've been through how could you do this to me" I refused to respond. Then he sent one more text and this was the kicker. He wrote "I drove all that way to come see you.. and treated you to dinner" hahaha how is me paying treating me? I honestly saw some mental instability in him by the way he acted and talked. Glad that's over. I was texting the entire date too and he just didn't seem to get I wasn't interested. | |
|
kullen
| | Joined: 11/4/2009
Msg: 74 | |
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/24/2011 9:26:05 PM | I just had to tell you that I have been LMAO reading your post. These dating stories are even funny with a couple of glasses of wine. Thanks for sharing, you made my night, laughing is good for your health.
 | |
|
| worst date u went on
Posted: 10/25/2011 2:55:00 PM | | Wow, I can't even make up half of these stories... I haven't been gotten a date through here yet, but please tell me this is NOT the norm. | |
|
|
|
|
Page
3
of
29 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29)
|
|
Home
login 
